1. If you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry
her.
2. A woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.
3. Don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in those days, our fathers had farm-lands where they worked every morning . . . that was their office.
4. If you are told that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.
5. If you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep you asking even when all has been
spent.
6. Don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.
7. Now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.
8. In those days, our fathers had many wives and many children because of their large farm-lands
and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.
9. Under the cocoa tree where your father met your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the
closet thing they did there was to embrace each other.
10. Don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to
get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.
11. When your father threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex, it was because he missed her so much.
12. Remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you’ve stopped doing too.
13. Your mother, Asake rode the bicycle with your father before he bought that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches.
14. Don’t compare your wife to any
woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man?
15. There is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part.
16. Your father met your mother a virgin and took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.
17. Your father didn’t send your sisters to school because he was foolish like many, to think a female
child won’t extend his family name, please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag.
18. Your mother have once locked up the cloth your father was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, he did not raise his hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that he can be proud to tell you that he never for once beat your
mother.
19. In the days of your fathers, women had more of natural beauty, though some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.
20. Your mother and father are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always going to them.
21. Remember your father bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.
22. Don’t stop taking care of your father and mother, it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.

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