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No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 11:49am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Hello fellow NL, i am a single father with 2 kids from a previous marriage.I want to give marriage a second shot because i believe love is real but i don't want to have a child from it..Is it possible to get a lady that will agree to my wish? PS: I don't want a single parent lady. |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Nobody: 11:52am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Hmm, she ll agree and then after u guys get married shell mistakenly get preghnant. Hmm, its a difficult choice ur giving any lady. |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Tallesty1(m): 12:07pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
In Nigeria abi where? It is only possible if she's got kids in her previous marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by pickabeau1: 12:09pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting: To be realistic Your plan can only work if u do a vasectomy or tie up the womb of the woman Alternatively you marry someone who has kids of her own..even that is not a sure means coupled with the financial issues.Ooops just saw u don't want a single mom The Woman will like to have a kid so as to be bonded into the family Best case: Marry a woman and let her have one kid Compromise 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No Child Marriage. by edwife(f): 12:35pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
pickabeau1: That's even evil for him to do that ,he sounds a little selfish to me. He has kids and will not want his partner to have kids of her own?I really don't know how many single women will agree to that except he goes straight for a woman who can't bear kids(sterile). Op the best you can do is to go for a woman above 40 and willing to live like that. 9 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Nobody: 12:37pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
I don't know the reason for your desires but sincerely you sound too selfish 10 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by pickabeau1: 12:38pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
edwife: Everyone is entitled to their own way.. he wants a companion but not additional kids... its a desire which he is entitled to I only pointed out what it entailed Which young woman who has not had kids will agree to tying up her own womb? Even the 40 yo woman without kids is still trying to have one 1 Like |
Re: No Child Marriage. by edwife(f): 12:41pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Lol as long as she is confirmed sterile no worries.... 1 Like |
Re: No Child Marriage. by pickabeau1: 12:43pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
edwife: Yep... but that is a long shot What is the probability of meeting a woman who is sterile and will tick all his other criteria boxes Long thing 2 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Nobody: 12:44pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting:Selfish much 5 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by edwife(f): 12:48pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
pickabeau1: He is just looking for troubles for those kids of his. In a country like ours before someone reminds her that she does not know what it takes to bear kids just because she tried to correct them,he is on a long thing like you said. 3 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 12:50pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Wedon: Oh! don't go there! Learn how to respect peoples opinion. 3 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by pickabeau1: 12:51pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
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Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 12:53pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
favoured234: Selfish? Not all. I just want a companion or is marriage totally about bearing kids? |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Nobody: 1:01pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting: You want companion then you don't necessarily have to get married... Again you want her to give you her time and all and maybe take care of your own children all her life... I think you should start looking for someone that has attained menopause, that will just do.. But what could be the reason behind not having a kid from her if not selfishness... You want to keep your own and don't want her to come with her own or desire one from you 5 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting: If you want companionship, get a girlfriend. Don't dangle marriage around for desperate women so they can live with you, cater to the needs of you and your children and not that the satisfaction of carrying their own child. And yes, you are selfish. Else you you wont expect a woman, who has been specifically created to nature and nurture a child, not to have children in her marriage just because you already have children from a previous marriage. Ask yourself, if you didn't already have children, will you still want to a marriage without children? You already got what you want, and suddenly you've remembered that marriage is for 'companionship'! Oshi! 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Nobody: 1:10pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
AM just commenting because I feel like not that I believe someone can be this selfish and open his mouth to tell it to the world... If that is what you sincerely want then you need a life.. Before then go for vasectomy 1 Like |
Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 1:18pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
favoured234: It has nothing to do with my kids from the previous marriage..They are with their Mum who is economically empowered and well educated to take care of them..Except she is dead, it will be the last thing for her to do.(Give the kids out even to me). I have no other reason for this decision other than the fact that i want a companion in marriage & not the girlfriend thing as been proposed. |
Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 1:22pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Wedon: Dude you seem paranoid for something that obviously should not, even going to the extent of calling me "Oshi". I guess you need some temperament therapy, hopefully, help will come your way as the thread moves on. This is my wish and i know i will find someone some day. 2 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Nobody: 1:26pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting:Bro sincerely you need to have a rethink about your decision, most times we don't see things clearly when we are in, but trust me on this "its out rightly selfish" 6 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 6:06pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
favoured234: I believe there are single ladies who really may not want a child and I will find one real soon. I hope we are able to click and find a common ground to live with each other in peace & love till death do us....... |
Re: No Child Marriage. by mystiqueDZ(f): 6:20pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
All i see is a selfish person looking for a glorified nanny.... 9 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by mystiqueDZ(f): 6:21pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting:please tell....If she dont want kids do you think she will treat yours well? |
Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 6:37pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mystiqueDZ: Tell me why she will not treat them right? I am not looking for a jerk but a reasonable woman. |
Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 6:39pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mystiqueDZ: Huh! She must be a career woman who is willing to dedicate her time to get to the pinnacle of her career while still sharing life with me her love. I can't live with a redundant woman.. Sorry!. |
Re: No Child Marriage. by mystiqueDZ(f): 6:44pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting:when i say a glorified nanny.....she takes care of your kids and you.....at what expense?tu es egoiste!!!! 1 Like |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Dyt(f): 6:45pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting: You expect to marry a single lady and she shouldn't have a child? You are wicked Damn 7 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 6:51pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mystiqueDZ: Unfortunately, I realize a lot lady's detest caring for their spouse and most even detest caring for their kids... How do you explain the situation of the parents that got a Nanny through OLX to cater for their 3 kids between the ages of 4-11yrs? Simply because the woman cannot find a balance btw her career and family?. Pls for your information i don't need any woman to care for me in your definition of "care". I need a companion and not a care giver. Can we move on? 1 Like |
Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 6:53pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt: When did marriage become ONLY a baby making affair... So Couples with no child she go and hang themselves? |
Re: No Child Marriage. by Dyt(f): 6:54pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting: Not at all sir You shouldn't have had any child in your previous marriage then 11 Likes |
Re: No Child Marriage. by mystiqueDZ(f): 6:56pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
deeptesting:oh by all means!!!! I wish you well |
Re: No Child Marriage. by deeptesting(m): 6:58pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt: If Couples with issues of the fruit of the womb can still find love, joy & happiness in their marriage then what is wrong with my wish? The only limitation i have right now is the fact that i want a Nigerian woman, my wish would not be a problem if i extend my search to the west. ( United States, Europe). |
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