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|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by kunlenkirol(m): 1:33pm On Mar 05, 2015|
freecocoa:When u begin to call people's opinion trash, then I begin to wonder what yours will be. Many of us don't face reality. We allow our emotions to becloud our sense of reason. A supposed SS1 student sleeping with brother... And brother who is supposed to be a role model sleeping with a supposed small girl. Who has d chunk of the blame. Both ofcourse. What is d way out? Abortion ofcourse. The guy will finish service and look for job in a country where the mighty get it by force and the girl too will loose some years taking care of the baby. To buy Cerelac 1,2,3 is a herculean task to man who is just climbing d ladder. It is not certain that d guy will marry her, if he did, they will end up divorcing or not loving each other cos they are not on d same page. To avoid all these, they should abort it esp now dt it is still a fetus, it cannt be regarded as a human person. Guy, go abort am.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by Sophyrocks: 1:36pm On Mar 05, 2015|
@ the bolded, of course they cannot survive there. The least they can do is come to nairaland and complain of how the laws over there are too harsh and unfavorable. That is how they go about disgracing us over there in the different crimes they commit. It is only a nigerian that has the guts to push drugs in an asian country where death penalty is used often. Then they cry out to GEJ to come and release them.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by kunlenkirol(m): 1:42pm On Mar 05, 2015|
GodMode:You must be a mentally deranged person. Your case is a concluded case, I can see that in ur comment. It is a pity that I don't know u, I would have shown u how to deal with a maggot infested brain like u.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by kunlenkirol(m): 1:47pm On Mar 05, 2015|
Sophyrocks:good woman, you are very correct. The deed has been done and what is the way out for both parties. They still have a long way to go.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by FlyNedd: 1:48pm On Mar 05, 2015|
If the girl is below 18, your friend has committed statutory rape (which is having intercourse with a minor i.e. someone under 18). Your friend should be very worried because statutory rape is much easier to prove since it doesn't even matter that the act was consensual or that the offender did not know that the girl is below 18. Now, the big question is: why do (old) men love to sleep with children? Even former Italian PM, Sylvio Berlusconi (in his 70's), was accused of same thing. And now there's Sunderland's Adam Johnson too. One thing is certain: your friend is in a lot of trouble.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by Sophyrocks: 1:51pm On Mar 05, 2015|
The way out is to be responsible over the child and the parents of the girl must be told. If he wants to marry her, then he should go ahead. Shikena. Next time, he should keep his d1ck in check if he isnt ready to carry oout the consequences. Guys, control your d1cks!!
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by freecocoa(f): 2:18pm On Mar 05, 2015|
kunlenkirol:Seriously, it's not fun calling people names but sometimes people need it. I honestly don't know where to start with you cos you are speaking from both sides of your mouth at the same time.
$ex happened between a misguided or even spoilt SS1 girl and a full blown man who has passed through the four walls of a university, and you are asking who should take more blame? I am ashamed on your behalf.
I saw a comment of yours stating how hard this girls come at corpers, how hard it is to resist them and I shed a tear, you, a supposed learned person enters a village to serve and the secondary school girls who probably don't even know how to bathe properly yet,or even the nitty gritty of $ex/all that comes with it,seduce you and you boldly open your mouth to say it's not easy to resist, kai! You should tear your certificate, obviously the word 'class' is alien to you.
See you shouting "abort" like it's going to the mall to buy candy. Do you even know that the procedure can come with some complications? Do you know the medical history of this girl? Do you know the doctor she'll be taken to? Do you know anything about his qualification? This is how people's children are impregnated and killed on daily basis, are you sure you are a graduate? geez! What is wrong with you people?
I am only of the opinion that the girl's people be in the know of whatever is going on, so they can guide the girl into making the right decision, which in my opinion is, whatever she decides to do with the pregnancy.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by rationalmind(m): 2:36pm On Mar 05, 2015|
It isn't an exception to have 23 year olds in JSS1 and by extension secondary schools. It depends on where you look. You have decided to look at schools in the city using a classmate of yours as an example.
You have forgotten that in villages, northern villages especially, it's not unusual to find students within age groups 18-23 still in secondary school. Considering the fact the bulk of corpers are posted to remote areas, it's more likely that this SS1 student in question is a lot older than you think.
Secondly, you and I have different opinions on morality. I don't consider a crime, a sexual relationship between two consenting adults irrespective of whether one is a teacher and the other a student as long as that activity of theirs affects no other.
