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Does it happen to anyone?
This happens mostly to the ''yet to marry singles'' who are in a relationship but having a natural reluctance to go GAGA probably due to their failed past or something they can't just explain...
Ladies often say it is attributed to Guys but it is actually mutual...
Here are the few reasons...

1. Choice fade: I do not understand why some peeps would say I love you yesterday and not anymore in the next 6months. I think this is not love in the first place...
Well, choice fade is what people call it, but incidentally it could be as a result of repel, as time passes by, when one party is getting to know the bad side of the other, the fear of moving it forward sets in.

2. More than one choice: If you engage yourself in numerous relationships with opposite sex, it may be difficult for you to make a choice at that point, you best decide to stay back and watch till...

3. Negative mindset: This is attributed to ''players''(not football players anyways). These set of people even at 30 still have a mind of playing. People of this attitude never wants to go forward after sex.

4. Fear of the unknown: Investment in relationship of uncertainty is always very difficult to get along for risk averse. People fall into this category because of several reasons of the past, present or future....

What are yours??

www.naijacouples.com has it all...

@op.. u r very correct..

i chose my new gf.. there were no butterflies.

love is a decision.. and ill be here in 6 months, one year, 10 years and who knows..?

when its a decision made. u r likely not to fall out of love