sexual excitation in most men is almost spontaneous as opposed to women who need time to be in the mood.
usually, the man wants to come in as soon as he is erect. he is hardly reminded that his partner needs to be WET.
ANXIETY is one of the main causes of erectile dysfunction ED. Men who experience ED feel like their EGO is gone. it is also important to consider the sexual fulfillment of their partners.
you can help the lazy man in bed.
-woman please reassure the man he will have the sex, calm his anxiety.
-encourage pre-intimacy
-when the woman is wet, the man can go in gently. NO RUSHING
-take a glass of water 30min b4 sex.... MALE
-use condom, it can make him last longer
-men on antihypertensive drugs can see their doctor for adjustment of dosage or a change of drug.
-diabetes too can affect erection, treat appropriately
-sexual postion styles that unduely stress the skeletal muscle should be avoided
- There may be a pathologic basis other than as above, that will require u to see a doctor. however, many people wt ED do well wt above