I might also have asked the guy why he didn't use a condom because I assume he's not a paedophile and the lady in question is above 18 years and you can feel he's a paedophile based on an assumption the lady is a minor.
It doesn't make you any more right than I am neither does it give you any moral grounds to refer to those with opposing assumptions fucktards.
Lastly, you raised a very valid point by saying the thread wouldn't have been necessary if the lady wasn't a minor. However, there are several other factors that might warrant the thread. He's just a Corp member with no source of income, he's not yet ready to father a child and lots more.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by kunlenkirol(m): 2:43pm On Mar 05, 2015|
freecocoa:You surely have class freecocoa. It class is inherent in ur profile name. Its obvious that u don't know how to talk in public. Must u attack another before u make ur point? Its a pity that somebody like u is allowed in dis thread. Why don't u make ur point and go. U also advised me to tear my certificate cos I made a statement that does not tally with ur way of like. U may not even be a worthwhile person, u may even be someone who is trying to appear good to gain cheap point. Bravo idiot! If u can say that to someone, I wonder what u look like. You said u shed tear, its ur choice to shed tears d 'holy' one. We are talking about reality u are talking about what u learnt in school. A problem is at hand, rather than make ur contribution, u decided to abuse people. Don't u know that when u attack one cos u feel his or her argument is not in conformity with urs and later give useful advise, no one will take ur suggestion serious but will decide to go after u. U better go and learn virtues. U that u are even talking, who know how many abortion u have made and u are here behaving like a fool.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by Vikky014(f): 2:45pm On Mar 05, 2015|
chloride6:ok. can i come and kill you then
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by OpraMenu(m): 3:14pm On Mar 05, 2015|
paolo96:GUY, I NO LIKE YOU . BAD PIKIN
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by freecocoa(f): 3:27pm On Mar 05, 2015|
kunlenkirol:Oh please give me a break with the bla bla bla you are yapping, tackle the issue you brought up and stop grasping at straws mister.
1.You said refusing a minor's seduction is hard. Who reasons this way? I'll answer, a Pedo.
2. You made it seem like no big deal sleeping with a secondary school girl because she knows how to "feck", screams pedo again.
3.You screamed "abort" like it's a walk in the park without considering everything involved in the procedure. I ask again, are you sure you are a graduate?
4 Pot call kettle black much? Why didn't you take your own advice by making your point and also leaving? Why quote me?
5. I said you should tear your cert yes, not because your opinion doesn't tally with my way of life but because, you sound too ignorant for a supposed learned person.
6. Another dumb statement, trying to appear good to who exactly? Do you know me in person? You can start a thread asking NLanders if they know me, see how many does, so what will appearing good to a bunch of "ghosts" achieve? Gain What points exactly?does Seun pay people or give points for comments? seriously stop disgracing the university you supposedly graduated from.
7.The real reality is, it's a crime to sleep with an underaged person(which you seem to neglect) and then you suggest abortion in a country where abortion is illegal, dude seriously, pity yourself small, you too ignorant, get some knowledge.
8.Another real reality is, it is a shameful thing supporting wicked people including the OP calling it "facing reality" (then again you are one of them) so no surprise on that.
9. Playing the victim card by trying to paint the picture into me insulting you, is a very shallow/pathetic thing to do, you hope that people will back you up on this thread, perhaps?
10.I don't suffer f00ls gladly so I'm ever ready to put them in their place, you being the chief of them all here, more especially because you pretend to be enlightened when you are only but a dumb pedophilia supporter in disguise.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by TS2(m): 3:31pm On Mar 05, 2015|
This is why I blame PDP.
They have taugh impregnators to deny they really impregnated other people and blame their friends for their misdeeds.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by AGBb(m): 3:32pm On Mar 05, 2015|
dedons:U sure say no be u.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by OpraMenu(m): 3:35pm On Mar 05, 2015|
GUY WEDA NA YOU O OR NA YOU FRIEND O. Marriage Don Reach Be That.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by freecocoa(f): 3:53pm On Mar 05, 2015|
rationalmind:If you are using northern villages as your yard stick for measurement then I can continue to say it an exception, as only the northern part of the country doesn't account for majority, plus a 23 years old in that part will be on the verge of becoming a grandma.
Coming to villages in general, there will be a divide, as most of the students will be below 23, most 23 years old in the villages are married with kids or engaged in one trade or another. #fact
This has nothing to do with morality, it is a criminal offense to be involved in a sexual relationship with your student. I bet you didn't consider this because Nigeria operates as a lawless country(most times) still, what is a crime is a crime.
