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7 Honest Reasons Why Some Women Are Still Single – Warning, Very Brutally Honest by Nobody: 12:33am On May 14, 2015 |
Wanna know why you haven’t met the man of your dreams? Find out now! 1. Cause You Act Like A B**CH!!! Yeah I said it, and what! Now I’m not trying to use that term in a general and disrespectful way. I am using it in a very specific and factual way. You have so many women that walk around with this nasty, stuck up attitude and they have the nerve to wonder why they struggle with finding the right man. Some of them have the audacity to cover it up by proclaiming to be a “diva”, too “classy”, or that they are just speaking their mind. In reality you just act like a b**ch. Some people might say, well I see plenty of women like that married or in relationships. Don’t be fooled, she wasn’t completely showing that side in the beginning, why? Because she is a smart b**ch : ). Either way, being a negative person isn’t going to help you find love. Most of the men may still go after you for séx, but if you learn to fix that attitude then you will start to attract the right kind of man in your life. 2.You Blame Men For Everything That is why your a*s is still single. You refuse to make yourself accountable for your actions. Everything is a man’s fault, and according to you, once they “act right” then you will have no problem falling in line. First off, I agree that men have contributed so much to the issues in relationships and women in general. We as men do have a responsibility to step up and do better. The thing is, if you aren’t willing to “step up” as well, then we will continue to have an issue, and you will continue to find yourself by yourself. At the end of the day, you control how you handle things. If you are not prepared to look in the mirror then you will never realize the flaws you have and that need improvement. So next time you want to put it all on men, check yourself, and accept that you have a choice to do better and truly be one of the “good women” out there. 3. You Think Your Looks Will Carry You Through Life Ok so you’re beautiful and have a nice body, great! Problem is, if a man talks to you and finds out that there is nothing else to you then why would he bother wanting to make you his woman. He will still want séx (séx is always an option for men) but that’s it. Men may be more superficial than women, but most of us still want a woman who has some kind of personality. Make yourself a more well-rounded fun individual and more men will want to make you their own. 4.You Are A Gold Digger ok maybe you aren’t exactly on that level, but you have made how much he makes your top priority. You are so caught up in dollar signs that you overlook the things that are truly important to having and maintaining a relationship. Realize that most men are not rich, so right there you immediately make it harder for yourself to find the right guy. Even if a guy has money, if he sees that’s what you are mainly about he won’t take you seriously. I’m not saying date broke men, but I am saying that money should not be your main motivator. Have better priorities and you will find yourself in better relationships. 5.You Don’t Keep Yourself Up Not that you have to get your nails and hair done every 2 weeks (though some of us do like that) but you can’t always look raggedy either. I mean damn, some of you ladies just put no real effort into how you look. Not everyone has the same style, but good hygiene and health should be a goal for all. Most of us want our woman to look good. As I stated earlier we men are a bit more superficial than women, so to grab and keep our attention you need to be mindful of how you present yourself. You know where you can improve your look, so get started on it if you want to increase your chances of going from being one of the single “good women” to one of the taken “good women”. 6.Your s*x Is Weak! I personally believe it is best to wait but the reality is that most of us have or will engage in séx before we are married. As a woman if you chose to do that, then understand that your “skills” or lack thereof will impact a man’s willingness to make you his woman. Unfortunately a lot of women think they are good but really the experience was nothing to talk about. Women are quick to talk about a man’s performance while neglecting the fact that they could use a lot of improvement as well. It doesn’t take as much to please most men séxually, so be more open to ways you can improve if you choose to take that route. 7. Your too busy enjoying the “Single Life” you’re just having too much fun living it up. Maybe you like to come and go as you please. Maybe you enjoy the free meals, outings, and for some, the bills that get paid from your “guy friends”. If those are your reasons, I get it, but just make sure that you aren’t using that as a front. Many women claim to love the “single life” but in a heartbeat they would trade it in for a genuine relationship. Yes, you should enjoy yourself while you’re single, but that does not mean you have to act like you enjoy being single. I hope you understand the difference. If your attitude or words say “I love being single” then understand that this will impact a man’s willingness to come at you with something more serious. Have fun, but be true to yourself and what you really desire. |
Re: 7 Honest Reasons Why Some Women Are Still Single – Warning, Very Brutally Honest by ritzytbabs(m): 12:35am On May 14, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Honest Reasons Why Some Women Are Still Single – Warning, Very Brutally Honest by Maczeelly(m): 12:38am On May 14, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Honest Reasons Why Some Women Are Still Single – Warning, Very Brutally Honest by shaqhead: 12:54am On May 14, 2015 |
Blooood...wt a scalpel in hand the op went for the jugular! Brutishly true especially Number 1. |
Re: 7 Honest Reasons Why Some Women Are Still Single – Warning, Very Brutally Honest by Nobody: 1:00am On May 14, 2015 |
Yh, its high time someone put some ladies in their place. |
Re: 7 Honest Reasons Why Some Women Are Still Single – Warning, Very Brutally Honest by adewaletb3(m): 1:03am On May 14, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Honest Reasons Why Some Women Are Still Single – Warning, Very Brutally Honest by DozieInc(m): 1:11am On May 14, 2015 |
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