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Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Shebarh: I may be an anuofia but: Iranu is wanting your MIL dead before you marry her son. Abasha is the thought of you moulding young lives after you have wished their grandma dead. Isn't it ironic that you don't want to die before your sons marry but you don't mind and would, in fact, be glad at the dead of your yet to be known MIL? You are the disgusting one on this thread. What exactly would you be contributing to the man's life that his mother hasn't contributed a million times more? If it's sex, he would most likely have got better before settling down with you and your severely desecrated train tunnel of a vagiina. You are bringing nothing he cannot do without and you want his mother dead and I'm the anuofia? I wish there was a way to show your comment to all your potential boyfriends so they see what sort of animal they want to consider wifing. 27 Likes 1 Share
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Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Neverquit(f): 3:07pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
1) The man has to be assertive with massaging the egos of the 2 ladies 2) Intolerance from both sides. Ladies, it's quite ridiculous to expect your husband's mother not to come over to see her son. Haba That woman was responsible for making him fit for you to marry. Now that things are going well for him, you expect her to not enjoy the fruit of her labor? Fear God oo. MIL (and future MIL): treat your DIL like your own daughter or niece. What some women don't understand is a man with a healthy relationship with his mother will treat you like a queen. So encourage and nurture that healthy relationship. You'll be the one to reap the benefits. Cherish your MIL. You too will be a MIL. 9 Likes |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Pidggin(f): 3:40pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
MIL |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
The poster above me just spoke the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth 4 Likes |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Pidggin(f): 3:43pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
MrsPhyno: 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by sinaj(f): 3:52pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
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Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by stcool(m): 4:23pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
I am Coming! make Oga wake up first... 1 Like
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Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Efostick(m): 4:23pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
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Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Na una still be una worse enemy. How many times husbands and fathers in-law dey fight or quarrel? 5 Likes |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by bamac(m): 4:24pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
All boils down to the fact that WOMAN are problematic in nature, they(the women) know this too.. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Naff24(f): 4:25pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
mega147:Slapper nd slappee.. I gbadua am |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by seangy4konji: 4:25pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Na so i nearly forget the rice weh i deh cook for fire.... Make 7.45 reach make i go watch arsenal play jare... I tire no be small ooo... |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Captainswag225(m): 4:26pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Shebarh:dont u think the mother in law and daugher in law should both have equal ownership of the son/husband? |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
if the husband handles it well there would be no problem. |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by lonelydora: 4:27pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
"I too know" from both parties. Mothers trying to show their DIL that her son owns the house while DIL trying to show the mother that she as a wife owns the house. |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Shebarh(f): 4:27pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Captainswag225:They should v equal ownership.. but most times selfishness won't allow the mother or the daughter inlaw |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
It's daughters-in-law not daughter-in-laws. I think it's a general female idiosyncrasy. Anywhere there are two women who contend for similar things(in this case, the attention of the man), disagreement is inevitable. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Tobium1(m): 4:29pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
De same way u will behave to ur DIL wen u becom a mother |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by orobs93(m): 4:30pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
B IamLEGEND1: Bros abeg which app be dis? |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by lonelydora: 4:31pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
missmary: Those praying this prayer should know that their own mother MUST die before their brother marry. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by onismate: 4:31pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Shebarh:You think is the best thing? That means the woman that will marry your unborn son is currently dancing skelewu on your head, were ever she will be now before God sends her to earth, she will be praying for you to die quick before she would marry your son. 4 Likes |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Well from the way i see it, Women love to control men, So the mother having controlled her husband doesn't want any lady controlling her son, obviously the wife wants control and priority over the husband. so the conflicts ensue however that doesn't mean its applicable to all though, but really it's surprising, they should be helping each other build a stronger family. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by loswhite(m): 4:33pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Shebarh:You added "sometimes it's the best" how can u even think of it? 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by tyconcepts(f): 4:33pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by flokii: 4:34pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
missmary: I've noticed that Women are possessive and usually get jealous of one another... Unlike we guys... they can't overlook most mistakes and get very emotional about everything.. @OP you might become a MIL someday... then you'll see that you all are like that.. |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by maxwellogbonna: 4:35pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Mind u! Is not all mother inlaw that behave that way, secondly it depend on the daughter inlaw behavior, every good daughter inlaw we like to make a good relationship with her mother inlaw. |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by softandmoist(f): 4:36pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
A lot. A lot is wrong, and until we change our african mentality of nosiness and not respecting boundaries, it won't stop. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by cruzyteejay(m): 4:36pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
It all start from the first meeting of the both,whatever happens that day will determine the future relationship between the both(my opinion though) |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by dblaisepascal(m): 4:37pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
I have a mother, I have a wife'' my wife is closer to my mum than me. if u as a lady is well mannered, respect ur mother inlaw''s opinion, and if ur mother inlaw is matured enough to tolerate ur flues, I don't see why there should be conflict. |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by whisperj: 4:39pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Very apt response. I bet she didn't think of it in this manner before typing. |
Re: What Is The Problem Between Mothers And Their Daughter-In-Laws? by abe4kom: 4:40pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
Someone will also pray that you die before she meets your son. And pray your son is not the randy type that wants to marry at 18. Shebarh: |
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