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Thedon22:
If Chike does not receive serious sanctions for repeatedly sexually violating another person's legally married wife, it will have serious repercussions on our Social- cultural environment.
1. More Chikes would be emboldened to prey on people's wives. Many lazy men are now gyming for strength to dokin busy people's wives. The nation builders are busy at work while the lazy youths are gyming their muscles to wildly dokin other people's wives. Many Ebongas are springing up in Nigeria. Politicians, pastors, busy hard-working professionals would all be victims.
2. Lack of Trust: Husbands would no longer trust their wives.
3. Violence: It might lead to husbands taking laws into their hands. Affected husbands might not bring such issues to public domain like Frank did. They would simply settle the issue underground which can lead to life. Imagine if Frank brought out something when he met Chike on his matrimonial bed. Not many men are as rational as Frank.
4. Disfiguration of our Social- Cultural environment.

Even in developed countries a staff of a company dokin anybodys wife is first served a query, investigated and sacked when proven. Any company associating with him at this point shows they lack morals and ethics.

One of Frank alleged girlfriend is married. So Frank himself is just like Chike. But he did not expect his ex wife to have done research and expose that.

Frank thought he can control the press like when it was only print media. You can never control the press now. 9 out of 10times it wont go the way you think. This man seem to be obsessed with control which is why he brought out dirty stories about a divorce that has been ongoing for at least 2yrs. But you ended up with shit all over. When you know you are not a saint, never go online and give opinion. Stone fit hit you any time.

Also, nobody cares about you, your family, your kids or your personal problems. They are just looking for entertainment and gossip. The moment people understand this, the moment they stop washing dirty linen in public. Now and until he dies, stigma will follow him and the ex.

enemyofprogress:
na with dat your small thing wey be like dat of a 6 year old boy you dey take run 5 women?

No mind am. About 20 men too go de help am knack those women. I dare him to check their phones. He will jump off 3rd mainland bridge. Dem go even call am foolish small boy with small prick.😅.

Hope he is using condom. Cunny man die, cunny man bury am. 5 human beings know that you are a cheat and they are still engaging you. Maybe na your money but they are also cheating for sure.

Una don start again with the fake polls. Setting yourself up for heartbreak.

Fuckyoumod:
So for your mind marriage na question and answer? You people will forever be deceived.

All those questions are nonsense, a smart man or play boy will provide perfect answer to those questions.

I will rather advise my daughter and sister to carefully study, pay attention and look out for the character, behavioral patterns and content of a man. Rather than throwing stupid questions like marriage is a question and answer thing.

If she was so good in all areas of her life, why is she not married yet? The OP said she is a matured woman.

If you are serious about marriage even the questions will make you reevaluate yourself. This kind of girl does not want a playboy and is less likely to have sex before marriage. By the time all the marital rites including court are done and the real marriage starts. If you lie to her type you go too suffer. If you know immaturity and accountability is not for you, leave her. Mature men will appreciate an intelligent woman like this.

Na so Frank Edoho do playboy reach. See how his life has been decimated outside by that lifestyle. Some things are not meant to be carried on as an adult. You have to grow up and mature. Over 50, almost 60 and at retirement with nothing to show for it. Thag is what happens to arrogant people who play with their wives and children.

This cannot be true or we can conclude Nigeria government is complicit in killing its own citizens and they need to be very careful. A few people can cook and will not be able to feed the whole country, but the whole country cannot cook for a few people and they finish the food.

If the papa no do well, make una no de reward their children. That will wake everyone up and they will be afraid. Ekiti people like Ayo Fayose sha.

millionboi:
valid as how?... what if he gives her the answers she needs and things turned after the marriage,make una stop all this online forming weh una dey always form dey talk truth at times.

She must make her investigation thoroughly before marriage as a woman, yes. So shes very sure the mans house and family she will live with are who align with her faith and need as a woman. Na woman de most vulnerable in marriage so all of them must do a thorough investigation because the stories we hear today is not normal. If anyone asks for my childs hand in marriage they must answer very very serious questions. So we know where they are going, if they are polygamous, if they fear God, what their background is and what is their idea on cheating. Unserious people will run away, which is for the best for the child.

