Don't mean to self elevate myself,but if you are a handsome dude like I am who has/hasn't hit the Gold mine yet .you must have experienced this...

Check this post(credits to madailygist.com)

The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy



Being a handsome or good looking guy is a very wonderful gift of nature which every body see as a good thing. People who are born good looking are always grateful to be created that way by their maker. The society always tend to think these set of people always get things done easily because of their looks. They are also believed to always easily attract the female opposite sex of any type. They are given some kind of special preference most times.

But one thing people fail to notice is that these set of people are just human beings who encounter some setbacks as a result of their physical features.

Now let’s analyse some of these setbacks or disadvantages together.

1) Objectification: People tend to objectify handsome or good looking guys. They tend to define you by only your superficial attributes and fail to read you as a person,,because they miss to see anything in you besides your looks. For example,, they hardly think you are good at anything else other than just being good looking. Your looks will seem to over shadow every other quality in you. This issue has tasked good looking guys to work harder and prove their worth to people that they have other things to offer than just a mere good looking physique.

2) Topic of discussion: To the Handsome guys in the house. Have you noticed that you seem to be a topic of discussion in little groups especially amongst idlers. Those who don’t really have anything doing other than gossip. They just settle down to discuss you and say all sorts of things about you. Even the things that you can never do.

3)Envy/insecurity: Sometimes people tend to get envious at you for no reason. Some get jealous by mere looking at you. You’ll have your friends whom are less good looking than you being insecure whenever you are around them. They wouldn’t let you follow them whenever they want to meet their girlfriend. You try to be nice and they accuse you of trying to snatch their girlfriends.

4) Loneliness: It is a very surprising Fact that some,,if not most good looking guys are lonely. Except maybe the extroverts who defy the odds to make friends themselves. Most people conclude that guys who are handsome already have so many people clustered around them. A girl would see a good looking guy but she will choose to ignore him because she feels he already has a lot of girls at his beck and call,,therefore it would be a waste of time getting to know him. When this keeps happening,,you discover that most handsome guys have little or few friends while some are even single without a girlfriend to call their own.

5) High Expectations: Some times people give a lot of high expectations to good looking guys. Most times they expect you to be the head or leader. They feel since you are good looking you should be able to make decisions and be charismatic. They would want to follow your every step. While this can be very difficult for the guys who aren’t outspoken/introverted,,it could work out well for the confident ones. So it’s a bit of an advantage and disadvantage. But the problem comes when you do something out of what your followers expect of you. There will now be a crisis between pleasing yourself and pleasing the people that expect so much from you.


 
6)Pretty girls play hard to get: Now this is a very confusing fact. But it is of a truth that girls who are also good looking will play hard to get and put up a higher wall of defence when you are trying to approach them. Have you wondered why a beautiful girl easily succumbs to the toasting of that your “not-so-good-looking” friend but she keeps posting you whenever you approach her?. It is difficult to get their sense of interest. She feels that her showing of interest in you is a massive conceit of power.
7) Intimidation: The case is not any better with a less attractive girl. When a handsome guy is talking to a girl less attractive than he is she may feel way too intimidated. She may also feel he just wants to use her for sex and she wouldn’t want to date someone more attractive than her because she can’t use her sexuality power. A guy also has to become careful of this type as they may become really clingy to him after they have gone intimate for a while. And any sign of dis interest shown by him automatically makes him a heart breaker and from there he’s tagged a “player”.

8 ) Confidence is misunderstood for arrogance: The sub heading has already explained the point briefly. Good looking guys who are confident and not shy of showing off what they have are considered to be arrogant and proud. They are looked at as condescending. It has become so bad that they don’t even know of the best way to reply to a compliment again. There is no way a handsome guy will reply such compliments without coming off as proud and ignoring the compliment completely is not even an option.

9) excessive self-confidence might turn into vanity: On the other hand,,we have some set of good looking guys who become over confident and dwell on their looks for everything. They allow the praises get to their head and concentrate on their looks alone. They ignore other important aspects of life and depend on their good looks to get them what they want. They forget that everything is vanity at the end.

10) share yours.



