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5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by ceo247frolic(m): 3:54pm On Aug 01, 2015
Society says you are incomplete until you’re married. Once you get to certain age, everyone expects you to get married.
Your parents are expecting you to get married so you can give them grandchildren. Your friends are all getting married too, and you are feeling left out.


In desperate bid to get married and fit into society, some ladies will go to whatever extent to trap a man into marriage. The truth is, there are people in this world who want what they want, when they want it and how they want it and who will never accept NO for an answer.
Below are some things ladies do to trap men into marriage.

1. Pregnancy:
Most of women who think their men are not willing to make a serious commitment often use this common trick. This however doesn’t work for everyone but it does for some. Some even fake the pregnancy and at the end of the day, they claim having a miscarriage.

2. The Virgin card:
Some men only want to get married to virgins and some girls would deceive such men into believing they are one. Such ladies would refuse refused to have sex until they were married because they wanted to “save themselves” for their husband.


3. The Obedient and hardworking girlfriend:
Some ladies would say yes to a man’s every demand. They would never argue or nag, no matter what. They would be at his house every weekend washing, cleaning and cooking. Just marry them and they would show you their true colors. When you make them wives, that’s when you’ll realize they are not so obedient afterall and are not even hardworking.

4. Becoming a church worker:
Some ladies would become very committed in church. They would either join the choir or the ushering unit, where they would be noticed easily. They would attend every church activity and act really ‘holy’, just marry them and all the holiness will disappear.

5. Sucking up to his family:
Some ladies will make it a point of duty to warm their way into his family. They would suck up to that family member he is very close to, maybe his mother or sibling. If he is a mommy’s boy, getting along with his mother is as important to them as getting along with him, at least until the wedding.


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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by ronald4lif(m): 3:55pm On Aug 01, 2015
Number 3 and 4 is the most common gimmicks many ladies employs to entrap a man into commitment.

They'd never engage you in an argument and will always accept whatever you say as the final verdict even when you're glaringly wrong. Some of them will greet you good morning like 10times a day forgetting they've greeted before. Dare you introduce them to your mum and they'd start being all nice to her so much that she'll be mounting pressure on you to come let you guys go perform the marital rites on her. But all these positive attitudes dwindles as soon as you get married and she bear a child. Her real personality will be unveiled at this point and then she'd start disagreeing with you and having her own opinion. Woe betides you if she starts earning as much money as you then your home could turn out an ISIS zone.

For the church thing, I think that's obsolete although some ladies still indulges and uses that to cajoling innocent men to commiting with them. In the morning she'll tell you she's in church, evening same and everyday of the week she's in one service or the other. These kind of women are the most boring to have a conversation with. Ask her how are you or how was your day for instance they'll respond with 'by God grace it was fine'. Every conversation you seek to have with them must be narrowed down to religion and similar triflings. But in reality, such ladies are the most dreaded and perilous to involve with.

Conclusively, women who can brainstorm with you and clutches tight on their opinion, disagree with you often are the most desirous and homely. Also, the ones who doesn't always deploy religious yearnings and always want to give off the impression that they're godly by gate crashing one crusade arena or the other are more friendly with enviable character. The overly religious ladies should be avoided. They're too specious. My opinion and no one is obligated to accede to it.

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by buygala(m): 3:55pm On Aug 01, 2015
Obviously, it isn't only men who put up an impression to get what they want smiley

He forms Shell staff... She forms Redemption camp Virgin sad

He forms sex-ninja with Viagra and other Burantashis. .... She forms good girl with a tight vagina coated with alum coupled with all those fake "Baby it's paining me" cries during sex sad

He makes a deliberate effort to stop snoring and farting loudly in his sleep so as to impress her.... She downgrades from Brazilian wig to Togolese wig to impress him smiley

He wears new boxers whenever she is visiting so that she won't think he is 'dirty'..... She takes the smallest fish in the stew so that he will know she can 'manage' very well sad


POINT IS... IN RELATIONSHIPS, BOTH PARTIES TRY TO IMPRESS EACH OTHER.... WHY SINGLE OUT THE LADIES?

