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| Prostitution, Would You Sacrifice This Much For Family? by dianah(f): 12:22pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
I grew up in Benin city, I watched a lot of families send their daughters, wives, mothers to Italy to 'work', I watched it become so 'normal' that almost every family had an 'Italo babe'. As much as this should not define the entire Benin Kingdom, it is an unfortunate truth...well, it used to be in the 90's, it has relatively eased over the years. I recall the first case of the 'Italo' syndrome was with a girl called 'B'. B's family was soooooooo poor it was heart breaking. The dad was a security man, the mom roasted fish for sale, and the kids where like 20! Okay, I know that's an exaggeration, but they were at least 10 kids, leaving in a 1 bedroom flat. They all looked malnourished, and there was always this rumour that you should only buy fish while it was still being roasted, as if kept overnight, they were stored in the toilet because there was no space in the house! We avoided their fish like a plague! Fast forward to the late 90's, I was in Secondary School then.. the eldest daughter B disappeared for a while, amidst rumours of prostitution in Italy trailing the family, I have no proof, but we saw some changes that shut us all up. B's troublesome brothers became the kids with the designer clothes, they were building a new house and demolishing the old. They now had the biggest house in the street, wore arguably the most expensive outfits, they were no longer malnourished but chubby! READ MORE http://www.dianahsplace.com/2015/08/prostitution-would-you-sacrifice-this.html Visit: www.dianahsplace.com Follow on twitter: @dianahsplace
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| Re: Prostitution, Would You Sacrifice This Much For Family? by jimohibrahim(m): 12:23pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
I'm a guy... So that's not an option or excuse.. |
| Re: Prostitution, Would You Sacrifice This Much For Family? by chocolateme(f): 12:26pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Peacemakers.. Its an option but not an excuse. |
| Re: Prostitution, Would You Sacrifice This Much For Family? by Chidoks(f): 1:06pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
it's wrong in my opinion.no child should be subjected to the mighty task of providing for the family.i'm even against sending them out to hawk in order to contrbute to the home.parents should team up and make ends meet in their home not imposong their responsibilities on growing children.prostitutuon is way out of it! |
| Re: Prostitution, Would You Sacrifice This Much For Family? by cococandy(f): 3:53pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Couldn't they find something else to do? That's not a sacrifice. |
| Re: Prostitution, Would You Sacrifice This Much For Family? by Captainswag225(m): 7:10pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
yeah it is. |
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