hello people,  i married a nigerian guy after a hard relatiionship with him.  I decided to forgive him and marry him because we have a child together.  I live in America and he lives in Nigeria.  I Started to file his papers for him to come and join me here.  In the meantime, I was traveling back and forth to visit him in Nigeria.  On one of my visit to Nigeria, I found out he was cheating and spending time with other women.   I was very angry and still forgave him.  The last straw was when he dumped me a week before christmas to be with the other woman.  apparentely this new woman is a sugar mama.  she bought him a  car, he lives with her and her children from a previous relationship (free rent) He is not paying child support for the child I have with him, instead he's gallivanting in 9ja with this woman and his friends, buying new clothes for himself and the worst he's paying school fees for his siblings in 9ja and not his own child.

waooooooo, I pity you, if u file for him and he comes over, hez gonna leave you, be critical with ur thinking

you already know what to do @poster

i doubt dis topic of urs is 4 real coz no broke ass naija dude wuld leave d opportunity of goin abroad 4 a naija sugamama

unless she pays wella

but if its true den as y me already wrote, "u know wat 2do"

xavier3:

i doubt dis topic of urs is 4 real coz no broke ass naija dude wuld leave d opportunity of goin abroad 4 a naija sugamama

a bird at hand is worth two million in the bush
@Poster,u shld be Thanking God u found out all these now and not later.why are u seeking for advice Surely,u know what to do Forget him,take care of your child and move on.

LOL! 9ja Deadbeat Dad  

your own ignorance put you in the situation where you are now. you "forgave him" so many time because of the baby you had together instead of reasoning like an adult and using your brain in evaluating this man. why would you want to marry someone that did you wrong?!
now you are here telling us what a deadbeat he is, forgetting that you are also showing us what a deadbeat baby mama/wife you are (being played on and on and on by this looser).poor jugment on your part is the reason you got into this mess.
move on with your life, divorce the rat and be thankful that he has been removed from your life, for good. you can NOW see what kind of man he truly is. thats the kind of stuff you should have realize before marrying him instead of now.
he has all the rights to spend his newly found fortune the way he pleases. YES, he should be spending it on his child instead of family education but who are we to discuss what a deadbeat guy should do.
he is now driving his car all over Lagos in fancy clothes, thinking he is the man. faith will catch him in due time.
as for you, move on with yours. (as if you needed him?!!!!)

suspend the filings, take care of yourself and forget him.

Throw him in d dustbin.he doesn't care about u and d child.

take him to court.
Any man that needed to be forced to take care of a child he fathered is not a man.

amen.

Fhemmmy:

take him to court.

can a US court enforce a deadbeat IN 9JA to pay child support? dont think so.
is there even a court in 9ja that would enforce it?!

leave his stupid ass. there is no future with him

   

Real Deadbeat Daddy!

The man just dey girate ooo!! GBA! Don't divorce him yet ooo,  See people just dey talk divorce like water! hahaha!  He easy to get another hubby, besides you got a child already,

@ Poster
ENTER HOUSE OF PRAYER! So that this SUGAR MAMA will leave your hubby for yah. Don't worry his eyes will soon OPEN!!! He's can't see for now because he's blindfolded with MONEY!

Good Luck!