Dear nairalanders,
I have issues bothering me,concerning my husband and I. I feel an overwhelming urge to talk to family or friends about it, but I don't want people to use it as an occasion to cause confusion. I can't share here cos u'll ask me why I brought my family problems to nairaland. The problem is seriously affecting my relationship with him. I've talked to him severally, I now fear I've turned to a nag. I once talked to his mum about an aspect,but there was no difference, as he didn't budge. What do I do?

I dnt tink dats a gud idea swty

Family issue should be settled within the family not these bleeping outsiders


#my opinion tho# #cheers# #sips luna milk and weed#

Hummm, since we dont know what this is about, how can we help.?

A problem shared is a problem solved....Share and let's see how we can be of assistant but remember there are a lot of foolish people on nairaland so expect foolish answers from some people

What is it about him?

Talk to complete strangers like us. Change names and some details to protect your privacy

Yeah, talk to NLanders instead, it's safer.

Never ever ever ever tell Your problems to people you call friends. Unless you're ready for the consequences of what would result if they carry your gist outside.


better to trust strangers on nairaland. than friends who would stab you in the back later..

chioma134:
Dear nairalanders,
I have issues bothering me,concerning my husband and I. I feel an overwhelming urge to talk to family or friends about it, but I don't want people to use it as an occasion to cause confusion. I can't share here cos u'll ask me why I brought my family problems to nairaland. The problem is seriously affecting my relationship with him. I've talked to him severally, I now fear I've turned to a nag. I once talked to his mum about an aspect,but there was no difference, as he didn't budge. What do I do?

get a new moniker if you can,and share your issues here.I will advise you to protect your privacy as much as you can when sharing it.You might be surprise that there are others here who have pass through similar problems before.

You can talk to your mum, depending on what is it about him.

Some ppl say share marital problems with family.I say a big NO to this. If I complain abt my husband to my mum she will end up looking at him judgementally. Since I got married she has been crying I don't "open up" just cos I don't "confide" in her with challenges we face. My husband n I has formed a formidable force. Doesn't mean that we don't face challenges but at it's worst,I wil advise u share on nairaland then CAREFULLY pick d opinions given u

softysparky:
You can talk to your mum, depending on what is it about him.

Hmmm, I will say depending on d kind of mum u have.

Platnum1:
Hmmm, I will say depending on d kind of mum u have.

Yeah you are right.

Platnum1:
Some ppl say share marital problems with family.I say a big NO to this. If I complain abt my husband to my mum she will end up looking at him judgementally. Since I got married she has been crying I don't "open up" just cos I don't "confide" in her with challenges we face. My husband n I has formed a formidable force. Doesn't mean that we don't face challenges but at it's worst,I wil advise u share on nairaland then CAREFULLY pick d opinions given u

Thanks. Will do just that.