As of the time of writing this episode, my best friend (let me call him K) is inside the kirikiri Prison, Apapa, Lagos.

It all started on Thursday 5th of march,2015 when he was arrested from his office and taken to police station for interrogation. He was arrested on the issue of impregnating a gal with the gal claiming to be seven months pregnant. He denied the act immediately then he was asked to call his people, which he did. His parent and I went to the police station and witness everything going on. His father asked him if he slept with the girl but he said no. Then we required for his release because no evidence to nail him, except the girl’s claim. The gal’s uncle spoke with the DPO in secrecy, so the bail was been delayed. An uncle of K who happened to be a retired police officer was called and he intervened by calling the DPO and asked to release him or he would be petitioned (if kept in custody within 24hours). Due to that threat the bail was denied that night and he was charged to court the next morning.

The parents claimed the girl is a minor, 16yrs exactly. But according to the form she filled on admission to the computer school she attends. She was born on 7/7/1997. Which means she will be 18yrs by july this year. While in court the case was adjourned to april but was asked to be reprimanded in prison until his bail conditions are met. From there he was taken to an holding cell at ikeja customary court. We told him to be patient that the day has gone but it happened to be on Friday which means we cant bail him until Monday. The mother asked the officer if he would remained here till Monday. He said no that he will be taken to kirikiri that night. The mother busted into tears claiming his son is not a criminal while should he be taken there. She cried bitterly but we consoled her and went home.
Meanwhile my friend, K has informed me of the act in January when the gal’s uncle came to threaten him about the gal’s pregnancy. According to him the uncle came saying he got his cousin pregnant and she has been sent to the village. After meeting with the manager, the gal was called on the phone and spoken with in a loud speaker for everyone to hear, and she claim my friend is responsible for her five month pregnancy. K denied the act totally, claiming he is not the owner. The uncle left that day only to come back two months later.
Now note this, my friend is a womanizer ( a player like some people call it), he likes women a lot and sleeps with many of them. I asked him what really happened. He told me he slept with the gal but that should be by November which should be three months to January and not five months like she claimed. And moreover he used condom on her.
The bail has been delayed now because of compiling the documents we were told to bring. But even after completing the documents, we were told the magistrate is not on seat. That he travelled for other assignment and will be back on Monday 16th march, 2015.
The second issue now is his fiancée who they have been together for seven years now. She called on Friday to ask after her man claiming he wasn’t picking his calls since morning and later it was switch off. Asking me if I know his whereabouts. I lied to her saying maybe he travelled urgently but she should relax. The parents and I decided to hide the incident from her expecting K to come out on Monday to do the explanation by himself or at least should be present. Now we don’t know how the incident will turn out. But the mother insists that if the baby is proven to be his (using DNA test) that she would accept that as her grand child. After the parent agreed that the fiancée should be told. I went to her place and narrated the whole thing. Immediately she busted into tears. She cried for a very long time that I couldn’t console her. She claimed to have given my friend everything. Starting from her love, commitment, financial help and so on. And yes! She is not far from the truth because I am aware of some of this. She told me that it means K has been cheating on her not just with that gal. I said no, claiming that it just happened. Even the said gal claimed that K slept with her only twice. This she heard sparked her head and she busted into tears. We went to K’s home and she went there to cry again. The parent consoled her and told her it has happened but she should just pray for him. Now her problem is the pregnancy. She said she can’t bear the pains knowing another gal is pregnant for him. She felt betrayed and hurt. She claimed even if the baby is not his that she can’t marry my friend again because the trust and love will never be there all her life again. I pleaded with her at least to give a room of listening to my friend and hear his own side of the story. She told me that she don’t want to hear more lies from him. That she felt like killing him right now. In fact my friend should die inside the prison, that’s the only thing that would please her now. She even accused me of knowing K cheats on her but I hide it from her.

On my own part. Yes she is right I knew K cheats on her and I know of her sincererity and love towards K. She is a gal I admirer even more than my gf. She doesn’t keep friends. She is not social. You won’t find her on social media even if she is registered to them. And she is not dependent on anyone not even my friend K. So once again she didn’t deserved what she got now not after 7 years of faithfulness towards her relationship. But there is little I can do because I can’t live his life for him. I always cautioned him about all gals issue but he really loves sex. That is his major problem.

So right now I don’t know of how much I can console the gal, or the best advice I can give her. She has refused to eat for two days now. Crying bitterly daily. I felt guilty for not doing more for her.
Nairalanders, what can I do to ease her of her pain and anger that she bore right now without been at the receiving end?

The very reason why people should wait and should they be looking for instant gratification, they should seek their mates. Hiding such a thing like this from the fiancee tells more about the wickedness of you, your friend,and his parents.