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Nobody: 3:57pm On Aug 01, 2015
undecided

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by ArchEnemy(m): 4:00pm On Aug 01, 2015
You know this thing is about reality

Who won't put up a good behaviour or 'someone's ' acceptable behaviour to trap them when you think he/she will be a great spouse?

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Phinagold(f): 4:01pm On Aug 01, 2015
Lol and after wedding?

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Nobody: 4:13pm On Aug 01, 2015
Noted

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Tashaamania(f): 4:18pm On Aug 01, 2015
Ahh that number 5 though, my brother's girlfriend does it alot. She can disturb me with calls ehhnn. She even buys me stuff but I still don't like her. undecided
Her famsing way of life annoys me.
It's okay to famz sometimes tho but abeg..No be me dey date you na undecided give me a break..

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by McEwen(m): 4:18pm On Aug 01, 2015
angry
Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by ronald4lif(m): 4:18pm On Aug 01, 2015
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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by BRIGHTTAZ: 4:35pm On Aug 01, 2015
Good points. but why not be urself as a lady

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Johnnoah1st: 4:39pm On Aug 01, 2015
@OP, if someone try dat no.3 wit me, i wont mind to divorce her the next day after our wedding if i find out she is not a virgin and she trick me to believe she's one.

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by DrayZee: 6:06pm On Aug 01, 2015
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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Shaadey: 6:06pm On Aug 01, 2015
ododo oro
Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by jammani(m): 6:07pm On Aug 01, 2015
What about Jazz

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by sexaddict08(m): 6:07pm On Aug 01, 2015
My girlfriend make sure she introduces me to everyone she knows . I always try to escape most of them.
my mum wants to see u
come to our end of month vigil
come to my neibours wedding
come to my auntie's party

for where, no be me

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Aitee1: 6:07pm On Aug 01, 2015
Iffa hear...nso ke adodo, ndö ado ke ikö




undecided undecided undecided

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Nobody: 6:07pm On Aug 01, 2015
So, what shud I do na??
Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by YerYer: 6:07pm On Aug 01, 2015
OP your intentions seem genuine and good, you are trying to prevent prominent bachelors from falling into the hands of fake/pretensious spinsters but I would urge guys to take your advice with a grain of salt. These points you made can also be portrayed by genuine Godfearing, virgin and obedient women just doing right by God. If you are looking for wife first pray to God for guidance, secondly get rid of all the numerous expectations you have, also evaluate yourself and ask if your qualities are worthy of being a good husband.

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Nobody: 6:08pm On Aug 01, 2015
okay
Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by DiegoNakel(m): 6:08pm On Aug 01, 2015
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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Quote: 6:09pm On Aug 01, 2015
you are right op
Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by kenconsult: 6:09pm On Aug 01, 2015
Op, please point of correction "some Nigeran ladies"

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Dsimple: 6:09pm On Aug 01, 2015
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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by kingarizona1(m): 6:09pm On Aug 01, 2015
That No 5 can be very frustration and annoying___ after na force to marry you??!!

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by motunolani02: 6:10pm On Aug 01, 2015
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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by 360jamng(m): 6:10pm On Aug 01, 2015
dat one concern you. If I don't want to marry u, you are on ur own. Gaht dat?
to copy this tone, press 1

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by bqlekan(m): 6:10pm On Aug 01, 2015
Hmmmm.. May we not shimarry
Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by kurtCobain(m): 6:11pm On Aug 01, 2015
They no fit see draw for my side

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Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by chronique(m): 6:11pm On Aug 01, 2015
Really?
Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Islie: 6:11pm On Aug 01, 2015
Nah 1, 3, and 5 I sabi....




The rest nah wash
Re: 5 Tricks Nigerian Women Use To "Trap Men Into Marriage" by Nobody: 6:11pm On Aug 01, 2015
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