Most people who haven't met me in real life may never realize this (I am a total blabbermouth behind the keyboard) but I am hyper introverted.
So I'll have to talk and engage people in conversations, this in itself is not a stroll in the park.
Anyway, embracing social media and my current university experience has helped, even though I know I am still struggling with self conciseness.

So this is it:

CONS:I am reluctant to add my opinion during discussions so as not to be percieved as arrogant or ITK.

People will be actually scared to speak with you because they don't know your reaction (A girl actually told me this about me)

More time will be spent "talking" with your self than even with your closest friends

Feeling uncomfortable at large gathering seems almost like a reflex action

Limited number of baes (if any)

I often worry that people don't like me

Often times, there is worry about causing people
inconveniences.

I feel awkward asking for favors

([It's all actually not all that bad tho)


PROS: self awareness brings a level of emotional advantage i.e: Knowing what to say and how to say it at any time, ability to effectively study people and know what to say to trigger certain behaviours.

I actually spend more time acquiring general knowledge

I know how to do most things by myselfl e.g:i don't need anyone servicing my electricals,I can take on any plumbing work to a certain level etc.

You just have to get addicted to things you love

You get to know something about everything

You get to make a perfect liar (Refer to no:1)

People don't just mess with me

THE END

P.S: To any fellow introverts, I would love to read your thoughts below.

Hope I don't seem arrogant.

The Op is tired of himself..... That's why he is lamenting publicly

benedictnsi:
The Op is tired of himself..... That's why he is lamenting publicly

I see your not a fan of sharing your thoughts

iamnlia:

I see your not a fan of sharing your thoughts

I'm not against you at all

iamnlia:
Most people who haven't met me in real life may never realize this (I am a total blabbermouth behind the keyboard) but I am hyper introverted.
So I'll have to talk and engage people in conversations, this in itself is not a stroll in the park.
Anyway, embracing social media and my current university experience has helped, even though I know I am still struggling with self conciseness.

So this is it:

CONS:I am reluctant to add my opinion during discussions so as not to be percieved as arrogant or ITK.

People will be actually scared to speak with you because they don't know your reaction (A girl actually told me this about me)

More time will be spent "talking" with your self than even with your closest friends

Feeling uncomfortable at large gathering seems almost like a reflex action

Limited number of baes (if any)

I often worry that people don't like me

Often times, there is worry about causing people
inconveniences.

I feel awkward asking for favors

([It's all actually not all that bad tho)


PROS: self awareness brings a level of emotional advantage i.e: Knowing what to say and how to say it at any time, ability to effectively study people and know what to say to trigger certain behaviours.

I actually spend more time acquiring general knowledge

I know how to do most things by myselfl e.g:i don't need anyone servicing my electricals,I can take on any plumbing work to a certain level etc.

You just have to get addicted to things you love

You get to know something about everything

You get to make a perfect liar (Refer to no:1)

People don't just mess with me

THE END

P.S: To any fellow introverts, I would love to read your thoughts below.

Hope I don't seem arrogant.

I can relate with your thoughts. What course are you studying?

iamayodeji:


I can relate with your thoughts. What course are you studying?

Medicine and surgery