A friend of mine dated a guy for 3 years during which she was leaving alone. When they meet he hadn't a accommodation but now he does.

He asked her to move in with him which she did couple with the fact that she was having some financial crisis and could not pay for her rent.

she moved in exactly 4 months now, she told me she has notice during this four months that there is a bag in their bedroom which her bf guard jealously, she said she asked him what the content is and he protects the bag that seriously but he pick a quarrel, according to her, he holds the keys to this bag to the bathroom when bathing.

She curios and also anxious to know what the content is.

What should be my advice

Break the bag and see what is inside, as long as she can handle shock.

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She should be careful. Curiosity killed the cat! She has to start planning how to move out of the house fast and find someone who does not have such deep secrets. If I were her I will sleep with my eyes open.

Let her get her own bag,lock and carry it around too.Even hang the bag on her neck,_{under lock and key ofcourse} around her neck while making love and . . . .the guys left hand MUST not touch it.we go see who go tire first.jk
what stops her from leaving the guy?she shld do fast,get her own accomodation and leave the bag-man.