Sin Is The Reason
Sin comes with shame and regret,
Sin forces a person to mind things that don't make sense or matters that doesn't concern he/she.
If you are in a church and all you can see is people gossiping about you. Check your life very well, sin is the reason why you feel so insecure.
Those who are sincerely in christ, are always bold enough to talk about their evil past, which helps those who are not yet in christ to know that Jesus can change them too. All off us have our past that's our testimony. Romans 3:23"for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God", if you are not bold enough tell your story or let people talk about it, then you haven't totally submitted to Jesus christ and you need to do that now if the kingdom of God is truly important to you. Ask Jesus to give you boldness to tell your story, you will discover that you won't care about who talked about it any more. May the Lord God give us strength to stand firm in Jesus name. Amen!