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My Wife Smokes by Nobody: 11:42pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
First, I really apologize if I'm offending any smokers out there. I used to smoke, quit about 4 years ago and I know it's a serious PITA if you're trying to quit. So yes, I'm a little bit of a hypocrite here, but here'goes. Like I mentioned, I used to smoke, for about 10 years. When I met my then-future-wife I smoked as well, though I never really liked it. I did it because when I was young I thought it was cool then addiction set it, but I always despised the taste, the smell, etc. Well, now I've been quited for 4+ years and I just cannot stand the smell anymore. It's one thing when you're a smoker because you can barely smell it, but it's so bad I can smell her from across the house, literally. It seems like some smokers reek more than others, I don't know why, but it just seems that way and when my beloved wife smokes she REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEKS (not to mention all the other effects it's having on her). One time I was showering and she decided to hop in after just having a smoke and I actually had to get out because it started churning my stomach. Here's the thing She knows how I feel about it. I've mentioned it numerous times. Sometimes she'll lay by me on the couch and she'll catch me holding my nose, I've even told her that the smell is almost unbearable for me. The problem is that it seems like she has absolutely no desire to quit. She bought an electric cig, which seemed like a godsend, but she quickly discarded it and moved back to the real deal. She has even said she doesn't desire quitting, even for her own health. I dread riding in the car with her, I don't feel like being affectionate, ugh - I know, I'm bad for feeling this way. lalasticlala rocktation mrsphyno fellow nairalanders. please what should i do? #YOLO 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Smokes by madridguy(m): 11:45pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
@ OP, is your wife in question a club girl before you both married or you live outside Nigeria ? Cos smoking is not our culture here in Nigeria especially among women. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Smokes by tellwisdom: 11:48pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
Please give me her number let me marry her 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Nobody: 11:49pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Smokes by CallMeMadMan: 11:56pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
See another mad man on the loose. I know say na you teach your wifey |
Re: My Wife Smokes by madridguy(m): 11:57pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
From your write-up so far I guess you both smoke together before you quit. I will suggest you take it easy with her. You need to enlighten her more about the implication of smoking and I hope she heed to your advise. richommie: 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Smokes by UnknownT: 12:02am On Sep 19, 2015 |
pray she doesnt make you relapse after 4+ years |
Re: My Wife Smokes by yanabasee(m): 12:09am On Sep 19, 2015 |
OP..... You've got to take it easy on her as it stands... She wouldn't give up irrespective of her health condition... She's a chronic smoker... If she really loves you and put u first.... She will look further to quit smoking...but she will need you to be patient with her... Men, I dnt fancy girls dat smoke.... I see dem as sex-addicts! And they hardly get orgasm, no mata how much u twist their cuntz 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Smokes by kestolove95(m): 12:13am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Smokers ar liable to die young but passive smokers ar liable to die youngest..so bro, u a passiv smoker and u ar more prone to danger dan her.. |
Re: My Wife Smokes by 1miccza: 12:28am On Sep 19, 2015 |
OP you were smoking before you stopped and she has refused to stop my thought is for you to sit down and discuss amicably with her.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Smokes by menix(m): 12:38am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Op except u re. Telling mii she ain't a nigerian. Even if that lady learnt smoking frm me she must stop wen I must have shown her the hades in me.. She dey madt wey she no go stop.. |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Mekybliss(f): 1:09am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Praise the Lord. |
Re: My Wife Smokes by KanwuliaJara: 1:22am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Sorry o! "If it doesn't fit, YOU MUST ACQUIT"! |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Truckpusher(m): 1:25am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Rule number one in any relationship: Don't start or encourage what you can't stop or handle in the future. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Smokes by KanwuliaJara: 1:45am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Truckpusher: THE OP STOPPED! His wife can't! No condition is permanent! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Truckpusher(m): 1:46am On Sep 19, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:I tell ya, no condition is permanent. |
Re: My Wife Smokes by KanwuliaJara: 1:49am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Do you smoke? |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Truckpusher(m): 1:51am On Sep 19, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:Make a wild guess. |
Re: My Wife Smokes by KanwuliaJara: 1:55am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Truckpusher: No! |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Truckpusher(m): 1:56am On Sep 19, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:I ain't telling you nothing |
Re: My Wife Smokes by KanwuliaJara: 1:59am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Ok! |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Truckpusher(m): 2:02am On Sep 19, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:Got it? |
Re: My Wife Smokes by KanwuliaJara: 2:13am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Truckpusher(m): 2:57am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Nobody: 6:35am On Sep 19, 2015 |
The first erroneous step to helping a smoker quit is Resenting him/her. No way would they quit if they see that their smoking act irritates you.They would feel bad,and decide to seek solace in whatever they smoke.Yours is a lil lighter cos you once was there. 1. Don't show your disgust whenever she is smoking. 2. Don't give her the ' smokers are liable to die young advice' instead whilst you both are in a happy mood,show her googled pictures of Cigarette effect to WOMEN especially. With pleas of how you don't want it to affect your unborn babies. 3. Loneliness ignites the urge to smoke. Get her real busy! 4. Whenever you both wanna chill outside the home, Movies and cool restaurants would do, Going to the club should be on hold for now Cigarette is really bad and its users dey get strong head wella, all they need is your Love to help them through Thanchuuu 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Smokes by bqlekan(m): 7:05am On Sep 19, 2015 |
goldenruby:Wow! #Respect. Rightly said 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Nobody: 7:14am On Sep 19, 2015 |
kestolove95: i dont smoke any-more. . .Ama qood lad now. Am not saying smokers aint good too tho. But honestly the side effects aint wot one can control. Such as Kidney failure. . .Lungs e.t.c. Thanks @Lalasticlala i wl be very happy if u can take dis to front-page. let's see people's idea over this matter. thank you sire. #YolO |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Nobody: 8:23am On Sep 19, 2015 |
smoking is not bad.join her in smoking bro |
Re: My Wife Smokes by funlord(m): 10:09am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Dey here dey find solution to your madams "benson affair" you hear! By the time she born "heavy ebele" for you na dat time your eyeballs go clear! |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Nobody: 10:27am On Sep 23, 2015 |
your wife smokes. richommie which time you marry? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Nobody: 1:44pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
MzRoyalHighness: lol..na u i marry nah. abi u no dey smoke? #YOLO |
Re: My Wife Smokes by Richy4(m): 2:27pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
goldenruby: I agree in your point number 1 as well as 2. But disagree to some extent in 3 and 4 Loneliness got nothing to do with smoking. Busy smokers usually take time off to smoke no matter how busy they are. Also in terms of chilling, you said they should not go to the club. But you forgot that most restaurants now got smokers sections in the restaurant. |
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