5 Common sayings you should avoid in your relationship
5 Common sayings you should avoid in your relationship
A word spoken is like an egg such that when it drops cannot be taken.
As short as the words are can do more harm than good.
At the beginning, these short words mean little or nothing to a partner but as it becomes a frequent habit, it makes partners feel insecure, useless, underrated and disrespected.
Here are those 5:

AND SO WHAT?
Even when it is exciting, you form as if it's nothing. Well, if you don't know, it tells in the long run. The simple thing that happens is that eventually there would be less intimacy, conversation and seriousness even when the subject of discussion is serious.

ITS NOT FUNNY
While you want to act as if it's not surprising, you may be loosing something serious.
If you do not agree to the fact that some jokes (even a threatening) are jokes and you take them too serious or even act extremely opposite, then expect nonchalant attitude by your partner in the later discussion.

YOU ARE NOT SENSITIVE
While on earth will you say that?
when he's not a magician, how do you expect him to know everything, I mean things He couldn't not see, hear, touch or even feel.
N.B: I only use ''He'' because men are most times the victim; alas, this doesn't mean women are not equally involved.


CAN YOU BE MORE ROMANTIC:
The fifth one seems to be more of challenging your partner to step up His game, making out the best that has never come and a piece of advise. But I tell you, it is insulting, well can be said in another way.
Meanwhile its good to watch the choice of our languages even in social and official gatherings.
Feel free to add yours.
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