SAINTSAMURAI:
@OP i think ure wrong in the aspect of fornication and love of money. "how can fornication destroy the life of a guy? unless if the guy is a learner and he dont know what condoms are. "any serious minded guy with a purpose in life can sleep with a lady at any time just for the fun of sex or if she is his girlfriend. "the only way fornication can destroy a guy's life is if maybe he contacts sexual diseases or a lady got pregnant for him. "IN the aspect of love for money. @op who dont love money? it is the love of money and the fear of brokeness that drives men to work hard everyday, if we dont love the money, then there will be no need to work very hard. we work hard because we want a confortable life and a jetsetting life style.

SAINTSAMURAI:
@OP i think ure wrong in the aspect of fornication and love of money. "how can fornication destroy the life of a guy? unless if the guy is a learner and he dont know what condoms are. "any serious minded guy with a purpose in life can sleep with a lady at any time just for the fun of sex or if she is his girlfriend. "the only way fornication can destroy a guy's life is if maybe he contacts sexual diseases or a lady got pregnant for him. "IN the aspect of love for money. @op who dont love money? it is the love of money and the fear of brokeness that drives men to work hard everyday, if we dont love the money, then there will be no need to work very hard. we work hard because we want a confortable life and a jetsetting life style.

SAINTSAMURAI:
@OP i think ure wrong in the aspect of fornication and love of money. "how can fornication destroy the life of a guy? unless if the guy is a learner and he dont know what condoms are. "any serious minded guy with a purpose in life can sleep with a lady at any time just for the fun of sex or if she is his girlfriend. "the only way fornication can destroy a guy's life is if maybe he contacts sexual diseases or a lady got pregnant for him. "IN the aspect of love for money. @op who dont love money? it is the love of money and the fear of brokeness that drives men to work hard everyday, if we dont love the money, then there will be no need to work very hard. we work hard because we want a confortable life and a jetsetting life style.

DanceVille:
Then why are some saying I'm wrong?

iRyan:
I don't believe in God but I have never been happier and satisfied than I am now. I am married to the most beautiful and wonderful woman on earth, have 4 decent kids, live in the most plush place in New York, happy with my job and surrounded by loving family and friends. Need I say more.

SAINTSAMURAI:
@OP i think ure wrong in the aspect of fornication and love of money. "how can fornication destroy the life of a guy? unless if the guy is a learner and he dont know what condoms are. "any serious minded guy with a purpose in life can sleep with a lady at any time just for the fun of sex or if she is his girlfriend. "the only way fornication can destroy a guy's life is if maybe he contacts sexual diseases or a lady got pregnant for him. "IN the aspect of love for money. @op who dont love money? it is the love of money and the fear of brokeness that drives men to work hard everyday, if we dont love the money, then there will be no need to work very hard. we work hard because we want a confortable life and a jetsetting life style.

MzDeeb:
This is the absolute truth. You have said it all.

Sometimes, i look at Nigerian youths and i can't help but wonder how their future will look like.

Its not surprising to see a 28 year old who is not responsible enough to work and do well in a corporate world.

All they think of is, how to cut corners and go into shady business. They want quick money but are not ready to work for it.

Most guys don't even know what a relationship is. All they know is to have s3x n gallivant around town with their partners. We ladies ain't even helping matters too. Its just a pity.


At times, i don't blame them cos even the bible said "if the foundation is destroyed..........." They met with the wrong pple while growing up and as such had a negative effect on their lives.

The truth is there are some people one should pray never to meet in this journey of life, else they will destroy one's destiny.

Be careful who you make friends with especially in the UNIVERSITY. Don't get carried away by all these youthful exuberance. Everything is Vanity upon Vanity.

Ask yourself this question 'Will you be proud of your past ?' If they could show you a video of ur past will you be proud watching it?

Amend your ways now and think about ur future.
#Peace

MzDeeb:
This is the absolute truth. You have said it all.

Sometimes, i look at Nigerian youths and i can't help but wonder how their future will look like.

Its not surprising to see a 28 year old who is not responsible enough to work and do well in a corporate world.

All they think of is, how to cut corners and go into shady business. They want quick money but are not ready to work for it.

Most guys don't even know what a relationship is. All they know is to have s3x n gallivant around town with their partners. We ladies ain't even helping matters too. Its just a pity.


At times, i don't blame them cos even the bible said "if the foundation is destroyed..........." They met with the wrong pple while growing up and as such had a negative effect on their lives.

The truth is there are some people one should pray never to meet in this journey of life, else they will destroy one's destiny.

Be careful who you make friends with especially in the UNIVERSITY. Don't get carried away by all these youthful exuberance. Everything is Vanity upon Vanity.

Ask yourself this question 'Will you be proud of your past ?' If they could show you a video of ur past will you be proud watching it?

Amend your ways now and think about ur future.
#Peace

DanceVille:
Then why are some saying I'm wrong?

