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This Nonsense Must Stop by agwunchauc(m): 6:32pm On Feb 27, 2016
SPEECHLESS!!! SEE WHAT ANGLICAN CHURCH MADE A BRIDE DO AT HER WEDDING – READ BELOWA lady posted this online about Anglican church and the way they treat women during weeding, oncethey find out you are pregnant. Read below…Anglican Church has been shamelessly promoting discriminationagainst women and i CAN NO LONGER KEEPQUITE. This rubbish going on in the Anglican church has to stop. Any formof gender biasis ungodly.This church mandate that couple who want to get married must go for pregnancy test 2 weeks before wedding and ifthe woman is found to be even a day pregnant then she will be humiliated while the husband who got her pregnant will go scoot free.I am elated when my friend invited me to her wedding which was supposed to hold at All saints cathedral Onitsha. I was billed to serve as one of her train. Imagine my shock when I got there 3 days tothe wedding day only to see my friend crying herself to bits. She has lost a lot of weight and would not eat or be consoled.When I inquired to know what was eating herup. She told me she was pregnant and Iwas like she should be celebrating after all her wedding was in 2 days time while her traditional wedding was done almost 2 months back. That was when she spilled the beans.She told me that the Church said that she wouldwear black wedding gownbecause she was not supposed to get pregnant before the wedding day. Iwas bemused.Worse is that they will not even inform you of this stupid law until you musthave paid the wedding fee ofN30,000.At that point, They will only have you at their mercy because its already late foryou to change venue and your invitation cards may have been all sent out.The part that worries me greatly is that the women arethe target of this new discriminatorylaw. This is the 21st century for crying out loud. Why would the bride alone be punished for something that bothe Sheand the groomdid? Why would the groom be allowed to adorned his full tuxedo while the brideis forced into some hideous clothing.Yes, No sex before marriage is good but honestly it is outdated to not understand your partners sexuality before marriage. Worse is that some impotent people hide under the guise of born again to deceive other innocent people into marriages.Now when youfinally end up with a barren or impotent partner, the same church will tell you that you must never divorce. Hell no.This lunacy must stop. The Anglican Communion must clean up its mess and stop attackingwomen.

Re: This Nonsense Must Stop by Alexk2(m): 7:09pm On Feb 27, 2016
what is wrong is wrong and what is sinful is sinful.. A spade must be called a spade.

The said, I'll always say this; it is not by force and church doctrines are never hidden or secret.. So, if you want to get married in a particular church, you must be ready to abide strictly by their doctrine as related to wedding.
The lady in question can't claim she isn't aware beforehand... Perhaps they intend to hid it away from the priests.

On another note, why church/white wedding when they know they're family already? I just can't get it why most people see this part as a must. What happen to just going for traditional and registry?

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