I found this post interesting. You may need to read it.


There are several ways of understanding "Filling with the Holy Spirit." Some people teach that it happens at conversion: when one asks Jesus into his or her heart. Others believe that filling occurs at some point during the believer's growth: at baptism, or simply when the Spirit decides. Still others believe that the filling of the Spirit is a temporary, circumstantial occurrence, used for specific work of God on earth through His servants, and can happen many times throughout the life of a Christian. Whatever your personal beliefs, several Scriptural steps are most certainly involved.

1 Building your faith
2. Remembering your trials
3. Letting God into your Life
4. Letting God guide you

You can read more at
http://m.wikihow.com/Be-Filled-with-the-Holy-Spirit