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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Apr 03, 2016
Whether you are single or married pornography will land you in hell fire! It's satan's chain on your neck with which he will pull you along to eternal destruction. Flee!!!!!

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Apr 03, 2016
Is poison ideal for the body?
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by God2man(m): 9:22pm On Apr 03, 2016
Whosover looketh at a woman and lust after.

Indecency is not meant for married couples.
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Lilimax(f): 9:29pm On Apr 03, 2016
thesicilian:
Pornography is from the devil, & should never be allowed to have a place in any Christian setting - be it the home, office or church. period.
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Lilimax(f): 9:32pm On Apr 03, 2016
thesicilian:

Learn? Experience?
Those are very lame excuses I must say. Does a child learn how to cry? Does he learn how to crawl? Those are very innate traits that will reveal themselves when the time comes

I doubt if there was anybody on ground to teach Adam and Eve how to have intercourse when they were created in the garden.

I guess when people talk about experience, what they actually mean is 'doing it the way that it is generally accepted by the public' The main ingredient in love making, as the term implies, is love. Once a couple loves and understands each other, and know how to communicate their feelings and desires to each other, what else is there to 'learn' from demonic books and videos?

Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Austin234(m): 9:43pm On Apr 03, 2016
I disagree with u. One does not need coaching b4 he/she enjoys sexlife. They are all stages of life. Just as no one taught u how to laugh, cry, breath etc, so is sex.

Any intercourse other than male and female genital organ lock up together is a sex pervert and simply sinful. Christians who engage in anal sex should desist from that.

Satan has penetrated into a lot of christian homes and has perverted the original plan of God.


Abbeyunique2:

It's not bad since they are married, research shows that 70% newly wedded couples injure themselves while trying out new sex position. moreover human being are curious in nature, they like to explore. Mojo gives them starting point. being christian doesn't mean that one shouldn't have fantastic sexlife, are u of the opinion that doggy, 69 etc among christian couples are sin?

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 9:46pm On Apr 03, 2016
Hhmmmmmmmmm..... sad
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Abbeyunique2(m): 9:57pm On Apr 03, 2016
Austin234:
I disagree with u. One does not need coaching b4 he/she enjoys sexlife. They are all stages of life. Just as no one taught u how to laugh, cry, breath etc, so is sex.

Any intercourse other than male and female genital organ lock up together is a sex pervert and simply sinful. Christians who engage in anal sex should desist from that.

Satan has penetrated into a lot of christian homes and has perverted the original plan of God.


I respect your opinion but I don't follow your school of thought
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by tosinjay(m): 10:06pm On Apr 03, 2016
It's highly carnal, if they were virgins before marriage then that's perfect, they fulfilled God's plan for marriage which is meant to be entered into with sexual naivety and performed in purity. They be pure in their marital bed not practicing perversed styles copied from the world as opposed to the Bible which says "love not the world" and "come out from among them and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you"

Note this "and I will receive you"
God cannot receive a perversed being in His kingdom. It's strictly reserved for a holy people who wash themselves in the blood of the Lamb and therefore without blemish. Therefore repent if you practice this and anything wrong and have faith in Christ to give you the grace to live holy working out your salvation with fear and trembling. May God save His people. Amen
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by colp2015: 10:13pm On Apr 03, 2016
mimopel:
Happy sunday friends and families

Happy new month

Pls I want us to share our views on what we think about pornography....if it's good for Christian couples to watch pornography maybe because of inexperience or sth or its not good to watch...

I think pornography is practical wrong for Christian couples whether inexperience or not I believe sex is an expression of love and u make love to Ur spouse base on how u feel u want to express ur sexual burning desire. I think pornography is not ideal, to me I don't see the holy spirit encouraging that, but I could be wrong so please I need your sincere thought on dis...Pls not of a carnal mindset...but on the spiritual foresight with biblical backings if any thnx
posted it here because romance section have full traffic Dan religion let's air out view thnx
Pornography is bad. There's nothing educative about porn

Christians should avoid watching anything that adds no spiritual value to their lives.
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Austin234(m): 10:19pm On Apr 03, 2016
Okay
Abbeyunique2:
I respect your opinion but I don't follow your school of thought
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Henycymama(f): 11:03pm On Apr 03, 2016
thesicilian:

Learn? Experience?
Those are very lame excuses I must say. Does a child learn how to cry? Does he learn how to crawl? Those are very innate traits that will reveal themselves when the time comes

I doubt if there was anybody on ground to teach Adam and Eve how to have intercourse when they were created in the garden.

