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sir, I can tell you they don't need your money the mother is just trying to protect her inexperienced, innocent and vulnerable daughter from you.she had fears about you and you confirmed her fears. can you imagine you dating a girl for five years and you are planning to get married to her and you don't Know if she was going through such problem or not. it only meant that you intentionally avoided money related discussions. come to think about it, for five years they never ask you for anything until now you are getting married, and that was your test and you failed. she told you the money was for her school fees (to know how dedicated you are to her personal needs) that the rest is for her brother's school fees (trying to know if you will take him as your own) and that she sees you as her son (are you ready to take her as your mom?). we read about people like you on mother's forums like mamalette who see their in-laws as a burden and tries to break their spouses away from their families. sir before thinking of getting married to her or to any other girl, work on your giving life , your ability to shoulder responsibilities and the way you treat others remember women are incubators give them a seed they will give you a tree!

Why ask your wife if she will sleep with your servant? since u can't trust and respect her cos she is a divorcee with a child why marry her? You deserve that response.