Smellymouth:
Fornication ke?


Starter pack of an agbero

tosyne2much:
AyamConfidence, I spot you baba... Oga Danceville, nice one

Am sure he was talking to you
In as much as I humbly admit to see a part of myself belonging to one or two categories, I'm elated you took the courage to at least put up something meaningful and it's left for those who subject themselves to lesson and caution to learn and make necessary corrections where need be


Lalasticlala, help us move this to the Headquarter

DanceVille:
There are many things that can destroy the life of a young man, hurt their destiny, stop their growth, slow their progress or block their advancement in life.All young men should know this things and avoid them.

1. Living Without Purpose And Vision

A friend of mine once said, "Guys of nowadays love Television buh don't have Vision ".This is nothing buh the truth.Most guys don't have vision, aspiration or even a plan for tomorrow.You can't be the best in any trade if you don't have anything you're pursuing.

2. Alcohol And Drug

The use of alcohol and drug is another way young men ruin their lives.When a young man is exposed to drug and alcohol at a very tender age, the effects goes beyond what they ever expect in life, as they easily get inducted into the dark world of crime.

3. Wrong Association

The company a young man walks with, will ultimately determine what he will become.Choose your friends wisely.Some friends are multipliers while some are destroyers.A wise man once said "Show me your friends and I can accurately predict your future.The company you keep determines your accomplishments.

4. Crime

Wrong association and information, leads to drugs and alcohol usage.The resultant effects are crime, gang fights, cultism, armed robbery murder etc. At the end, the law catches up with those young ones and helps them waste many years in the college for stubborn and foolish prison yards.

5. Sexual Immoralities

Lust, fornication, pornography, rape, masturbation etc are all sexual immoralities and serves as a media the devil uses to destroy the life of young men.Don't expose yourself to them, don't company with those that are involved in it because it will end up destroying you.

6. Laziness

Hatred of work, oversleeping, indolent lifestyle is dangerous to the life of any single man.A man, I mean a real man should be bold enough to work, he must be a man of the field, planting and harvesting for his future.When a man is a lover of his bed, lazy and lukewarm, there's no way he will not serve his mates and live in abject poverty and penury throughout is lifetime.

Last buh not the least..

7. Love Of Money

Love of money is a great destroyer of many young men nowadays.Some even results in rituals, that later end up their lives soon.Don't think without money, you can't reach that place you desired to be.. And always remember, Vanity Upon Vanity, All Is Vanity.

NB
This thread is meant for everybody.The way young men is destroying their lives in this Society, is appalling.Are you guilty of any of these? Please it isn't too late to make a CHANGE...

I drop my pen at this Juncture.

Feel free to add yours.

Please share this post among your friends..

You might just SAVE A SOUL..

Written And Compiled By
DanceVille




Please help me to give this thread a wider coverage.A soul might be save through this post.

Edusouls:
yes u re a sensible girl, which is vry hard to find nowadays,young men met vry wicked leaders that ruined the economy, it became so hard and tough to make a living,leading to fustration of many young men, then you wicked generation of women worsened their situation by demanding so much from this young men,things u know they cant just afford,breaking their heart anyhow,dissapointing them,insalts,let downs,ridicules,nagging. U women have pushed many young men to early graves, when out of love to satisfy you jezzeebels,they meet disastrous endings,most end up killed or in jail...

DanceVille:
Thanks for the addition bro.

*Your Head Dey There*

obiorathesubtle:
8... NAIRALAND

June24th:

[size=20pt]Lai Moha... Oh sorry, liar...
What are u doing here if nairaland can destroy u
E salaye funmi nisi nisi[/size]

iRyan:
In my freshman year in college I did alcohol and weed. It took a toll my on grades in that I winded up with a GPA of a little above 1.5. I went back to the drawing board, sophomore year came, I still did alcohol and weed but I didn't let it get in the way of my studies. Graduated with a GPA of 4.3. Upon graduating I was lucky to get hired by one of the biggest tech firms in the States. Before getting married I fornicated with an awful lot of women. I was conscientious with sex, I never had unprotected sex. I had a dream... To be rich and successful. My love for money was the vehicle to my success. I worked hard to get to where i am right now. Living without a purpose is the only thing that can destroy a young man's life.

obiorathesubtle:
I've been destroyed already naa.. So I've accepted my fate..

June24th:

[size=20pt]Why na, y swearing for yaself.. I refuse to agree with u..
My dear no matter how u think ur life is right now, God can still deliver u.. Come to JESUS..
I'm even feeling bad I quoted u.. I wouldn't have seen someone curse himself.. U are not destroyed already, I'm declaring that for u [/size]

iRyan:
I don't believe in God but I have never been happier and satisfied than I am now. I am married to the most beautiful and wonderful woman on earth, have 4 decent kids, live in the most plush place in New York, happy with my job and surrounded by loving family and friends. Need I say more.