Hello all,
 
I am a 22 year old male, a computer guru but not a nerd, very talented and probably the shyest guy on earth I don't have a girl friend since I was born and I can't make one,  I can not even talk to a girl about it,  Can not hold a direct eye contact for more than 5 seconds, I know this to be one of my biggest problem and I really don't know how to overcome it,
   
I have seen so many girls I really like and want to have as friends but I just can't face up to it and talk to a girl, I don't even know the basics, what a guy says first to a girl, how a guy gets a girl's attention to start off the first talkings,
   
I have just seen this girl and for the past 22 years they have come and gone by, I do not want to miss this girl,  I need help from everyone, please help me!!!! how do I walk up tp this girl? how do I overcome my shyness? what first does a guy says to a girl in the process? I will provide additional information if needed,  I am online now if you all can help me out here, or here is my email address: rm123luck@hotmail.co.uk
   
Thanks All

no one can help you only you can help yourself,when you have decided to come out of the shell

rm123luck@hotmail.co.uk don't mind that discouraging reply. You can get help right away if you want. I have an idea. Am going to email you and you right now. I once had an experience like this before so I know what you are going through. Am into computers too. So,

Hahahaha! you're going to die a virgin. . .

ahahahaha ,

Is this a topic?

@ Raymand,

Am sure you think this guy is joking. If you know how frustrating it is to be a shy person, you will be grateful.

@ kdships,

Please post your reply here to help others.

Please people post something uplifiting.

I will send u a mail now jare.

d shy ones and d silent ones are actuali d badest ones!

ma guy if u come out! i bet u'll be d best!

LOL.

R u for real?

follow dis simple steps:
1.First, sincerely accept dat fear is a sin.
2.Develop a forgiving spirit n 4get ur ugly past, cos dat d source of ur fear
3.When around her,imagine d worst case scenario n do ur best. Other things will follow suit.
4.Lastly n most important,walk up to her, b ursef, maintain ur gaze n don't impress

6 years later....hmmn. He must be Thomas Crown by now..

the poster is ridiculing a set of people. Shyguys wont post their problems or anything about themselves. Computer gurus would get a robot girlfriend. You Cant take it and give it back, you got to pay for something. Thats what i think most chicks have as a state of mind devicing a strategy to appeal their minds works with that set. Have you studied the lady before it crossed your mind to approach her ? Its simple when you say and do it right ? Its ''right'' when you know whats wrong and you know whats wrong through failing. So start trying now. Just tap the lady, look her in the eye, tell her how something nice about her intriques you and start smiling. She can either smile back and say something or she doesnt. QED.