5minsmadness:
I used to know these warri chicks back then in 2006. Three of them were having satisfying relationships with their men but the fourth was very worried. When asked what the problem was she said that she didn't believe her boyfriend really loved her. You see, she had discovered that the box had NEVER raised a hand against her, talk less of shouting on her. She would deliberately do something wrong just to pass him off but the worst he would do would be to shake his head and ignore her.

Her interpretation of his actions was that he didn't have anything emotionally at stake when it came to her else he would have reacted with anger and hit her. If he could not generate enough emotion/passion to hit her then she was most likely a side-chick and not his true love.


In the end she came up with an idea and during a fake argument she tore his nysc certificate. The boy went into a fit of rage and punched her once in the face. She started bleeding immediately and was rushed to a nearby chemist. Being among her supportive friends we were sent to 'warn' the boy not to hit her again.
But it was all a setup. Tega couldn't be happier. The love of her life had finally proved his love by knocking off one of her teeth.

Some people are going to view the op's post as sarcasm. I have seen ladies like her live. What is abnormal for some people is not only totally acceptable but actually mandatory for others.


Variety is the spice of life.

Eboh4z:
How many of you agree with this lady, isn't she making some sense?

Yadoctora:
perception
upbringing
education
self-worth
environment

These play roles. These matter when chooaing a spouse and when raiaing Children.

5minsmadness:

Av told u to bring ur keyboard let me repair it, u no gree

bluedaze:
M not so worried aabout the post than by the number of likes. Right there is 270 women beaters

5minsmadness:
I used to know these warri chicks back then in 2006. Three of them were having satisfying relationships with their men but the fourth was very worried. When asked what the problem was she said that she didn't believe her boyfriend really loved her. You see, she had discovered that the boy had NEVER raised a hand against her, talk less of shouting on her. She would deliberately do something wrong just to piss him off but the worst he would do would be to shake his head and ignore her.

Her interpretation of his actions was that he didn't have anything emotionally at stake when it came to her else he would have reacted with anger and hit her. If he could not generate enough emotion/passion to hit her then she was most likely a side-chick and not his true love.


In the end she came up with an idea and during a fake argument she tore his nysc certificate. The boy went into a fit of rage and punched her once in the face. She started bleeding immediately and was rushed to a nearby chemist. Being among her supportive friends we were sent to 'warn' the boy not to hit her again.
But it was all a setup. Tega couldn't be happier. The love of her life had finally proved his love by knocking off one of her teeth.

Some people are going to view the op's post as sarcasm. I have seen ladies like her live. What is abnormal for some people is not only totally acceptable but actually mandatory for others.


Variety is the spice of life.

bluedaze:
M not so worried aabout the post than by the number of likes. Right there is 270 women beaters

5minsmadness:
I used to know these warri chicks back then in 2006. Three of them were having satisfying relationships with their men but the fourth was very worried. When asked what the problem was she said that she didn't believe her boyfriend really loved her. You see, she had discovered that the boy had NEVER raised a hand against her, talk less of shouting on her. She would deliberately do something wrong just to piss him off but the worst he would do would be to shake his head and ignore her.
Her interpretation of his actions was that he didn't have anything emotionally at stake when it came to her else he would have reacted with anger and hit her. If he could not generate enough emotion/passion to hit her then she was most likely a side-chick and not his true love.
In the end she came up with an idea and during a fake argument she tore his nysc certificate. The boy went into a fit of rage and punched her once in the face. She started bleeding immediately and was rushed to a nearby chemist. Being among her supportive friends we were sent to 'warn' the boy not to hit her again.
But it was all a setup. Tega couldn't be happier. The love of her life had finally proved his love by knocking off one of her teeth.
Some people are going to view the op's post as sarcasm. I have seen ladies like her live. What is abnormal for some people is not only totally acceptable but actually mandatory for others.
Variety is the spice of life.

SuperSuave:
This girl is mad! How will I beat someone I love?

Shollypopzz:


This is not a matter of variety! What you should have done is ask about her background. Did she grow up in a house where her father abused her mother regularly? Did she have an ex that constantly abused her while claiming to love her?

This is a lady who has been conditioned to see abuse as normal. The men in her lives have abused her or abused women around her to the point where she attributes love to abuse. She is in mental bondage and she needs to seek help from a professional.

This is why I hate women who stay with an abusive man for the sake of their children. They do more harm to those kids by staying.

cococandy:
The effect of years of psychological rape and mind conditioning.
It is not about preference.

Like some one said, the most disturbing is the number of likes such posts get.
And seeming normal people giving such posts high fives.

So many twisted people parading as normal.

Chillis:


You still bothered about likes. When they said 21milion ppl are lunatic you think it's a joke.

Don't bother your head ojare.

cococandy:


It is worth bothering about sha.

Innocent people are going to end up with such people who think it is ok to hit others.

Shollypopzz:


This is not a matter of variety! What you should have done is ask about her background. Did she grow up in a house where her father abused her mother regularly? Did she have an ex that constantly abused her while claiming to love her?

This is a lady who has been conditioned to see abuse as normal. The men in her lives have abused her or abused women around her to the point where she attributes love to abuse. She is in mental bondage and she needs to seek help from a professional.

This is why I hate women who stay with an abusive man for the sake of their children. They do more harm to those kids by staying

Shollypopzz:
This is why I hate women who stay with an abusive man for the sake of their children. They do more harm to those kids by staying.

5minsmadness:

No she didnt grow up in an abusive home. Mr Tega was a perfect gentleman. The mother might have been slightly verbally abusive though.
No, this guy was her first boyfriend.
It was a kind of in-thing around warri at the time. Most of them ladies saw a guy who couldnt hit them(of course there must be a good reason,go figure) as a wuss/gay/boy. Dunno if they still feel that way, any warri babe confirm pls. (warri girls are tough!)
While this may be true I very much doubt she thinks so. She was an aspiring student, very social and caring. Just had a wierd view on love(to me anyway).
No. They stay because they are willing to sacrifice even their lives to ensure their kids have the very best and that includes a proper family. There is nothing as complete in a child's life as having a father figure as well as a mother figure. Life is not a bed of roses and no situation is perfect.