Marriage, today, seems less binding than a social network contract. It’s quite unfortunate that couples spend hundreds of hours and millions of naira on the actual wedding day, but little or no energy, resources, or forethought whatsoever, toward the marriage that follows.
Effective communication among spouses, involves more than passing across a feeling, thought, message or desire. It goes over how a thing is said, when it is said and where it is said. In marriage, the word “communication” is broken down to “communion,” which means “sharing of thought and feeling.” Breaking this further, it gives us “commune” which literally means to speak together as close friends.
Until you successfully pass a message, a thought or a feeling across to someone else, you cannot be said to have communicated effectively. Having understood the place of effective communication in understanding your spouse, as discussed previously, it becomes imperative to unveil some principles that would enhance your communication style with your spouse, thereby bringing total understanding between both of you.
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