I guess when people talk about experience, what they actually mean is 'doing it the way that it is generally accepted by the public' The main ingredient in love making, as the term implies, is love. Once a couple loves and understands each other, and know how to communicate their feelings and desires to each other, what else is there to 'learn' from demonic books and videos?


I totally agree with you!

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by ajufinz(m): 11:06pm On Apr 03, 2016
There are many decent sites out there that provides sex education for newly Wed Christian couples.

But trust the fleshly desires of 'man'... it wants to do all things in Jesus name.

Whatever your conclusion is on this matter, remember that not all seemingly good thing is God.
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by djchukwy(m): 11:17pm On Apr 03, 2016
mimopel:
Gbam!....well said @ thesicilian and cruzita but some christians try to justify why couples watch pornography, for example both parties stayed away from pre marital sex which is very honouring neither have previous sexual partners dey are expected to learn sexually act through watching porn together. How do we argue dis?

Where was Indecency during the time of Adam and eve? Sex skills is in us, you only need to discover it by trying new things with your partner, that's all.

I remembered how hard it was for me to locate dem spot that year and the babe then didn't help out, she just allowed me to trace the honey well on my own and believe me it was a work in progress till today because no one has ever won champions league on that but we keep trying our best to satisfy ourself and that of our partner. So why Indecency? To be a successful modafvka? Or what, that's their job for your info , they pay their bills through such act and people gets to direct them like we have in movies and music video directors,

So my dear, never ever watch that with your partner because there's only one set of people that can meet up with the acrobatic styles in such movies and they charge just 500 per each "come" so that person hobby no go go dere dey "overcome" while you dey house dey wait for him.

Ekwusikwa m
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Santi222(m): 11:31pm On Apr 03, 2016
thesicilian:

Learn? Experience?
Those are very lame excuses I must say. Does a child learn how to cry? Does he learn how to crawl? Those are very innate traits that will reveal themselves when the time comes

I doubt if there was anybody on ground to teach Adam and Eve how to have intercourse when they were created in the garden.

I guess when people talk about experience, what they actually mean is 'doing it the way that it is generally accepted by the public' The main ingredient in love making, as the term implies, is love. Once a couple loves and understands each other, and know how to communicate their feelings and desires to each other, what else is there to 'learn' from demonic books and videos?



Well said jare!!

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Eddy2cute(m): 6:52am On Apr 04, 2016
[quote author=mimopel post=44373403]

Hhmmmmm.....okkkk...I get ur point, but to the doggy style or 69 or wateva i dont knw...but wateva doggy style is...if it's anal sex I don't support it.[/quotes] so u don't know what doggy style is? If I hear!
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by omojesu202(m): 7:26am On Apr 04, 2016
Tolexander:
Pornography should have nothing to do in a "practising" Christian home. The act of performing sex to entertain is a sin.

If any young couple see any naivity in any of the partner's sexual dexterity, let them consult their pastor, provided the pastor won't secretly exercise the sexual act on the female partner for "physical orientation" to the couple. Some of our pastors today, may God save us from them.

where did the pastor learn his own skill?
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Pvictor10(m): 7:39am On Apr 04, 2016
At one point or the other, by chance or deliberately, either of the couple would have watched it in their youthful days, Christian or not.

Now that you are saved, no need going back to soiled doves. Think you've gathered enough experience, the rest is self discovery, and talk to a friend or perhaps your dad.

Pornography is bad.
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by crowther15(m): 8:00am On Apr 04, 2016
Abbeyunique2:
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing. moreover sex education is kinda alien to us So if they shouldn't watch mojo, how do they improve their selflife? or are they not entitled to fabulous sexlife.
Man its does nt matter man..... there are great books which couples can read and will enhance their sexual life. Porn itself is demonic and its purpose is nt for marriage

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by datatrader: 8:47am On Apr 04, 2016
WiseBully:
Whether you are single or married pornography will land you in hell fire! It's satan's chain on your neck with which he will pull you along to eternal destruction. Flee!!!!!

