[sub][/sub]Rants of a mother in pains. Its been days. And it still feel like a magic like a dream I gave u a special name since d first day I felt u in me. A name befitting a prince that u re I loved you with everytin in me. A mothers pure undilitued love,knowing you were growing inside me gives joy. And I waited patiently to hold u in my arm.to cuddle and give u a mothers warmth and love. Alas it was all day dreaming I never get the chance to hold you. Before u sleep on peacefully. No amount of my tears could bring u back. Sleep on my prince. am a greiving mother. Bt I break to be strong again. Cos I know u re in a special place. U fought just as I fought. U re a macho man. My macho man. I wish I held u just once just once may be my pains will not be dis much. Ya allah ease my pains. Ease my pains. I love u ray, we all love you. Alhamdulilahi for everything.

Now I wet my pillow in silent tears and nurse my cs scar with pains and agony and a breast full of bloated milk and my heart full of un speak sorrow. God ease my pains ease my pains I feel my heart is about to break to piece ya allah ease my pains

My condolence to all the bereaved mothers especially to you OP and my neighbour who lost his first born son yesterday after grooming him to be the man of the house after d death of his father. Alas, he's no more

abisquare:
[sub][/sub]Rants of a mother in pains. Its been days. And it still feel like a magic like a dream I gave u a special name since d first day I felt u in me. A name befitting a prince that u re I loved you with everytin in me. A mothers pure undilitued love,knowing you were growing inside me gives joy. And I waited patiently to hold u in my arm.to cuddle and give u a mothers warmth and love. Alas it was all day dreaming I never get the chance to hold you. Before u sleep on peacefully. No amount of my tears could bring u back. Sleep on my prince. am a greiving mother. Bt I break to be strong again. Cos I know u re in a special place. U fought just as I fought. U re a macho man. My macho man. I wish I held u just once just once may be my pains will not be dis much. Ya allah ease my pains. Ease my pains. I love u ray, we all love you. Alhamdulilahi for everything.

I know the feeling. May God console you with more sons & daughters.

It is well.

If I may, I'll advise you find something to do that you are passionate about. It will help ease the pain when U are busy. I hope your hubby is always there by U cos u need all the comfort u can get.

Oh dear...so saddd!!!
The Lord comfort you in this trying time and replace this loss!!!!
#bigbearhug

I lost you due to a hospital mistake, but what can I do I ve leave everything to God. Ijust want to pour out my hrt. May be dis heaviness in my hrt will reduce. Am tired of cryin inside I want to scream out. And act crazy even sue for damageds bt all dat will not bring u back, they say its d will of God. Yes its d will of God. Am consoling my sef. Bt itsnt as easy as it seems am nt as strong as I act. God take dis pains away.

may god almighty give you the fortitude to bear such unbearable pain. you shall be strong again for god to replenish you with more children even if they cannot replace the one that's lost.

Op..take heart.. God knows best

Aww so sad. Take heart dear, God will put a smile on your face soon

abisquare:
[sub][/sub]Rants of a mother in pains. Its been days. And it still feel like a magic like a dream I gave u a special name since d first day I felt u in me. A name befitting a prince that u re I loved you with everytin in me. A mothers pure undilitued love,knowing you were growing inside me gives joy. And I waited patiently to hold u in my arm.to cuddle and give u a mothers warmth and love. Alas it was all day dreaming I never get the chance to hold you. Before u sleep on peacefully. No amount of my tears could bring u back. Sleep on my prince. am a greiving mother. Bt I break to be strong again. Cos I know u re in a special place. U fought just as I fought. U re a macho man. My macho man. I wish I held u just once just once may be my pains will not be dis much. Ya allah ease my pains. Ease my pains. I love u ray, we all love you. Alhamdulilahi for everything.

Sis na lie... OMG let me call you first

So sorry for the terrible loss dear , only God can console you now . RIP to the little one .

so sorry for your loss God will give you double just be strong and try to recover. It is well with you.

This is very sad

Almighty Allah is the All Knower
Accept my condolences

sorry My dear,the Lord gives and he takes as well,he has a better plan for you so don't feel easily discouraged,I pray your son finds rest in the hands of the almighty one above..it shall be well with you

Sorry about your loss dear OP

Oh my...

So so sorry. May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss. God knows best....so they say.

so sorry for ur lost...God will gv u double for ur trouble. RIP Ray. pls take heart

God will bring the ones that will stay and make you proud in life..Take heart ma'am

Surely, Allaah takes what is His, and what He gives is His, and to all things He has appointed a time ... so have patience and be rewarded.

I wish so. Tooo

taryour:


Sis na lie... OMG let me call you first

Thank you all for your condolence.

