Alwaystrue:
@lilyjane and @testimony life,
Congrats on your testimonies. May your joy continually be full and running over. May this joy in your life be be continuous amen.

All other bellefuls in the house, congrats. Yea i am greeting everyone.

Daniel 3:29
Therefore I make a decree, That every people, nation, and language, which speak any thing amiss against the God of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, shall be cut in pieces, and their houses shall be made a dunghill: because there is no other God that can deliver after this sort

If there is anyone or anything saying anything contrary to God in your life...yes, God has made you in his image, said 'be fruiftul and multiply', he said there shall be none barren is the land and the fruit of your ground shall not be destroyed...he said you are made good...yes anything whatsoever saying anything contrary to God is CUT IN PIECES and becomes a reproach in Jesus name.
Any tongue rising against you in judgement is condemned.
Go forth and obey God's command. BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY!!!

Amenn and remain blessed.

erutoria:
thk u sister. I don't want to rush and do test at d end I feel disapointed. Pls I how long does clomid delay ur circle?

It delayed mine by 4days on my first cycle.

Pls has anybody used parlodel for treatment? How fast does it work? Is it good for treating high prolactin n hormonal imbalance?

My people my people. safe06. welcome back. my people abeg make una help a sister. Depression don hold person. I dey suspect say dh don get another family which he is hiding from me. The way he Shields his friends/family from me these days is suspicious. He broke my phone intentionally and acted as if it was a joke. that same day, he bought a new phone and sim card for me. It seems to me he deleted all his friends and siblings number whom I am close with from my phone because I can't find them. His actions these days speaks volume. He pretends network is bad most times and go outside to answer phones. Those secondary school boys prank is now in my home. Picks offense at the slightest provocation. Complains of things which he ordinarily commends me of.

Hian God abeg, I no get strength to fight with another woman in my marriage. I dey fast and pray for children, How I wan add fasting and praying for strange woman. Someone told me sometime he suspects my husband movement with their first daughter, I asked him, he swore it was a lie. I don put nose for ground to no avail. I don suffer for this marriage financially and emotionally no be small. What if my suspicion is true, where do I start?. I wish I know the truth. I would rather leave the marriage than struggle with another woman. Who knows why God has shout this womb all these while. I am honestly emotionally stressed.

The worst aspect of this matter is that dh stays in another state while I stay in another state because of job. I tried being posted to his location but was disappointed when he got posted out in few months interval.

My people, has any one known of someone who found out her dh has another home?. I don't have friends in my dh home town. We only travel during festive periods, within these periods we are always together. No time to mingle with people.

I wish I can post my real name/dh name, home town and place of work should there be any of us that can spy on him for me. Different things will not make me do it because this is faceless. Is there any ttcer who in Jos I can trust to work for me?. I don't mind paying. I need to know what is happening behind me to enable me take the appropriate steps while there is still time to avoid Had-I-Known.

@all, sorry for ranting. My mind dey heavy.

@zarammum i'm rily sorry #e-hugs my sister. Jst reading ur post got me depressd. Woah can't imagine wat u must be going thru now bt I seriously pray ur suspicions r wrong that ur DH is probably jst planning a big beautiful surprise for u, maybe for u guys' nxt anniversary or ur bday , anything; Jst positive smthing. May God restore love, peace, n happiness in ur marriage. Ttc's a big one on its own without this other woman misery. May God strengthen u more cos frm ur post u sound like a vry strong woman. Its well wt u my sister. Make God answer all our prayers vry soon ooo cos ds seems like another ttc complication. Continue to pray dear, my prayers r with u. Fertility blessings @all

@Zarammum.my dear it is well.I want you to stay strong.don't ever think of leaving your family to another woman.in everything remain positive if you have not had a good evidence to conclude.if he is not listening to you,I feel you keep to yourself and always do the right thing.
Have you checked yourself to realise where the fault is coming from?
I just want to tell you that there is power in a praying wife.go down on your knees and make a decree.

@zaramum,i feel ur pain but please stay strong and be positive about ur home,no strange woman will chase u out of or home.pls go on ur kneels and call upon the God of vengeance(if there is any strange woman).pls wake up,this is not the time to be depressed.Recieve strength in Jesus name.

