Does it?

Eaa247:
I have been wondering if marrying a girl without a job really matters. She is a university graduate, possess potentials u may say but since she does not have a job yet won't that be a big disadvantage. Her height is just 5'3'' dats abt 160cm, petite. Is nt this height anoda disadvantage?. She is gud in character, godly and quite. But these two issues- no job nd her height are giving me concern.
Pls advice me, just honest and. Mature advice.

you're supposed to provide for her, dumbassq
I like tall women that's why you don't start nothing so there won't be nothing
but character na im be baba o
too many broken marriages due to ojuKoKoro

Eaa247:
I have been wondering if marrying a girl without a job really matters.
She is a university graduate, possess potentials u may say but since she does not have a job yet won't that be a big disadvantage.

no, doesnt really matter, although if she had a job, it would be better.

Her height is just 5'3'' dats abt 160cm, petite. Is nt this height anoda disadvantage?

how can the height of someone be a disadvantage in marriage?!

She is gud in character, godly and quite. But these two issues- no job nd her height are giving me concern.
Pls advice me, just honest and. Mature advice.

if these issues are a problem to YOU then why are you asking us?! this certainly shows us all that YOU are not mature/ready to get married, if you cant even solve such petty issues in your life.

you are the one who's getting married to her so me thinks you should really reflect on it on your own.
joblessness is only temporary and can always been taken care of; meanwhile can you assist her in getting a job or help her set up a solid business?
then the height thing is more of concern because that one is permanent, you will always see her as a short woman as it is obvious that this is fixed in your mind; can you live with that?

They may matter. . . If they are top on your must-have list when making a decision on who to marry.

It's all about what one wants. Many people have chosen their partners for very mundane reasons. Some of them are enjoying their marriages, some others are regretting.

Your life, your choice.

Criminal minds
Imagine her with a well paid job and the week after wedding she loses the job..

You have told us about her character which seems to be solid, her physical attributes which you obviously detest and not once did you mention your LOVE for her. It's best you don't go into marriage with her because you will make your lives miserable especially when you think you could have done better height wise and financial wise.
Some things are not even an issue once you love someone because you don't even notice their supposed flaws.