Maturity is more than a matter of age. There are mature 6-year-olds and immature 80-year- olds. Maturity is a matter of how you treat yourself and others. It's how you think and behave. So if you're tired of all of the childish conversations and fighting around you, or you want people to have more respect for you, try some of these techniques to learn how
to become more mature. No matter what age you are, when you are mature, you'll always be the grown-up in the room.


1. Develop your interests. Lacking
dynamic or developed interests or
hobbies might contribute to your seeming
immature. Finding something that you
enjoy doing and becoming an "expert" at it
can make you seem more experienced and
mature. It will also give you something to
talk about with others, whether or not they
also participate in your hobby.

2. Set goals and work towards them.
Part of maturity is being able to
assess your current strengths, determine
areas that you need to improve, and set
goals for the future. Keep the future in mind
and let it inform the choices you are
making about your life right. Once you have
set goals that are clear, actionable, and
measurable, take action to work towards
them.

3. Know when it is okay to be silly. You
do not have to be serious all of the
time in order to be mature. Real maturity is
knowing your audience and figuring out
when it’s appropriate to be silly and when
it’s important to be serious. It’s good to
have different levels of silly so you can
scale your actions appropriately.

4. Be respectful of others. We all have
to live in the world together. If you do
things to intentionally annoy others, or if
you do whatever you want without keeping
the feelings of others in mind, people may
view you as immature. Trying to remember
the needs and wants of other people
around you will help you cultivate a
reputation as a mature and respectful
individual.

5. Pick mature friends. Your friends will
influence your behavior. Make sure
that you're associating with people who
will make you a better person, instead of
spending time with people who only drag
you down.


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