Those questions are valid. Its men that propose and should be able to answer any question honestly to their intended. They must also agree on the terms and conditions of their marriage. They will even discuss in marriage counseling which i recommend for every intended couple.

Oga, stop granting interview everywhere now. Abi is this the first divorce in history? This is your second marriage. If you knew it was that important to you, you will not even be attracted to any outside woman.

Oga leave the woman alone you people have been separated over 2yrs and heading for divorce. Everyone have gone their own way and even you moved on. Why all this? You both have children, leave the woman. Since you are very macho you should be able to find another woman. Hopefully this 3rd time your head go correct. Hard guy no de work for marriage wey you want make e work. You go humble ni and try to do the right thing.

Also make sure no be woman you meet in cheating, it wont work. The way you are crying, its clear your hard guy act js a performance for other men and truly you are not polygamous. A polygamous person will not be weeping like this. You may have escaped with such behavior in the past when media was gossip magazine.

The children of these days you cant lie to them or bamboozole them with one sided story. We have also seen your ex proof. Meet in court and settle privately for your children interest. We do not care about you or your family. You are just giving us entertainment and giving bloggers content.

First i will advise you to consider whether you want to transform into a church boy who goes to church everyday. If not, be honest with her and leave her alone.

However, all the questions she is asking are valid. You young people of these days are too used to hookup culture. You may make the decision to proceed with her but yes she has a right to interview you thoroughly to make sure you are who she is looking for. I will also advice any serious woman to do the same. That is a very serious and straight forward woman.

DomPerignon:
You have to piece together all unbiased reports and archives before reaching the same conclusion.

First is the Nigerian Police Espionage Branch report on the Jan 15 coup.

The CIA declassified archives on the Biafran civil war that have yet to be completely released.

Narratives from the likes of Ejoor, Gowon.

The suspicious visit of one of the notorious Jewish mobsters , Kray Twins to Enugu in 1965 who were linked to the Rothschilds as their muscle enforcers .

The fact that Baron Victor Rothschild owned Shell and was heading the MI6 and was a high placed "adviser" to the British govt.

Victor Rothschild and the Cambridge 5 spy network.

Recruitment and indoctrination into Marxist idealism of African students in western universities that gave birth to the Zikist movement .

Ojukwu being a card carrying members of the British Communist Party.

Refusal of Achebe to publish Ifeanjuna's manuscript given to Achebe to publish.

The list is endless and with time more archival information will eventually be released. The British are yet to declassify their own archives alongside the Russians.

You will have to do a thorough research and come to your own conclusion as what is expected of an academic.

Even till today, if they want to signal to their benefactor pictures like this will start coming out. Despite geneologists telling them repeatedly that they are not. There is definitely some kind of link as it relates to Biafra. The truth is these boys are too small for what they think they are getting into. They are too shortsighted to realize how it will backfire. Palestine doesnt even have oil. You think they will help you and you will dictate to them? Omo all of you will be wiped out. And even till today, they still try to promise foreigners SS oil if they help them fight to seize it. That is what their lobbyists went to promise to Washington. Oil that does not belong to them as a tribe in any way.

Do you rather prefer a woman who is knacking everything on the street? Woman sexual urge can be much higher than a man. Maybe your prick small so you are concerned.

You people do jn other peoples houses what you wont do in yours. I hope the landlord see your face and seize all those animals as compensation for destroying his house.

So at least one person knew they were AS and never thought they should ask? Na so una de do for Nigeria. I will thi k if you are AS before starting a relationship you should demand medical proof that you and your partner are compatible.

Jman06:
I did my premarriage medicals last week and the results turned out perfect. Both of us are of AA genotype and O positive blood group. Though I knew my genotype and blood group before now but it was required that we present the results in my church before wedding. My girl also didn't know hers prior. The results showed we are a perfect match for marriage.