Well said. Christian couple should avoid this, the havoc is going to wreck is more than education in it.
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by schoolfeez: 9:21am On Apr 04, 2016
sex is sex . p graghy or matrimonial graghy . just imagine going to a pastor for sexual advice chai I sorry for you but I have one advice for you pls make sure that all your kids under go a DNA test .
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by josite: 9:54am On Apr 04, 2016
adult films are not necessarily Indecency.some are meant to update your fucking skills which are more and more in constant need of updating in view of the info tech revolution.u need to assure ur spouse he or she is not being left out of the current style.watching films together does more good to a xtian marriage than evil.
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by damocool(m): 10:59am On Apr 04, 2016
Abbeyunique2:
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing. moreover sex education is kinda alien to us So if they shouldn't watch mojo, how do they improve their selflife? or are they not entitled to fabulous sexlife.
I believe generations before ours enjoyed healthy sêx life without watching this evil film called porn...
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by cloudgoddess(f): 11:11am On Apr 04, 2016
thesicilian:

Learn? Experience?
Those are very lame excuses I must say. Does a child learn how to cry? Does he learn how to crawl? Those are very innate traits that will reveal themselves when the time comes

I doubt if there was anybody on ground to teach Adam and Eve how to have intercourse when they were created in the garden.

I guess when people talk about experience, what they actually mean is 'doing it the way that it is generally accepted by the public' The main ingredient in love making, as the term implies, is love. Once a couple loves and understands each other, and know how to communicate their feelings and desires to each other, what else is there to 'learn' from demonic books and videos?

What makes books & videos about sex demonic? Isn't it just watching other people do what you yourself already do?
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by cloudgoddess(f): 11:13am On Apr 04, 2016
damocool:

I believe generations before ours enjoyed healthy sêx life without watching this evil film called porn...
What makes porn evil? Is it not just a video depicting people having sex?

If you can have sex and be okay, what is the huge wrongdoing in watching other people do it?
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by precisionindepth: 11:51am On Apr 04, 2016
Tolexander:
Pornography should have nothing to do in a "practising" Christian home. The act of performing sex to entertain is a sin.

If any young couple see any naivity in any of the partner's sexual dexterity, let them consult their pastor, provided the pastor won't secretly exercise the sexual act on the female partner for "physical orientation" to the couple. Some of our pastors today, may God save us from them.
why consult a pastor? pastors are humans like every body. Humans are ordained as pastors, pastor is just a title like Dr, Eng. I would never advise such. People who are termed perfect in terms of sexual whatever started someday too

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Nobody: 11:56am On Apr 04, 2016
datatrader:


Well said. Christian couple should avoid this, the havoc is going to wreck is more than education in it.

Very correct. More havoc than good, not to think of the fact that it is destructively addictive like most deadly filthy habits.
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by LeoHezzy(m): 12:39pm On Apr 04, 2016
I believe mojo is not ideal in any Christian home because this people performing the video are they holy...if not sex educated will make them not to make heaven I advise they do it any how since it not food but the live and foundation which the house is built matters most which is God...
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by dilini(m): 7:25pm On Apr 04, 2016
mimopel:



Now dis is very funny....hehehehehehhehehehehehe...lolzzzzzzzz cheesy grin..u got laughing...but very true smiley

Laughing from experience abi...

Na joke o!
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by damocool(m): 9:34am On Apr 05, 2016
cloudgoddess:

What makes porn evil? Is it not just a video depicting people having sex?

If you can have sex and be okay, what is the huge wrongdoing in watching other people do it?
Not surprised getting this from you though...
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by cloudgoddess(f): 3:34am On Apr 06, 2016
damocool:

Not surprised getting this from you though...
It was a serious question, and nowhere within it did I state my personal opinion, so the snideness isn't necessary.

Asking again: What in particular makes pornography inherently evil, not simply potentially habit-forming or distracting, but evil as in deserving of punishment or hatred, if it is merely a depiction of other humans engaging in sex? Explain as if you were speaking to an objective individual with no opinion on the matter.

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