Firstly, let me introduce myself, Am Oye, tall, dark, athletic body and people say am handsome (dunno).
It happened that I have to go to Ile-ife in Osun state to collect a laptop computer I asked him friend to help buy from his dealer. I started the journey from I Ilesha where I was at that moment in my car. On my way I saw two people standing by the road side, a guy and a girl, so I decided to give them a lift 'cos I hate travelling alone. Which I did and learnt they are also going to OAU which is also the same place I was heading to. To cut the whole story short, I got there details and they got mine. They are both a computer science student and I got there contacts cos a m a computer freak, anything that has to do with computer.
So couple of weeks later, the girl and I got really close and I we talked. I got to know she is just 18years old and I really took her as my younger sister as I am 27.
Later her whole topic change and it was a night like that she said she wanna tell me something and I said what, I was shocked when she said "I love you" I was so so speechless that I decided to disconnect the phone.
The point now is that she has been on my nerve with the I love you "ish" and that she wants to go into a relationship with me. Thou I tried to make I understand that I don't love her, the age difference, I even lied that am in a relationship even thou I am not. But she won't bulge, I am confused, she is a good girl with brains and she I also very smart. Now have started to feel something for her thou I have been avoiding her calls, pings, messages and everything from her, but she is still pestering me. And times when I pick up, she won't even ask why I didn't pick he calls, she would simply say she missed me and wanted to tell me she loves me. Make I no lie oh, I really missed such attention and am getting it. So pls, mature minds only, what should I do?

Shes no more a minor na nd frm d way she acts she seems matured asin attitude wise besides 9yrs is not somuch of a gap u knw....ders no harm in gettin to knw her beta leave her age one side first

nevi12:
Shes no more a minor na nd frm d way she acts she seems matured asin attitude wise besides 9yrs is not somuch of a gap u knw....ders no harm in gettin to knw her beta leave her age one side first

Thanks bro.

oye9ja:

Thanks bro.

Ummm am a gal duh

I don't understand. Why would it be a problem?

nevi12:

Ummm am a gal duh

Sorry, thnx sis.