I call them fucktards because they seem to support a criminal offense and if a corps member, someone who's passed through a university is irresponsible enough to impregnate his student and is seeking for help on what to do in a public forum, then by all means, he deserves some serious names calling.
Yea, no one is perfect but that doesn't mean we should celebrate stup1dity. Some things don't have a divide, so there's no point trying to be on different sides of morality here, this is one of such things, a spade should always be called a spade.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by rationalmind(m): 4:24pm On Mar 05, 2015|
Even if I agree with you that older ladies in secondary schools are exceptions as against the norm, you can't rule out the possibility that the SS1 student in question is an exception. No?
That's the difference between you and I. While I'm ready to entertain the possibility that the lady is matured hence refraining from criminalising the op, you refuse to consider it probable.
You did say that consensual sexual intercourse with ones student is a criminal offence irrespective of the age of the student. Where did you get that from? Under which law is it a crime?
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by toprealman: 4:33pm On Mar 05, 2015|
Tell him to start saving for pampers.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by jerrymej(m): 4:44pm On Mar 05, 2015|
It's not funny to you sha!
But it's funny to me o!
Perfect strike. At least he's going back to where he's from with two solid certificate (NYSC & a Baby).
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by Gorgeous58(f): 4:54pm On Mar 05, 2015|
When you had the sex with the teenager,you did not ask for advise,now you have made her pregnant,you dey disturb people, marry her nah, mtchewwwwwww,child abuse
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by Jhayeahsam01(m): 5:05pm On Mar 05, 2015|
the guy na mumu, he no see corper pucci Bleep
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by Ficeo(m): 5:11pm On Mar 05, 2015|
Dont commit abortion please. U can help her give birth to the child by paying for the hospital bills since you dont love her to d extent of wedding her. Chai! U really bleeped up. Full time...
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by reminiscing(f): 5:29pm On Mar 05, 2015|
if this is his 3rd month there,then in 9months time your friend will b Going back home with Two or three certificates(marriage,birth and youth service certificate).What a good way to start life.....help me wishing goodluck
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by koyyess: 5:59pm On Mar 05, 2015|
Op, we know it's you because most NL males are capable of committing such nonsense. If you were abroad, you would be charged and jailed for having sex with a minor. But not to worry- start saving all your remaining allowee for introduction and house rent. Her parents would be happy that she is marrying a graduate so don't fret. If you saw yourself man enough to sleep with someone you thought in your twisted mind was mature for sex, you should be man enough to make her your wife. Don't give us that crap about not loving her enough to marry her. How can a human being have sex with someone he doesn't have feelings for? It then means you can sleep with a mad woman. That's really sick. Reminds me of a male tailor who slept with an imb*ecile and denied the child she was carrying. Abeg...HML in advance jor.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by rhames: 6:08pm On Mar 05, 2015|
This is a case of child abuse and molestation which attracts jail term. Own up and take responsibilty for the child and mother until both are matured enough to cater for themselves. Well brother , i pity your condition. I hope you will be able to concebtrtae on your primary assignment again. God help u.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by freecocoa(f): 6:09pm On Mar 05, 2015|
rationalmind:No, I can't rule that out but I feel strongly that the lady is not an adult, the tone of this thread suggests so, it's very evident in the OP's post and he would have said something to dispel that.
I'm not entirely refusing to entertain the probability of the lady being an adult, I just have strong convictions that she isn't due to the fact that there are strong indications on that, visible in the OP's post as I've said before.
I do know that it is a crime in sane countries where the system works, I honestly don't know if it is in the Nigerian constitution but even if it isn't, it should be criminalized with immediate effect.
A teacher sleeping with his student of age or not, is all shades of wrong because, 1. The teacher is in a position of authority which can influence the consent of the student. 2. This will affect the performance of the student. 3. Their romance will influence the student's grade.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by koyyess: 6:41pm On Mar 05, 2015|
freecocoa:Good Job....I love the way you exposed that ill willed imbe*cile for the complete joke he is.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by delishpot: 7:37pm On Mar 05, 2015|
Na wa o. When him dey contemplate banging her, him no seek for mature advice, him don bang finish, yawa don gas, now him want make we advice. Wetin you want us to talk now? To encourage them to abbort the baby? No be from my mouth sha.
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 8:04pm On Mar 05, 2015|
|Re: Help!he Impregnanted An SS1 Student At His PPA. by spyg1(m): 9:11pm On Mar 05, 2015|
dedons:then he should integrate,
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