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The Misconception Of Show Marriages. by Nobody: 8:52am On Jun 05, 2016
Most men have grown false sense of expectations of their wife based on what they see in movies and magazines. Especially these days that there's a lot of face beating out there.... make up and wears that wouldn't be celebrated some years back has now become what people brand "sexy" making some men uncomfortable with natural looks when they get in with their spouse. This is fast becoming an epidemic with much pressure placed on women to do more to look "sexy".

Yes! It's good to look good.

Sexy? I am not sure about.

Men should however remember,

What your wife was as a girlfriend is different from what she is now as a wife. The wear and tear of child bearing, cooking and looking after you and the children may affect the way she look, her carriage and her priority. To get the best out of her, you have to be willing to keep her service records up to date. Emotionally, financially, psychologically and morally, you have to be there for her to be able to get the best out of her.

However, what we see nowadays is men who just want to keep getting and getting without replenishing. It's like they have a template of must do acts for their wife. They want the best but can't help to achieve the best. They'll rather go out hunting for young girls on the account that there wife is old and not active as they would like her to be. Forgetting that they contributed to what she now look like. Some will even compare their wife to another man's wife not minding what the other man did to his wife to keep her radiant and looking young.

It is true that some women are lazy and wouldn't bulge regardless of whatever their husband do.... but it is a great deal for men to appreciate their wife. Look after your wife and make her into what you think you see in other women. Your wife's look shouldn't be an excuse to become a woman hunter. Help her to meet the flavour of your eyes.

Dirty bra, period stained pants, overgrown hair, stained blouse, smelly mouth, tattered nails,.... such are the likes that runs a man's sexual commitment down.... love and cleanliness are next of kin.... dear woman.... help your husband - help your family.... live life clean.
Re: The Misconception Of Show Marriages. by Lagusta(m): 12:20pm On Jun 05, 2016
Dirty bra, period stained pants, overgrown hair, stained blouse, smelly mouth, tattered nails,.... such are the likes that runs a man's sexual commitment down.... love and cleanliness are next of kin.... dear woman.... help your husband - help your family.... live life clean.

And these are the stuff that would actually scare me and other men away from marriage..... embarassed embarassed

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Re: The Misconception Of Show Marriages. by Nobody: 10:01am On Jun 08, 2016
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Lagusta:



And these are the stuff that would actually scare me and other men away from marriage..... embarassed embarassed

You are already scared.
But its ok to be.
No one is an 100% fearless.
Afterall I am afraid of Blood.

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