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I can't imagine being this dude

Nigeria never disappoints

lalaosky: Hey y'all, let's just give up, killz never looses an arguement 'cos "he's always right"


Oya, it haff do

There's really no argument, both sides made reasonable points

Caracta: Is 2legit still viewing this thread?

Caracta:

Stop crying, you're abnormal

Oahray: exactly what the dictionary says. You are too bothered with keeping up with appearances, to truly be yourself.

I'd pick a merkki any day.

I like that girl Merkii, she came with the fire alutacontinua didn't use earlier

Caracta: Ayam jealous o...you know na.

*winks*

Don't worry, it's ok to be jealous

BoboYekini: crying is physics. You can always shut off the emotional trigger. Of course, you still feel sad, but why look silly crying? To boot.

Correct, shutting it off is where the control is but the feeling itself isn't necessarily off. And NO, i'll not cry in public, i'll simply lock myself in a room and cry if i have to again

lalaosky: Are you married to merkki?. Lol

Hahaha No, i don't even know who that is, why?

BoboYekini: One more Henne, one more Rose...all's I know is that I can't cry.

That's suppressing the feeling, bro. It came to you naturally but you decided to kill the feeling because the society has made us believe that men don't cry which is pure BS

Caracta: Kini scores?

Abeg i don tire for this thread. Too bad i can't sleep.

*grabs pillow*

Come to my room, don't be jealous but if you are, you're welcome to cry

I cried when i heard my Dad passed away and i still feel the tingling tearful feeling at times.

Heck, i feel it now and always do every father's day or his birthday..

Sue me for crying

Subomi-luv:
Where is my sexy back?

Team 2legit

Babe, pm

BoboYekini: nothing bruv. You gotta understand, these emotions/expressions are learned. Crying, jealousy. So, they can definitely be unlearned.

No, you don't learn it. You feel it, it's natural. Learning comes in controlling it. It's natural to cry, laugh, get angry, become jealous BUT we are able to control these emotions as human.

Same way it might take some people a few days to get over someone, it might take another person months or even years.

Same way it takes some a few moment to forgive, it can take others ages...I have someone grudging me since 2007

Same way it takes some people couple of dates to fall in love, some have been married but yet to find love.

It all varies by individual but it's absolutely normal to have these feelings and emotions

Caracta: Sweetie, do you get jealous too?

I'm a jealous guy and i feel more manly than some folks who don't get jealous

Oh, and i cry too....at least i have when needed

ItsModella: GBAM OOO!! This is not rocket science, I don't understand why Team Robots has refused to see reason. They must find every means possible to turn human thoughts and feelings into some form of unnecessary jargon. Anyway, that's why they are robots.

This is serious

@topic

Jealousy has nothing to do with sex, it's more to do with other things including previous experiences or how the relationship is in itself.

I got sexkillz's point, jealousy is usually a result of insecurity and that's if the person dwells in it or based on that person's previous experiences, and how he/she lets it affect him/her.
A secure person can still feel a tinge of jealousy, nothing wrong with that at all. It develops into other negative feelings and actions if you dwell in it and source of the feeling isn't addressed

What's the argument here self

Mhmmm the same school of thought that argues that some don't feel jealous will say crying makes me less than a man

We all feel the element of jealousy but showing and acting on it is another thing. Some can control the thought once it crosses their mind while others dwell in it

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Double damn! Looks like dude injected some synthol in his body

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WTF!!! Hahahahaha

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True life story

youngalex: @ 2legit....well its just a sad story,they did their introduction n trad. she was heavily pregnant,she travelled to give birth and decided to stay back for a while,the man lost the job in March and she started delaying her coming back for reasons best known to her,she has relations in Canada.....Maybe she is being advised to abandon the marriage since they haven't done the church wedding...its so sad but true

Well like i said, the story lacks the details we need to make a suggestion or have any opinion on it. All we can do, including yourself is assume scenarios. One thing is certain though, the child is gonna look for his/her dad at some point.

SniperInADiaper: How old are you? 21 ?

I still remember when i was 21

Life begins at 40 they say

greatgod2012: And when we say molesters should be castrated, some people will say our judgement is too cruelsome, now, what do we call this

RIP, cute girl!

You think? I recommend the death penalty for rapists. Rape should be in the same category as murder. IF you can't control your weiner, you ain't fit to be called a man but a misfit to the society

Ok i'm getting tired of the romance section, so many annoying kids

ibkaye: lol 'real' DJ or you're just reasonably familiar with iTunes?

LOL
Yes, real. I played at events and my freshman at college, i played at a night club for sometime to make money. Pay was never good but the benefit was top notch (if you get what i'm saying )

ibkaye: Good pick, love this song!

I was once a DJ for quite a while so i know the good stuff

ibkaye: it genuinely annoys me lol

Hahaha they have some really good one i can recommend to cure the annoyance


Feeling Kendrick Lamar's money trees lately - good stuff ibkaye


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtxmnBQmfZs

CFCfan: O yes. I like height and personality; no one comes close to Queen of sheba

See your mouth, you like the good women

ibkaye: Don't mind hard rock, not a fan of country music actually

Lol @ country music, they own country music here so i'm forced to listen to it sometimes

ibkaye: lool truee, hmm, pretty much anything and everything

Just like me, except that i can't stand the hard rock, i'll listen to contemporary rock though

Nigerian songs are so annoying, they sound so similar

Emmadani: i typed in haramic,if u dnt undastand,u can take d next available flight to borno,u wil learn n undastand more about haramic.

Ok the method of communication on this forum is English (or even pidgeon). Make sure to learn some English or better, use Google translator

Another thing i wanna say on this thread is that, biologically, it's not advisable for women to marry younger men.
Usually, a girl who is the same age as a guy tends to be more matured, not sure if there's a biological term for it. Simply means, women age faster both physically and mentally

CFCfan: He typed in pigeon English

Oh, i thought he was using the online translator or something, hard to make sense of it.

CFCfan, can you date Nikki Minaj?