Source:MaDailygist.com

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Na true na..mehn the thing don worry me tire..u wanna ask a girl out,the first thing that comes to her mind is that ur a player..I don't have a g.f right now..bt anytime I tell a girl that,she says its a trick to get her down......na wa oo..even my ex wey I leave last year still thinks I'm a heart breaker and a player....

Well whateva happens "ogboro" must jump...gay is not an option...all ya dudes sending me mail..I cover my **** with the blood of jesus

Op are you handsome? How would you know all these?

you made some valid points as much as good looks have its advantage it must have its disadvantage but there is something i want you to understand.i notice something in youths of today especially on Nairaland where you see people post pictures telling people to rate them and it makes me feel ashame.
why would a guy be concerned much about his looks when do we become the ladies,many young guys are lazy,un-ambitous and are not willing hustle in legal ways all because they think they look good.
a man can only be judged by armateur girls by the way he looks but real men are judged by what they achieved.
to make it as a man forget your looks cos when you make it the good looks will come back in ten folds and you will be admired by the society not just the girls,you will be every mother dream son in law and mentor to those growing up.
so my dear forget the looks just focus on being a REAL MAN thats what really counts in the long run

Jacksparrow0712:
Op are you handsome? How would you know all these?

@boss jack SP..seriously God try for me unto facial adornment..bt even far back when I was so naïve ..my looks made peeps deem me a player...

but are you not a [size=4pt]player[/size]? be honest

ichieoriginal:


@boss jack SP..seriously God try for me unto facial adornment..bt even far back when I was so naïve ..my looks made peeps deem me a player...

This post was on started by a. Romancelander and it was on FP and now you're crediting it to madailygist.

Now who's the real author and who's stealing credits here?

Brandnew2:
This post was on started by a. Romancelander and it was on FP and now you're crediting it to madailygist.

Now who's the real author and who's stealing credits here?

Bro I wasn't aware it has been propagated by a romancelander..I just got this article as a message via @madailygist.com a handle I follow on twitter,so I decided to share it with the house.

By the I'm not really concerned whose work it is whoever did ,surely explained what I've been goinh through for a while....and just got the solution from one of the post.

Brandnew2:
This post was on started by a. Romancelander and it was on FP and now you're crediting it to madailygist.

Now who's the real author and who's stealing credits here?

Bro I wasn't aware it has been propagated by a romancelander..I just got this article as a message via @madailygist.com a handle I follow on twitter,so I decided to share it with the house.

By the I'm not really concerned whose work it is whoever did ,surely explained what I've been goinh through for a while....and just got the solution from one of the preceding post.

Jacksparrow0712:
but are you not a [size=4pt]player[/size]? be honest

Me ke..well well..I play sha..but not a top striker..u would never see me where no 9 shirt...I be low key..in short I be sub. Sef..so why dem girl come dy cast me like say I be no 9

Hehehehe. Funny dude
But remember, CR7, Messi and Eden Hazard no be no9 but dem score goal pass any no9. So I take it you are as prolific as them. You score goalssssssss.

Na joke I dey ooo make I for no spoil your market. Lol

ichieoriginal:


Me ke..well well..I play sha..but not a top striker..u would never see me where no 9 shirt...I be low key..in short I be sub. Sef..so why dem girl come dy cast me like say I be no 9

naijaboiy:

i am the originator of that article.

Who the fhuuck is mydailygist? The idiiot has definitely plagiarised my work.

Ogbeni park well..so u no fit talk one word without the F* word abi....that's the link,u can find out from them,that one no concern me.
http://madailygist.com/the-daily-pains-of-a-handsome-or-good-looking-guy/

Very true. I am also handsome and experience such.

ichieoriginal:
Na true na..mehn the thing don worry me tire..u wanna ask a girl out,the first thing that comes to her mind is that ur a player..I don't have a g.f right now..bt anytime I tell a girl that,she says its a trick to get her down......na wa oo..even my ex wey I leave last year still thinks I'm a heart breaker and a player....

Well whateva happens "ogboro" must jump...gay is not an option...all ya dudes sending me mail..I cover my **** with the blood of jesus

I'm experiencing the same thing.