AA marrying themselves is wickedness and selfishness. Lol. I de joke abeg.

DomPerignon:
Which law?

The Age of maturity in Nigeria is pegged at 12 or so.

You can google it. Make una de research. NL is not twitter where you type in ignorance and it pays you.

DomPerignon:
Age of consent is as low as 14 in some parts of Europe

In the UK, I believe it's 16.

It's the US that have strict 18 and above as their age of consent but not for all states

So it depends on the laws of the country regarding AoC .

Age of marriage in Nigeria is 18. Consent does not mean a 14yr old can knack an over 18 in those countries. It just means they can consent to their own age mates. Go to those countries and go near such children to see of they will not arrest you.

Never heard of thos guy ever

Half egg in a country like Ghana wey egg too much? Yea, that is intentional but this oyin could be lying o. Ghana does not play around with African betrayal. If they know Ghana history. They will be treated hostile in most African countries. What did they expect? Their government better back off. They kept mute whe. Their citizens were on rampage. If they dont like it they can withdraw

Hightablevoice2:
No one is a saint when it comes to war affairs..As they says victors writes history and not truths. But there maybe an iota of truth as to what Gowon was claiming and I will point out why.
From the onset General Ojukwu was not particularly an illiterate who wasn't aware of how world politics works and having come from money and belonging to one of the most affluent family in the country then, his close ties to a powerful family like the Rothschild can not be too far-fetched. Not only for their banking connection but also for their influence over war and how much power they control in the world then.. a deal might have been made and it is safe to belief they were only going to support with money and not majorly weapons or ammunitions.

While the narratives from his side might have been that he couldn't make a deal beforehand as they wanted the Biafran resources, in hindsight it does seems and sounds sketchy because the fact supports it that those were the only cards he had on the table to make any viable deals then. And he knows that, terms may not have been met but most definitely a deal was structuring with the french. Because it wasn't because of their benevolence or they like freedom fighting in particular that they will want to agree to any deal. There terms was 1, to retain their control in Africa, 2, diminish the anglo African states and 3, control the resources.. they wouldn't even lift a finger if they didn't see any of these being a possibility in the first place. While they may mitigate their risk and exposures, they are quite certain at least 2 of these terms will be met before they started offering aids. So it is quite possible there was a deal of some kind that was in place.

While I do belief Nigeria as a country is trying to move past these part of our history it hasn't been thoroughly addressed from all sides., but I will just point out that there are two major key factors that records shows why the war was lost. As to why it was fought, the question still remains. Why after Aburi when there could have been peace, but for sake of better argument let's just say it was the resources even though it wasn't at first, but later became a factor..

Now contrary to belief it wasnt for lack of man power or lack of international support that Biafran lost that war. General Ojukwu lost the Biafran War to one man tactical involvement, and that was to Awolowo's tactics and not mainly to Gowon as a military head of state so to speak.

Records shows when General Ojukwu after realizing the stand Biafra could make and were already making, it was clear initially victory will be imminent in securing the Biafran sovereign state. Their cause was justifiable and they had the resources and man power to back up their claims. But after Aburi, things took a wild 180 degree turn in the wrong direction. The question still remains what happened. The simple answer was territories and dominance, not just about resources. Ojukwu wanted the whole Southern part of Nigeria, and cut out the North entirely out, these Gowon will not be made aware before but only after the Aburi meeting. That was why he was so furious and was ready to launch the full scale police action if Ojukwu should declare Biafra.

Before the War. Awolowo has been arrested and has lost most of the Mid Western Territories to the Ibos. Particularly one place, Bendel, which later became Delta and Benin. These territories while separate from the Western Region was in some way an extension of the Western Region. Bendel is rich in fertile land, good agro both land and rivers, very exotic and deeply rooted in the livelihood of the Western states, economically, and in terms of wealth distribution among the two territories.

