Moborlarh:
Some of the things that will determine the success of your marriage are below:

1. Criticism
This is a major problem many couples face in their marriages. They often forget the fact that they were not raised with the same doctrine and should not treat one another like inmates in cages.
As a man, if you have to rebuke your partner, do it with the love and understanding of a father. Constant criticism has a way of eating someone from within; do not ever let your partner feel doing you a favor could end up becoming a sin. Therefore, avoid criticizing your partner.

2. Taking each other for granted
Many couples feel the clause of marriage gives them the right and liberty to do as they please, whereas they should be more loving and should avoid things that may fill the union with ills.
While you feel you know your spouse too well, it is not a ground for you to act as you like and make their lives a living hell. Being familiar with your partner is no doubt a good thing; the moment you start to ride them, you are letting the devil in.

3. Not being appreciative
Here is another way couples make their marriages fail. A union in which the couple expresses all forms of appreciation towards each other would survive the strongest gale. While doing this, they would have an understanding of each other and would be able to progress in life.
This is an important aspect in marital life that we cannot but talk about. It goes a long way in knowing whether they would last long in the union or opt out.

4. Failure to express love
Many people stop professing their love to their partners as soon as they get married. They become a different person and assume their partners know they love them despite the fact that they are emotionally rigid.
In marriages, couples should learn to talk about love and fears. They should be able to feel the initial spark they felt even after being together for many years. This is the only thing that can take them through their journey as one.

5. Creating a timetable for love making
This is no doubt one of the things that could make couples drift apart. It is like you are pulling the strings of your partner’s heart. Love making is not just a process that should leave couples panting for breath; it should be a time for the souls and bodies to connect.

6. Lack of respect
If you want your marriage to turn out to be a huge success, you should learn to respect your partner. Everyone deserves to be treated with love and respect; not doing this would make the union one with a defect.
This will make your union last and help you record a tremendous success in it.

Tajbol4splend:



Hey, where did you school?

Moborlarh:
University Of Ibadan

Tajbol4splend:



I almost thought you were someone else