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Why Still Single by Musharraf: 6:42pm On Jul 14, 2015
If u get an invitation from Mr. President in Abuja, Aso Rock to be precise, on getting dere, dey welcome u wit anything welcomable.
Wen u approach Mr. President, he said
" Master so and so, "I want u to get married" and he promise to take charges of all the expenses for d Nikkah program and also promise to give u a mansion in Abuja and an exotic cars....
I know dat 99% of us will never reject such offers coz we r hearing it directly from Mr. President.

But Allah said in the Qur'an

"You shall encourage those of you
who are single to get married. They may
marry the righteous among your male and
female servants, if they are poor. GOD will
enrich them from His grace. GOD is
Bounteous, Knower. Quran (24vs32)....

Allah promised us in the above quoted surah that He will enrich us out of His grace but we belief not coz we r not seeing Him.

Allah said in Qur'an 41 vs 30.
"Indeed, those who said our Lord is Allah, and further stand straight and steadfast, the Angel descend upon them saying: fear not, not be grieved and receive good news of the garden which you were promised".

The question now is

"WHY ARE WE STILL SINGLE BROTHERS ND SISTERS

Are we not tired of being 'single'

Why r we still in d state of "Gamophobia".
...."Anuptaphobia" (having fear for marriage)...

Why r we not encourage marriage to discourage immorality

Let us look at the world we find ourself today, there is no single day that we will not hear or read from the media about a rape case here in Nigeria and other countries...
Don't we know that Islam have provisions to curb all dis ungodly act
One of such is "Nikkah"...

Parents of nowadays are not helping the matter but rather making it more complex, they keep encouraging us to pursue primary, secondary, and tertiary Institution degree as d case may be, but they will hardly advice one about marriage talk less of encouraging one...

And you will discover that some of our parents got married at their 20's.
How can one b sure of dat?
Just apply dis simple arithmetic by subtracting our parents age from d age of d first born of d family, u will discover dat 80% of dem got married at d age range 21-26 years...
Even some of them that got married at there 30's are still regretting it up till date...
U can ask any of dem dat u know if u doubt wot I said.
But if we see anybody dat want to do d same today, we will b calling them names....

Most of our parents are earning less than 40k as salary but yet, they still cater for our welfarism financially, morally, spiritually and otherwise....
The send us to school from primary upto tertiary level to the extent dat we keep calling dem "world best" especially our mother (may Allah have mercy on all of dem), dey r successful with the little they r earning coz Allah put blessing in wot dey earned and they r contented with wot dey av.

But look at some of us today, we r earning over #80,000 as salary but there is nothing to boast about and still want to remain 'single'...
We keep pursuing certificate that will only benefit us only in dis life...

Look around urself and see some of our mates that av married, r we better dan dey do
The answer is capital NO.
They will obtain all d so call certificate dat we av and d children dey av on ground will b added advantages for them over us...

Some will even obtained all d certificate and end up marry unbelievers as future partners...Subhanallah...

Allah says " And the life of this world is nothing but play and amusement. But for better is the house in the Hereafter for those that are pious, will dey not understand"
(Quran 6:32)

You keep after unbelievers while sister Halimah, Aishat, Ruqayyah, Latifah....are still looking for partners.

Some of our sisters keep themselves chaste just to keep it for their future partners, dey av Bsc, HND, Masters and yet keep themselves chaste, yet dey r still out dere crying for husbands yet you keep pursuing Elizabeth, Ngozi, Clara, Bose and d lites...

Go to our higher institutions and ask for d statistics of unmarried sisters that are looking for husband, u will b shocked when dey told u. Or organize any lecture about marriage, u will discover that d venue will not contain people compare to oda topics...

Conclusively,
Hadith was reported that last hour will not come until d time that
"Women will increase in number and men will be decrease in number so much that fifty women will be look after one man"...Subhanallah

If everybody in the world today decided to practise sunnah by marry 4 wives each, more than millions ladies will still remain unmarried.
Wot do u think dey will become
The becomes "PUBLIC PROPERTIES"...
If one of our daughters happens to be among the millions that r not fixed, how r we going to feel

Our sisters r not helping d matter too because they don't want to marry married man and married man too don't want to marry more that one wife.
They don't ready to born baby more than 2 or 3 as d case may b.
One girl, one boy and one dog.
May Allah see us through and have mercy on us...

How I wish, I only wish dat the truth has a tongue....

#encourage_marriage_and_discourage_immorality
Re: Why Still Single by Cutehector(m): 6:48pm On Jul 14, 2015
I swear, dis op is a member of boko haram. Ask me why


Shekau doesn't like western education, he wants the femals to get married at all cost..

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