my guy has really changed, we started dating last year and he took me to his parent  five month after we started the relationship, but last month i saw a message from a lady and i ask him he said they were jst friend  and i decided to keep quiet but last week he was not really feeling fine so his phone was swithched off , actually i told him to swith it off in order to get enough rest ,when we were about sleeping he decided to call a friend,  a msg came in immediately for him from this same lady and i quote (why did you put off your phone, se iyawo e ko ti lo ni (has your wife not gone ) i ask him immediately what the msg is all about and he just got angry and said the message is from a guy, then i ask why he deleted the msg if its reallly from a guy and mind you this was from this same bunmi, on my birthday too which was yesterday 22nd April he did not call me until 8 o'clock which is  very unsual,i got angry and the next was cutting the phone , i tried calling him but he refused to pick, for Chrits sake it was my birthday, am confused nairalander please help me .