Kiss her by mistake

Blood of child's

pregnancy scandal !

be carefool ooo...... a shoulder to lean on, a d* k to ride on .....

mke K no cun dey target you once him comot from kirikiri

Danielstainz:
Kiss her by mistake

IS DIS AN ADVISE OR WOT?

bdchange:


IS DIS AN ADVISE OR WOT?

just do it and you would have your answer

This remain a very complicated issue. Considering your main concern is how you are going to make it right for your friend with his fiancee. Mind you are threading a delicate and a dangerous part around this issue. Women can be extremely sensitive when they are emotional. There's nothing you can say that can save the situation. She'll want to hear those words from him directly.
But considering she doesn't socialise,or neither keep friends, I'll advice you to stay around her for awhle,with your girlfriend in company too(to avoid story that touch),so as not to harm herself.
Right now,you aint in the best position to make things better,cus you are a guy,and she's seeing every guy from
that perspective. Let your girlfriend do the job.
Now,when OGA is back from imposed vacation, he should drop is EGO and do anything, to make things right with her. Her kind is rare.
#myopinion.

With time all wonds heal, i happen to find my self in a similar case, but mine was worst because i spent 10days in prison, truely i bleep d gal, who at dat time just finish secondary school waiting 4 her result, she also had a younger sister who was preparing her 4 her ssce n this gal i bleep unkown to me had a baby b4, but d child died, so it not her first experience, and d perent claim d gal is a minor (14yrs) fortunately 4 me i had a gud lawyer, who could prove beyond reasonable doubt that she wasnt a minor, to cut long story short, i want to let u know that i am glad i had that experience. .prior to dis case i have never been in a cell not to talk oF prison... with time all hurt heals . I am a beta person now, In prison one robber ask me say if to say na aids i get onkor? Wetin i go do? And that got me thinking. After test d baby wasnt mine.

Your friend deserves his present predicament. It will teach him to teach his pen.is to stay off minors. But the pregnant girl should be punished too after delivery since she wasn't raped.
The fiancé should move on. A faithful spouse does not deserve a cheater.

DAIL:
With time all wonds heal, i happen to find my self in a similar case, but mine was worst because i spent 10days in prison, truely i bleep d gal, who at dat time just finish secondary school waiting 4 her result, she also had a younger sister who was preparing her 4 her ssce n this gal i bleep unkown to me had a baby b4, but d child died, so it not her first experience, and d perent claim d gal is a minor (14yrs) fortunately 4 me i had a gud lawyer, who could prove beyond reasonable doubt that she wasnt a minor, to cut long story short, i want to let u know that i am glad i had that experience. .prior to dis case i have never been in a cell not to talk oF prison... with time all hurt heals . I am a beta person now, In prison one robber ask me say if to say na aids i get onkor? Wetin i go do? And that got me thinking. After test d baby wasnt mine.

Txk.
D parents re insisting dat d guy shud marry dr daugter, and dat it an abomination for dr daugther to give birth in dr ouz wen not married.

debonairprinx:
This remain a very complicated issue. Considering your main concern is how you are going to make it right for your friend with his fiancee. Mind you are threading a delicate and a dangerous part around this issue. Women can be extremely sensitive when they are emotional. There's nothing you can say that can save the situation. She'll want to hear those words from him directly.
But considering she doesn't socialise,or neither keep friends, I'll advice you to stay around her for awhle,with your girlfriend in company too(to avoid story that touch),so as not to harm herself.
Right now,you aint in the best position to make things better,cus you are a guy,and she's seeing every guy from
that perspective. Let your girlfriend do the job.
Now,when OGA is back from imposed vacation, he should drop is EGO and do anything, to make things right with her. Her kind is rare.
#myopinion.

My gf is not around ryt now. And she is getting emotional anytym I am wit her.

bdchange:


My gf is not around ryt now. And she is getting emotional anytym I am wit her.

That's why you need to be careful. Just don't try to go alone,or rather be touchy or close to her. She's very sensitive at this point in time.

adanduka:
Your friend deserves his present predicament. It will teach him to teach his pen.is to stay off minors. But the pregnant girl should be punished too after delivery since she wasn't raped.
The fiancé should move on. A faithful spouse does not deserve a cheater.

Yes she doesn't. But she is laying down som rules. Such as she pray d baby shud not be his. And also she shud marry bfor him and av a child first else she can't quantify wot she wud do to my frnd if all dis re not met. Claiming my frnd has wasted her youthful yrs. Dat she has gotten enof suitors in d past neglecting dem for him. Xo no be small tin o

I think he should rot in jail. I dont like pedofiles

paulstips:
I think he should rot in jail. I dont like pedofiles

Wow dats harshhhhhh.. He might not knw na. Cos d gal neva informed him of her age. And face don't tell somtyms

bdchange:


Txk.
D parents re insisting dat d guy shud marry dr daugter, and dat it an abomination for dr daugther to give birth in dr ouz wen not married.

you cant force marriage... and 4 ur guy he did not use condom dat am very sure of, he might not b d father of d child, and d case against him is not a paternity case, it a criminal case, let him get a gud lawyer that can prove that d gal is not a minor and that he d guy never had sex with her, the case b4 d court is not d case of d pregnancy, but a criminal case, so d issue of marriage cannot even set in, and he has every right to refuse paternity test, d court will not force him and cannot prove he had sex with d gal, is his word against hers, so d verdict will be in his favour. and d case can last as long as 10yrs , d court will definitely advice 4 out of court settlement