With Awolowo imprisoned the Ibos have already moved in on Bendel state, politically annexing the Mid Western states to their territories.. Now with Biafra amassing forces, Ojukwu knew he could take on the Nigerian army, he was a very high level commander already in the Nigerian army so he knew their strength. But he needed an ace in the hole, the project to take Biafra out will only work if the other major region also agrees to secede and leave the Nigeria state, and isolating the North entirely. At these point Awolowo's whose freedom is also part of the deal from both sides, that is the Nigerian state and the Biafran people has a decision to make, and when message got to him that they do not belief General Ojukwu intentions was to stop at Bendel alone, but has already has forces in Ekenne, and will likely push through some other Western Territories, it was clear that the Biafra end goal wasn't just Ibos territories alone, but it will only be a matter of time they will match on Ogun, through Benin and Ondo and eventually match on Lagos.

With the firm grip the Eastern Region already has on the Mid Western Regions, Awolowo immediately saw no need to back Biafra anymore but immediately withdrew from the original deal citing that he believed the Biafra forces will not just stop their but will likely annex more territories as they were already in Ekenne, a stonethrow away from Awolowo's very own Paternal home, as at then it was not just enough buying Awo compliancy with his freedom anymore by the Biafran, but he saw it that it will be viable to agree with the Nigerian government.

These development and belief then was widely circulated among the Yoruba Monarchs, the major Yoruba families, and Major Baales and traditional rulers who became the mouth piece of the news that Ibos wants to take over Yorubas lands... These narratives, while very private was communicated through every major traditional ruling houses across the Western Territories, eventually it led to the shift which immediately shut the Biafrans out from the Western Region where in some ways they were already gaining popular acceptance. Even until today, these issues still looms. Some say Awo betrayed Ibos, Yorubas claims was Ojukwu was greedy.

Awo never accepted the deal with Biafra. So when he came out, he decided to take back the whole pie from Biafra hence his reason for choosing to work with the Military government of Nigeria then under the alliance of a continued indivisible sovereign state of Nigeria. Being part of the people that fought for the independence, Ojukwu was not only a distablizing factor to the established order but also to the unity they so much fought to secure in the first place, and majorly seen as a major threat to the dominance of the Ibos over Yorubas. These fear and impression that Ojukwu does not intend to stop with Bendel alone, was a major concern among the Yoruba leaders as they have so little present in the military then.. which leads to the second factor that determined the outcome of the war.

Upon his freedom, when Gowon asked Awo's advice after having offered him freedom as to what can be done to totally weaken the Biafra forces, Awo gave the deadliest KILLER ADVICE , since the Nigerian army then wasn't particularly making any real progress during the second year of the war or so and it was clear the Nigerian army in the field with the Biafran were both present, Awolowo's proposal was to fight them the Biafrans with Hunger and Starvation. Block all major access to Food supply and if possible bomb certain bridges, block the airspace and connect with the international community that this was a conflict within the Nigerian system and they should limit their involvement. These was accomplished exceptionally that within Months not only were the soldiers starving, but general population of the Biafrans were so badly hit with malnutrition that it was clear that their body or their spirit one is going to break and it's only a matter of eventuality. Their persistence in the war, lead to the popular belief that the Biafran were so much hit with starvation that they eventually engaged in cannibalistic behaviors while it was never proven, but it is a stigma that still plagues some parts of the Ibo communities until this day. And thus the war was concluded, Effiong surrendered and the civil war was over.

Awolowo's own personal vandeta came out when Gowon said Ibos should be made whole to their full reimbursement of what they had before the war and the rebuilding of their major cities, he crippled them and set them back 20plus years by actually given each person 20pounds, one pound for each year.. while some people claim Awolowo was misappropriately informed towards General Ojukwu"s plans and the aftermath of the 20years set back plan as it was generally alluded too was unnecessary and unjust, his archives thus shows he was acting on the best interest of the Western States, but be that as it may we can see for a fact both North and South West are totally against the idea of Eastern domination. To them it is too much of a big risk.. and that same narratives still plays out in our national participations today.

