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Is Marriage Compulsory? by lonelyhrt(f): 5:32pm On Jun 18, 2016
What do you think about marriage in this modern days of soo many marital issues..

PLS IS MARRIAGE COMPULSORY?? undecided
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by Project400: 5:53pm On Jun 18, 2016
Nothing is compulsory in life; even the right to existence is not compulsory.

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Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by Dyt(f): 5:57pm On Jun 18, 2016
Project400:
Nothing is compulsory in life; even the right to existence is not compulsory.

cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by emilyone(f): 7:45pm On Jun 18, 2016
No, it's not compulsory.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by MRBrownJ: 8:16pm On Jun 18, 2016
for many people, YES, marriage is the only way out!
- thats what they have been brainwashed to do since they were kids, and parents hitting the jackpot with bride price.
- many have been brainwashed that marriage is synonymous with happiness, thus so many miserable people wanna get married.
- many have no aim/prospect in life apart from "attaching" themselves (like a virus) to a partner, get married, and possibly have any chance of a bright future.
- also, this is what the religion say is the way to have "legal" sex with anyone, so thats why so many sheeps would marry any donkeys out there, just to get jiggy?
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by thorpido(m): 8:38pm On Jun 18, 2016
Marriage is not compulsory.
However,why are you using people with marital problems as a yardstick to determine if you will marry?There are challenges in marriage just as there are in other aspects of life;job,health etc.
Just take your time and marry right.Once you have someone who is ready to work together with you,you can face the challenges together and win.
You shouldn't have to remain with a lonely heart@Op.

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Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jun 18, 2016
thorpido:
Marriage is not compulsory.
However,why are you using people with marital problems as a yardstick to determine if you will marry?There are challenges in marriage just as there are in other aspects of life;job,health etc.
Just take your time and marry right.Once you have someone who is ready to work together with you,you can face the challenges together and win.
You shouldn't have to remain with a lonely heart@Op.

Does remaining unmarried equal loneliness?

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Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by zeb04(f): 8:56pm On Jun 18, 2016
thorpido:
Marriage is not compulsory.
However,why are you using people with marital problems as a yardstick to determine if you will marry?There are challenges in marriage just as there are in other aspects of life;job,health etc.
Just take your time and marry right.Once you have someone who is ready to work together with you,you can face the challenges together and win.
You shouldn't have to remain with a lonely heart@Op.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by thorpido(m): 8:56pm On Jun 18, 2016
Mindfulness:


Does remaining unmarried equal loneliness?
Nah.I wrote that because of Op's moniker.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jun 18, 2016
thorpido:
Nah.I wrote that because of Op's moniker.

Feeling lonely before marriage is not the best prerequisite to a fulfilling marriage though.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by thorpido(m): 9:24pm On Jun 18, 2016
Mindfulness:


Feeling lonely before marriage is not the best prerequisite to a fulfilling marriage though.
Yea,you have to be busy building yourself up and making yourself happy even when you're not in a relationship.

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Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Jun 18, 2016
thorpido:
Yea,you have to be busy building yourself up and making yourself happy even when you're not in a relationship.

Unhappy people can't have happy relationships. It really is that simple, isn't it?

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Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by lonelyhrt(f): 7:17pm On Jun 20, 2016
thorpido:
Nah.I wrote that because of Op's moniker.






Nah thanks

My heart is safe where it is tongue, now leave lonelyhrt and move to nxt
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by thorpido(m): 8:31pm On Jun 20, 2016
lonelyhrt:







Nah thanks

My heart is safe where it is tongue, now leave lonelyhrt and move to nxt
Not searching undecided

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Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by jashar(f): 12:43pm On Jun 21, 2016
NOPE smiley
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 5:54am On Jun 29, 2016
lonelyhrt:
What do you think about marriage in this modern days of soo many marital issues..

PLS IS MARRIAGE COMPULSORY?? undecided
It isnt oooo. Sex outside marriage is unlawful ok. If u can do without sex dont get married ok.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by theEYe21(f): 9:32am On Jun 29, 2016
Must you marry to have a companion? You can have a long lasting relationship and be happy with your spouse without marriage
thorpido:
Marriage is not compulsory.
However,why are you using people with marital problems as a yardstick to determine if you will marry?There are challenges in marriage just as there are in other aspects of life;job,health etc.
Just take your time and marry right.Once you have someone who is ready to work together with you,you can face the challenges together and win.
You shouldn't have to remain with a lonely heart@Op.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by theEYe21(f): 9:34am On Jun 29, 2016
Come and stop us. Rubbish! There's something called freedom
Olufemiolaolu:
It isnt oooo. Sex outside marriage is unlawful ok. If u can do without sex dont get married ok.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by thorpido(m): 11:16am On Jun 29, 2016
theEYe21:
Must you marry to have a companion? You can have a long lasting relationship and be happy with your spouse without marriage
How can you be a spouse without marriage?
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by theEYe21(f): 1:02pm On Jun 29, 2016
Rather your partner
thorpido:
How can you be a spouse without marriage?
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by thorpido(m): 1:49pm On Jun 29, 2016
theEYe21:
Rather your partner
You can have a partner and be happy and you may even be without one and still be happy.
However,there is a type of happiness that can only be found in a fulfilling marriage.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by theEYe21(f): 9:30pm On Jun 29, 2016
Some people are married and lonely and unhappy undecided
thorpido:
You can have a partner and be happy and you may even be without one and still be happy.
However,there is a type of happiness that can only be found in a fulfilling marriage.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by thorpido(m): 10:34pm On Jun 29, 2016
theEYe21:
Some people are married and lonely and unhappy undecided
Yes but we're looking at the married happy ones.
Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by cococandy(f): 5:52am On Jun 30, 2016
There is an argument for both sides. Just do you.

For me being single is better than an unhappy marriage but who says you're going to have problems in marriage. Having negative expectations is just a quick way of getting them.

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