Alliamdulilahi

Pls be very patient. I know u are in a difficult situation, with the associated stigma and pressurizations. I'm not very sure how ur friend arrived about that 'spiritual husband' conclusion but I am very skeptical. What did he then advise you do? Do some funny charity or sacrifice or bodily incisions on ur wife? Pls let us know. But I advise u be very careful treading that path. Brings about so many problems. Instead consult fertility experts, orthodox and herbal. Should also learn a lot from fertility threads nairaland. May Allaah make your feet ( u and ur wife ) firm. Aamiin

and continue praying.

we v been to fertility expert we even use agbo. I believe with God by our side and prayer as you advised, we shall conquer Insha Allahu.

Op, be patient like the brother said.

If orthodox tests are done and everything is fine, I'm of the opinion that Allah chose to put it on hold for the moment.

Me too don't know how your friend came about his conclusion of "spiritual husband". Your wife feels different in dreams or what? .

I once had a dream when some one ask me leave his wife alone. He even mentioned my wife name. Still dont believe though.

alabosian:
I once had a dream when some one ask me leave his wife alone. He even mentioned my wife name. Still dont believe though.

Strange but still a dream anyway. Scholars with direct experience (ma'rifah) have said so many things about dreams and how to identify those dreams from Allaah whereby direct messages are passed. These teachings are beyond what I can delve in here due to time constraints. However, I will humbly submit that if it was a single occurence, I mean the dream, then you should read no meaning to it. Infact I strongly advise you forget it.
Have you also checked if the problem is from u?

we both checked by orthodox all the same thanks bro

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