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austin2all:
Some people will come and tell us it's anti Islam

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The summary of your writeup is HAVE PLENTY MONEY before having kids.



Not saying it's wrong to first make money before building a family, but in a case where the situation of the economy do not allow one to have enough so much money, are we saying such a person is not fit to have kids?

I'm also not saying kids should be brought to come and suffer, but I believe that with moderate and constant income, one can still go ahead and have few kids like two, remember, no condition is permanent.

The truth is that, if everybody wants to wait till they are able to have car/s, afford a separate apartment, be able to give a room to each of the kids, then, many, I mean, many will not get married not to talk of raising family.


Personally, teaching your kids good morals is more important than all that is listed here.

A child that is morally brought up will not despise his/her parent because they don't have a car yet.

A child that is morally brought up will appreciate his parent, even if they are in one room apartment.

A child that is morally brought up will always accept responsibilities for his/her action/s.


There is nothing wrong with humble beginning.
Money is good to make life comfortable for us all but money is not and will not be the most important thing to train a child adequately.


DO NOT DESPISE HUMBLE BEGINNING.
NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT.

Jh