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Be a man and stand your ground.
Why would she want you to denounce your family, when she is done with you, she will dump u like a bad habit and the family would have been gone away from you and no one to wipe away your tears

there must be something wrong for her to have even thought of telling u to denouce, do u spend time with her? do u always put ur family first before her? women that reach in this manner might have been through hurts maybe by u because of ur family or by ur family directly, but the best solution is not asking the man to denouce his family becos they are unreplaceable.

plappville:

there must be something wrong for her to have even thought of telling u to denouce, do u spend time with her? do u always put ur family first before her? women that reach in this manner might have been through hurts maybe by u because of ur family or by ur family directly, but the best solution is not asking the man to denouce his family becos they are unreplaceable.

well said

@ Fhemmmy, u seems to be every where in the family section, heh gud!!!, ;how comes ur local time read 4th of august 09?

plappville:

@ Fhemmmy, u seems to be every where in the family section, heh gud!!!, ;how comes ur local time read 4th of august 09?

Cos it is 4th of August where i reside.
I like family section and if you check politics, you will see me there too.

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plappville:

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besides isn't today the 4th of August?

yes it is, i was the one mistaking today to be monday!

plappville:

yes it is, i was the one mistaking today to be monday!

hahahahaha
i guess, it has been a long day and u tired, get some palm wine and invite me for some.

why does she want you to denounce your family? though i dont really think there's any hard reason i think why you should disown your family no matter what. if it's all about family arguments and disagreements she should be thinking of ways to amend not to destroy. family will always be family no matter what unless of course you come from the bad ones.

i can relate, there are to many psycho's posin as in-laws and a lot of guys jus can't  balance old wit the new. If u can't check matters so there's peace, free urselves!

ezinne1212:

i can relate, there are to many psycho's posin as in-laws and a lot of guys jus can't  balance old wit the new. If u can't check matters so there's peace, free urselves!

pls tell me why you will disown your family?

plappville:

there must be something wrong for her to have even thought of telling u to denouce, do u spend time with her? do u always put ur family first before her? women that reach in this manner might have been through hurts maybe by u because of ur family or by ur family directly, [b]but the best solution is not asking the man to denouce his family becos they are unreplaceable.[/b]

u are always a GEM. well said

~Sissy~:

why does she want you to denounce your family? though i dont really think there's any hard reason i think why you should disown your family no matter what. [b]if it's all about family arguments and disagreements she should be thinking of ways to amend not to destroy. family will always be family no matter what unless of course you come from the bad ones.

[/b] a good wife is truly from God. what next, will she suggest he kills them too?

ezinne1212:

i can relate, there are to many psycho's posin as in-laws and a lot of guys jus can't  balance old wit the new. If u can't check matters so there's peace, free urselves!

so the only way to free yourself is by denouncing your family?

Clarification time: 'free urselves' - free each other. I'm not tellin him to disown 'his' family, but  know that  it's 'his' family.  If the girl  is being abused by them he wont ever see it let alone admit to it, and u can't see something u don't want to see. I've seen cases where the abuse is delibratly hidden so the wife is then tagged as a trouble maker. It can be frustratin, so if u can't find a middle ground, where the family ur buildin and the family that raised u, each has there own place, then free each other.

ok