After delivery he needed an incurbator but the hospital incurbator was not functioning before they could transfer him to another hospital it was too late. He struggled from 6.30am to 9.30pm. He was too weak too survive. I couldn't stand on my feet so I never get to see him. He left even before get to seehis face. Just like that. All I ve now is d scar of his delivery, with life after a cs without my ray to show for it. My sister I wish am still dreaming

taryour:


Sis na lie... OMG let me call you first

abisquare:
After delivery he needed an incurbator but the hospital incurbator was not functioning before they could transfer him to another hospital it was too late. He struggled from 6.30am to 9.30pm. He was too weak too survive. I couldn't stand on my feet so I never get to see him. He left even before get to seehis face. Just like that. All I ve now is d scar of his delivery, with life after a cs without my ray to show for it. My sister I wish am still dreaming

Wish i could see you right now. Are you back at home? Lots of hugs for you dearie. God has seen your pain and has comforted you.

May God give you the strenght to bear the loss.keep your eyes on God, He will make u smile again.

My condolences, OP.

My goodness. Smdh, this is aggravating. The incubator was not functioning? From 6:30am - 9:30pm, they kept him at that hospital without an incubator? An incubator is a lifesaver because they help regulate their body temp, until they are stronger to do it on their own. He really tried. Now I understand why you called him "your macho man".

If you couldn't stand on your feet, did they not have a wheelchair to take you to go see him?

I am so sorry. This Hospital failed you.

May his soul rest in peace.

abisquare:
After delivery he needed an incurbator but the hospital incurbator was not functioning before they could transfer him to another hospital it was too late. He struggled from 6.30am to 9.30pm. He was too weak too survive. I couldn't stand on my feet so I never get to see him. He left even before get to seehis face. Just like that. All I ve now is d scar of his delivery, with life after a cs without my ray to show for it. My sister I wish am still dreaming

Yieldings:
My goodness. Smdh, this is aggravating. The incubator was not functioning? From 6:30am - 9:30pm, they kept him at that hospital without an incubator? An incubator is a lifesaver because they help regulate their body temp, something they can't do on their own. He really tried.

If you couldn't stand on your feet, did they not have a wheelchair to take you to go see him?

I am so sorry. This Hospital failed you.

May his soul rest in peace.

A woman that just went through a C.section cannot do anything until after a day or two,the cells in her legs are dead until after sometime when the effect of the anastestic is gone so her case is understandable.

abisquare:
[sub][/sub]Rants of a mother in pains. Its been days. And it still feel like a magic like a dream I gave u a special name since d first day I felt u in me. A name befitting a prince that u re I loved you with everytin in me. A mothers pure undilitued love,knowing you were growing inside me gives joy. And I waited patiently to hold u in my arm.to cuddle and give u a mothers warmth and love. Alas it was all day dreaming I never get the chance to hold you. Before u sleep on peacefully. No amount of my tears could bring u back. Sleep on my prince. am a greiving mother. Bt I break to be strong again. Cos I know u re in a special place. U fought just as I fought. U re a macho man. My macho man. I wish I held u just once just once may be my pains will not be dis much. Ya allah ease my pains. Ease my pains. I love u ray, we all love you. Alhamdulilahi for everything.

I feel your pains,innalillahi wainailehi rajiun.
My cousin had similar case three weeks ago,the baby survived for few hours until he stopped breathing.
The people around could have acted fast though cos two hours was enough to take the baby to another hospital as soon as it was discovered your hospital has no incubator,all in all though,there's no point blaming anyone,Allah knows best and He will give you another soon.
Be calm and whisper,Alhamdulillah.

Yieldings:
My goodness. Smdh, this is aggravating. The incubator was not functioning? From 6:30am - 9:30pm, they kept him at that hospital without an incubator? An incubator is a lifesaver because they help regulate their body temp, until they are stronger to do it on their own. He really tried. Now I understand why you called him "your macho man".

If you couldn't stand on your feet, did they not have a wheelchair to take you to go see him?

I am so sorry. This Hospital failed you.

May his soul rest in peace.

same thing happened 2 an aunt of mine. incubator no dey work , her baby died as a result some naija hospitals r awful

Vyolet:

A woman that just went through a C.section cannot do anything until after a day or two,the cells in her legs are dead until after sometime when the effect of the anastestic is gone so her case is understandable.

my auntu was able to sit couple of hours later , some women bounce back quickly

aflyingbird:
my auntu was able to sit couple of hours later , some women bounce back quickly

Yes some women bounce back faster than others,it depends on her strenght and how fast she is able to make up her mind.