They always want to know if you are doing better than them;and so they come complaining to you how nothing is moving on well with them.They complain about lack of job,their relationship,their parents even complain about how they dislike themself.
They tell you negative things and you begin to think like they do; and in same manner, you begin to tell them how nothing has ever gone well with you. You tell them all your secrets,plans you have in mind,visions you need to accomplish,goals you want to set and all they can do is laugh at you because at least they now know what exactly you are up to and plans you have for the future.
Beloved, some secrets should be between you and you alone. Don't tell everyone your entire life. Everyone must not know what is going on with you.They must not know when you fall and when you are down. Break away from every pity party relationship. To conquer your world and fulfil your purpose,you don't need negative people around you.
If you have a vision,which I believe everyone should, purse it with all your heart and let nothing limit you.
People would always tell you what you cannot do. How you cannot reign,how you cannot rule,how you cannot fulfil your purpose.
If you allow everyone say something about you, they'll help tell you how you should live life,What you should eat,what you should wear and even the career you should pursue. Everyone's opinion shouldn't matter to you because you are in a "World" of your own.
If you must rule and conquer your world, then you must be mindful of what and who you listen to.
Seek God,set goals,set a target and when you wish to accomplish them,make provision for your vision/plan, and carry out that plan.
The best time to start is NOW.

You rule your world; LET no one define you.