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Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by Fidelcruiz(m): 7:26am On Jan 26, 2016 |
my advice is that if u have the money bail her out of her troubles because whatever u passed through in the past happened that u may get to where u are today. my philosophy is that success bears no grudge and no normal mother will somersault and rejoice seeing the daughter with pregnancy out of wedlock. Pardon ur mother in-law and bail her out. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by nani212(m): 7:35am On Jan 26, 2016 |
LastProphet:Angry smh Wasn't she feeding and housing her before she got pregnant? She threw her out when she needed her the most. Her own daughter. She wasn't angry, shes just wicked. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by delishpot: 7:38am On Jan 26, 2016 |
forgive her help her and move on with your life. Shebi it is from her house you will still go back to marry your woman? nani212: Many Igbo and hausa parents will do just the same. Some cultures still hold true to their marriage before sex or child beliefs. I understand where the mom was coming from. She prolly isn't educated even. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by mizlovette(f): 7:40am On Jan 26, 2016 |
I'd advice u pay half the money with strict instruction that u won't ever tolerate any incident like this again cos she strikes me like one who would capitalise on ur act of mercy and kindness. It's well |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by chinedu23(m): 7:47am On Jan 26, 2016 |
daveson07:A man might be good in life but d only tin dat can hinder d man not make heaven are those little sins like unforgiveness, hatred etc if am to advice u, i tink u should help her pay d money after all God that change ur story is not stupid and u.won't tell me dat u have not ofended God before and make sure u eras d past memory and focus on ur future and the blessing ahead. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by ilyas26(m): 7:59am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Pay the money to the people directly, don't give her the money. Then after that send her away |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by LastProphet: 8:19am On Jan 26, 2016 |
nani212: we wait to see what you will do when your daughter takes in for a jobless guy at a financially low point of your life |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by nani212(m): 8:24am On Jan 26, 2016 |
LastProphet:This is my problem with making comments online. I just expressed myself and you are already waiting to see what I will do when my daughter gets pregnant outside wedlock. Really pathetic. smh |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by pabjo: 8:31am On Jan 26, 2016 |
God lift you for a time like this to show her(your in law) the benefit of help so that she can avert wrong notion in helping others next time and remember you are not paying evil for evil leave yesterday behind and focus on the future my advice thou. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by obaao(m): 8:46am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Bros, Take the following step: 1. Ask for the total amount of money she is owing 2. Divide it into half or quarter, as you deem it fit 3. Hand it over to your wife to give her mother 4. Tell her she should tell her mummy to give you space or else you will leave the house for the two of them |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by alatbaba1(m): 8:47am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Edusouls: C me c problem ooo. Do u knw me? Hv we met b4? Hw come u r quick to judge me. I'm nt claiming good Bt i'm nt bad and nt all Nigerians r bad as u presume. Change ur orientation n mind set. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by alatbaba1(m): 8:47am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Edusouls: C me c problem ooo. Do u knw me? Hv we met b4? Hw come u r quick to judge me. I'm nt claiming good Bt it nt bad and nt all Nigerians r bad as u presume. Change ur orientation n mind set. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by CioAngels(f): 9:04am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Hey NairaLanders, you are all great people, speaking in one vioce, but one or two person. I am going with you all but not without saying the would be mother should be kept away for just two months for her to learn how not be wicked. Yes, her got pregnanted and the young claimed ownership, so what else was looking for. Awon iya alapa koste. Some mothers' do have them, just like this one. Please don't tell your mother so that she will not transfer the hatred to your child and your would be wife. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by Snoolv360(m): 9:05am On Jan 26, 2016 |
As you claimed...help her pay the money and chase her away. i hope you've paid yours. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by BLESSEDISDLORD: 9:07am On Jan 26, 2016 |
My dear, she is your mother in law no any other 1, since you love your wife, please kindlt do it and you will receive aboundant bless. God will uphold you and your family. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by Nobody: 9:08am On Jan 26, 2016 |
daveson07:As you set up a mini-shop for her I pray the God of Abraham,Isaac and Jacob bless you for ever,in Jesus name! Amen! When a lady loves when u r pennyless it's a sign she is your God ordained wife,she will only bring u favour. As for your mother-in-law,just pay off her debt. Pray for God to change her |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by maureeoy: 9:08am On Jan 26, 2016 |
give your mother inlaw the money and marry her daughter the right way and everybody will be happy. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by maureeoy: 9:12am On Jan 26, 2016 |
badboyphc: if he had aborted the baby and the lady died do you think he will be rich today.. you are not fit to advice anybody |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by oscarnoble(m): 9:22am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Pls pay all they money if you can and also forgive her |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by Nobody: 9:52am On Jan 26, 2016 |
daveson07: The bible said "forgive of all our trespasses, as we forgive those trespasses against us" dont forget she gave birth to your wife and for that alone, she is worthy of your help. no woman wants to .see her child suffers, but her daughter made her disappointed. another reason you must pay that money is that, my spirit tells me that, God is testing you.. pls dont fail, God will reward cheerful givers |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by sunsewa: 11:17am On Jan 26, 2016 |
forgive her and pay off the loan since u said u can afford it,still know she is mother of ur babymama abi girlfriend/wife to be. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by PhelimIdea(m): 11:26am On Jan 26, 2016 |
forgive... |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by kokorodudu(f): 12:37pm On Jan 26, 2016 |
Where's your address? daveson07: |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by lailo: 1:10pm On Jan 26, 2016 |
Thought u wanted to say she needed the kind of help im only thinking and u need advice on whether to agree to help her nack her punnany or throw her out.OP just disappointed me |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by jackima: 4:56pm On Jan 26, 2016 |
Help her pay all the debt and let her go back to where she's coming from. Thank you. Maturity. |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by erumena(m): 7:25am On Jan 27, 2016 |
daveson07: You were wrong to impregnate her Daughter & expect her to carry the cross, that was selfish of you. Though as a mother, she could've done a lot better by being there for her child even when the daughter made the error, but all the same she acted that way cos she was angry at that time. Now her ill treatment towards you spurred you on to better your life and that of your woman. God showed you mercy for you to make it, if you turn your back on her, and behave the same way she did to you, God will withdraw his mercy from you and use someone else to help her. There is a reason why God is passing this opportunity to you so that you can represent him by showing love in return for hate. God bless you |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by Dcholeric: 9:30am On Jan 28, 2016 |
EggovinMma:she allowed herself to be impregnated by a destitute, despite the fact that she knows, the both of them has to be responsible, and since the f*cking mother could not fend for her f*cking daughter part of the whole assumed mistake, then the f*cking mother shouldn't bring her f*cking problem she had to pile up on the guy and her daughter because they sipmly got their own problem to tackle. f*ck you in advance (this is for your next quote) I will read it next month when I log on |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by Nobody: 11:21am On Jan 28, 2016 |
Dcholeric: Lmao! Coward! |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by okanlawon94(m): 1:20am On Feb 12, 2017 |
Antina:That's wuh yhu pple say...Buh d mother-in-law never think about d unseen tomorrow |
Re: Should I Help Her Or Chase Her Out Of My House? by sisisioge: 6:14am On Feb 12, 2017 |
Oga, this isn't about helping her, it is about helping yourself. Get her out by paying off her loan...She sha would leave if you pay. Some issues are really clear-cut enough OP... |
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