No one is against Igbos ruling. Its their birth right but the problem others have is their separatist stand and the obsession with annexing other tribes who resist them now and even during Biafra. The reasons for concern are genuine because people groomed to hate their country amd separatist from birth might destroy the unity of that country if trusted with power. Once they start showing a different attitude towards the country, all tribes will be more open to Igbo leadership.

I enjoyed reading your post. Nice one.

Parachoko:
Seun, I no dey understand Nairaland sometimes Walahi

If I talk this kin comment, I do get banned, but I do see others walking away freely when they attack my parents

That comment attacked your parents? Now i see why you had problem comprehending my post.lol. Na babyshark do do do i de talk with

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Tinubu has always advocated for Direct Primaries to test your own popularity within the party during Primaries and externally during Elections. So many of the old timers & serial returnees have miscalculated, losing out and providing space for fresh people

Instead of people to welcome it as a reason for politicians to work harder ... They see this as anti Tinubu.

These guys who can't even get themselves tickets will do Anti Tinubu?

What effect will that have on Tinubu ? Someone that can't save himself has what impact?

Just pray Tinubu's dismal performance improves. Except God takes his life or health.... NONE of the opposition can tackle him. He's 1 billion times smarter than all of them COMBINED.

I want better quality opposition. Just not happening.

Maybe we should try KOWA

Lmao. Una too wicked.

DrAkpa:
Son, I hope your lawyer get his own lawyer?

Hope your father has a doctor small boy.

Parachoko:
Proven by who abeg?

This is how people like you talk yourself into problem

If this issue is taken up against you now and you're ask to prove she was underage when she married Ned, you go talk say make dem use Google abi?

You can't even prove she was truly underage while she was dating Ned.

She was born in 2000, when did Ned start Dating her(Regina)?

You just de fight yourself. Use Google or go and disturb your parents small boy.

Parachoko:
Regina Daniel was born in Year 2000, when did Ned start dating her?

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You arw arguing a case that has been proven. Oga use Google. I posted evidence you still de argue.

Parachoko:
Regina was not underage when he was dating Ned

Please get your facts right Oga. You've no reason to talk yourself into trouble

Make enough research. Regina was not 17yrs or below when Ned was dating her

She was underage and by law where he qualified as a lawyer it is trafficking to carry a minor across international waters and have sex with her. Which is why he was vehemently denying she was a minor. But she was she even confirmed it and he knew cause her international passport said her real age.

Parachoko:
Can you provide evidence Ned was Trafficking Underage?

This is a very Serious Allegation again him

He did not carry Regina travelling when she was underage?

Normal level. Most of the wars in this world are financed by them using the saboteurs innthe midst of the people they want to take advantage of. Biafra is very lucky they lost that war or slavery would have been like paradise in comparison. Ojukwu would have run away to London with his family and the money.

Any war thay is being pushed or separatist agenda, remove yourself. There is a puppeteer behind the scenes who will benefit. Especially the disssolution of regions, was a big benefit to those who would benefit the most. Interesting information and i am glad Gowon released it.

Lmao. Social media warrior. Honestly that 3 votes na big insult. Senate don tire for the disgrace you brought to the hallowed chambers. You were allegedly trafficking underage, fighting her publicly like a market woman, allegation of drugs and abuse. Even your brothers and village people no like you. You became a liability quickly that lack class enough to sit with those men in that chamber.

You dont see how akpabio quickly tried to dead his own issue? You were busy arresting people illegally and fighting on social media.

Are you afraid to confront Hope directly? Wetin concern Tinubu for Imo internal politics

DrAkpa:
Please can you be silent? There is no God of Nigeria. Please who raised you?

You call yourself Doctor Akpa. Thats enough punishment for you.

So they have the ability to track all these different sims but cant catcj kidnappers and terrorists. Its becoming clearer everyday that the government knows about it