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EXCLUSIVE: Sanusi’s New Bride To Study Computer Science At UK University by dahaz(m): 6:22pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Sa’adatu Barkindo Musdafa, the new bride of Muhammadu Sanusi II, the Emir of Kano, will go to the UK for an undergraduate course in computer science in January 2016, TheCable understands. The princess, who is a daughter of Barkindo Aliyu Musdafa, the Lamido of Adamawa, was officially given in marriage to Sanusi II on Friday after Jumma’at prayer — although the union will effectively be “on hold” until she completes her studies in 2019. A family source told TheCable that Sanusi II, an advocate of female education in northern Nigeria, is “very delighted” with the resolve of his bride to pursue her academic interest in information technology. All of his three wives are university graduates, while one of them is currently undertaking a master’s programme. TheCable learnt that Sa’adatu demonstrated significant knowledge of computer science in her O’Level, scoring an “A” in the school certificate exam. “Her ambition is to be an IT expert and she has already secured admission to a UK university to further her studies. Effectively, she will be there till the age of 21 when she is supposed to return to Nigeria and, as it were, officially assume the position of Sanusi’s fourth wife,” the source said. Female education The Lamido of Adamawa, who holds a PhD in engineering, is said to be very excited at the examples the northern royals are setting in giving education to women in a region considered to be very conservative about female and western education. Sanusi II’s first wife, Sadiya, who is a daughter of the late emir, Ado Bayero, holds a bachelor’s degree in education (history) from the Bayero University Kano (BUK) and speaks Arabic. The second wife, Maryam, holds a BA (combined honours) in Arabic and Islamic studies also from BUK and is about completing her dissertation for a master’s degree in education from the University of Abuja. She speaks Arabic and Italian. The third wife, Rakiya, has an LLB (law) from Ahmadu Bello University (ABU) and an LLM from the University of London. Sa’adatu will now complete Sanusi II’s Islamic marital quota after her university education at the age of 21. Cultural differences Another family source told TheCable that the “hysteria” on the social media about the new bride was “condescending and unfair”. “To call an 18-year-old woman a child and spread propaganda about ‘child marriage’ is nothing but mischief taken to another height. In Nigeria, the legal age for marriage is 18. At that age, you can vote and you can drive. This is also the legal age for marriage in most western countries,” she said. “It is very disrespectful to Sa’adatu to call her a child. There is a lot of ignorance about Islamic concept of marriage and many people are trying to force their own traditions on Muslims with this belief that they have a superior culture. “Ordinarily, that the Lamido of Adamawa’s daughter and Emir of Kano’s wife is going to school in the UK is something that should set an example for how girls need to be educated. “It also promotes the notion that marriage should never be allowed to interrupt the education of a promising woman. There is this assumption that once you marry, your education stops. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Two of Sanusi’s wives are still pursuing their academic interests.” Sanusi’s daughters Sanusi’s “obsession” with western education for girls and women, a family friend told TheCable, is evident in his immediate family. “He has seven daughters and four of them are now undergraduates,” he said. “One is studying law at Buckingham University in the UK. The second is a biology major at New York University, US. Both will graduate next year. The third is studying accounting and finance at Swansea University, UK, while the fourth is taking media studies at the American University in Paris, France. “You can accuse Sanusi of all things but you cannot deny the fact that he takes educating girls and women very seriously. There is this stereotype out there that once a woman is married in northern Nigeria, she becomes a sex slave. It is very unfortunate.” Limits of libido Another source, who is an Islamic scholar, described as “laughable” suggestions that Sanusi took a new wife because he cannot cage his libido. “It is ridiculous to even suggest that. The emir does not need to marry any new wife if it is all about sex. After all, you have monogamists who sleep with all kinds of women any day and any time. To suggest that he took a new bride because of sex is part of the backward thinking that women are only for sex,” he said. “Those who think women are nothing but the object of sexual desire and marriage is nothing but sexual gratification need to understand the deeper meaning of marriage in Fulani and Islamic traditions. “Sa’adatu is a young lady and a princess of noble birth whose mother is also a princess, and who has been brought up in a good Muslim home. This is the kind of woman that is prepared for giving birth to princes and bringing them up for the role expected of them in the society.” A marriage of two emirates Sanusi II’s marriage also represents a “cementing” of the historical ties between the two emirates. Sanusi’s grandfather, Muhammadu Sanusi I, and Aliyu Musdafa, the father of the current Lamido (Sanusi II’s new father-in-law), were both turbaned around the same period in 1953-54. The two emirs were known to be very close friends before the death of Sanusi I, while Sanusi II’s mother also married from Adamawa at some point. “It is only natural that Sanusi II will marry from Adamawa if he decides to take another wife in the tradition of emirs and kings in most African societies,” he said. It is not uncommon in northern Nigeria for new emirs to take new wives if they have not filled their quota — and the new brides are usually princesses. Bayero, Sanusi II’s predecessor, also married princesses from Ilorin, Katsina and Sokoto. https://www.thecable.ng/exclusive-sanusis-new-bride-study-computer-science-uk-university?fb_ref=Default&fb_source=message |
Re: EXCLUSIVE: Sanusi’s New Bride To Study Computer Science At UK University by wachakuta(m): 6:25pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
All those pple complaining don't ve d slightest idea wat it means to be a princess... Enough effizy mhen! All those twitter aunties wey de yarn Optata fit go rest now... At 30 u nefa marry and u've lost count of how many times u've been KNACKED u come de vent ur anger on d young Princess... na don jazzy go judge ur case! |
Re: EXCLUSIVE: Sanusi’s New Bride To Study Computer Science At UK University by superstar3: 6:28pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Okay |
Re: EXCLUSIVE: Sanusi’s New Bride To Study Computer Science At UK University by scribble: 6:32pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
here is nothing superior about this paedophilic culture It's the culture in the North to marry women decades younger That's how my former Northerner from Borno brought one 13 year old and told me that is his new wife I was shocked. The Northerner blind for one eye and let's just say he is no fetty wap The bride died nine months later trying to push out a baby that also died This is why VVF is rampant in the North Why not let your women flourish and develop first before all this predatory marriage of a thing Quote me if your relatives are boko haram sponsors |
Re: EXCLUSIVE: Sanusi’s New Bride To Study Computer Science At UK University by Acjohn(m): 6:33pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
That's good, it will avail others the opportunity to cut their share in his absence before she becomes a full house wife in a house where there is limited bedroom resources |
Re: EXCLUSIVE: Sanusi’s New Bride To Study Computer Science At UK University by Nobody: 6:58pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Dats good but putting the union on hold till she comes back from school in the Uk for dat matter at age 21,now dats a brave man cuz some girls 1st year their accent would change,2nd yr dey start getting wiser,3rd yr they already ave a standby boyfriend and have decided they now want to base in the UK,by 4th yr wen they know you ave finished all skull payments they would kindly ask their parents to return d bride price. Kudos to the few brave men we still have. |
Re: EXCLUSIVE: Sanusi’s New Bride To Study Computer Science At UK University by ArodewilliamsT: 8:22pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Damage control. Why not Islamic sudan where you studied terrorism and the throat-slighting methods you used to kill Gideon Akaluka? Of course you will lock her up in your palace and pay daily trust to write 'Emir Sanusi's new wife jets of to UK". You can only deceive your Yoruba and hausa slaves not Easterners. Just go and destroy her with VVF. Na your business be that. Abooki don turn Advocate of female education overnight. Na so!. Dey deceive yourself there. |
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