Many people are of the opinion that seeing a lady or guy who is a virgin at 18 is impossible. Why do they feel so? We live in a world where the majority have enslaved themselves to s€x.

Everyone is doing it, so they reason. A lady who is still a virgin is seen as weird and awkward. They say "virginity is not at all any sign of dignity but rather lack of opportunity."

There are so many reasons why people engage in premarital s€x. But no reasons can ever be justified. Nevertheless there are youths and some mature ones who are battling with the urge of engaging in illicit s€x. How can these ones win the battle of getting involve in unmarried s€xual relation?

I think there is no religion on earth that supports doing it before marriage, yet people hardly care. Truly it is hard to control s€xual urges. Every now and then, thought of doing it might enter your mind for no reason. It is normal for it to happen.

However, the pressure to engage in it can become so high due to pressures from people. They may mock you or utter derogatory remarks for been a virgin. A guy may be teased that his organs are not functional. A lady may be referred to as "Virgin Atlantic". But do you really think you are missing out?

Whatever bring real fun and happiness shouldn't have negative consequence. While some have escape the consequences, others have lived their lives in dilemma. There is a time for everything, and the time to have S€x is during marriage. So never get intimidated if you are taunt for not doing it.

You are not losing in any way as a result of abstaining. You have Avery precious gift which cannot be given to just anyone. Many people who have waited till marriage has never regretted it. Although in today's world people get divorce for so many reasons but you can rarely find couples who married as virgins get divorce.

Most people, more especially the males who were s€xually permissive are unlikely to change or remain after marriage. Couples who cheat on their partners is mostly are a result of the life they lived before marriage. Whereas individuals who were virgin are more likely to remain faithful after marriage.

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