Zaramum.am so angry in my spirit right now.but I want you to be strong,I need u to be strong. As someone rightly said,ttc is enough trouble on its own.if I were in ur shoes I would honestly not know what to do than cry to God night and day For my home.the Lord will intervene, be strong sis Twingirls and Safe I dey o.Zaramum case just lower my morale.God dey

@zarammum. Really when i read ur story d 1st time, I was really short of words. I didn't know what to say 2 encouage. 1 thing I know is we are serving a living God that can neva fail. So pls cry 2 him alone, he will surely harken un2 ur plea, Amen

Zarammum,I was really mad in the spirit when i saw your post at the initial stage.I just feel like seeing your DH face to face and give him a heavy uppercut.But that will not solve the problem.Please i know how hard it is for you to calm your nerves at this moment.Don't let it weigh you down too much..Issues like this is enough to cause HBP...
Your idea of getting someone to stalk him is not a bad idea but will it solve the problem at hand if eventually it comes out to be true?Will your husband be ready to change?Dont you think it will compound the whole issue? Or even lead to seperation and all..God forbid...
I feel there is nothing fervent prayer cannot solve..Know that God is aware of the challenges you are going through.He can see and feel how heavy your heart is.I have seen and heard cases like this..The woman refuse to quit her marriage despite the fact FIL and the husband's brothers and sisters were in support of him.At the end,God intervened and Holy Spirit arrested the man.It was as if a spell was cast on him...Today,the woman is wondering how the whole thing turn around to her favour.
So,be still and know that God is not sleeping.Just use God's wisdom to handle everything..Read books on marriage conflicts and pray always.
Waiting to hear a positive news after all.

@zarammum God will give u wisdom to handle this suitation i understand u,cheating in this ttc path only God can help
pls @all the ph mamas where can i get original maca root powder in ph pls someone reply have a great nite rest

@lilyjane amen to your prayers and congrats on cutie Xenias dedication.

@zaramum as tough as this is, I for sure will definitely want to know what the real situation is. Call it stalking or whatever, whatever it takes me to know for certain the true situation....i will do it, that's for certain, what happens next I might not know.
at least if I kneel and cry unto God, I will clearly report everything and everybody to him and call the name of the strange woman if any.

sister please do not sit and fold arms. Am not asking you to go fight any woman, God forbid, far from it, get to know whatsUp with Your Husband, he is your husband and straighten any crooked lines.

May God strengthen you dear.

Hello Zaramum. Pele dear. IT IS WELL

@Zaramum, I feel your pain but like most people has advised, all you need is prayer. You cant afford to breakdown now. God is your strength.

Please my fellow beautiful mums, click on the link on my signature and leave your comments/suggestions for me pleaseeeeee.

@zaramum other mama and papa has said it all,but what I will like you to take seriously is what others has been saying that you take it to God in fasting and prayer,this battle cannot be won through human wisdom and power,be strong,be courageous,this is not the time to be depressed,it is rather the time to cry to the God of elijah that answereth by fire and I know he will hearken unto ur prayer.

@zaramum, please what is your religion? i want to make a suggestion.

My wonderful family. I felt like a new bride this morning after reading your words of advice/encouragement. where do I start. I am even crying as I type. OMG. What a family, What a love. You can't image the kind of peace I have had after reading from all of you. Your words worked like miracle to me. Una fit cure HIV, Cancer, Ebola for here oooo. professional counselors that does not collect money -. I feel I have the power to give children, I will just double every ttcer child expectation now sharp sharp. For those who want four, I will give eight, those that want five, ten, those that want six, twelve until your locality call a meeting on your behalf to beg you to stop bearing children lol. I no go allow any request of " I just want only two or three No No. It must be from eight upwards. LWKM. You don't even need to sleep with your husband to have a child. Just wear the cloth he wore after your last bd, and u will carry belle immediately just like that. I am short of words. I love you all.
@juwonesho, @twintower, @wumee, @pinky apinky, @idyobot, @santagelo25, haha, I had a second look on this your user name today. I wish to change it to @saintageless always looking 25yrs. . @creatmeg, @melsmu, @olubankem, that was a bomb, @lilyjane, @ayaakanoh, mama twins. Una toooooo much. I am stronger now, nothing dey happen. Even if it were true, I don park my load shift one corner for house to enable me have enough space naked for room call baba God. I don ready for battle. I send trailer loads of baby on your door steps now.

@Dashao1, religion no dey this forum oo, anyway, I be correct christian.

@zaramum religion dey o....before you tell person to use one leg stand for moving okada pray only to find out say the person religion no dey do that kind prayer and you come fall hand...lol...will post later, am a bit busy now

@Dasha01. . Please feel very free to post the prayers here without minding religion. You never can tell who will benefit from it. So many ttc women are going through unimaginable issues which most of them feel ashamed to post it here. You might be saving someone's marriage without knowing.

Lots of love darling.

@olubankemi, ur word of advice is worth taking home. I must really do wat u've advise. Thxs for encouraging our sis n all of us. God will definitely visit u.

@zarammum my sister you will overcome. Fertility blessings

Oh wowwwww, wat a lovely and awesome family we have here, God will suely answer us. All here in due time. @zaramum dear, our wonderful mums nd dads hv said it all sis, just take it all to God in prayer nd He will takia of you, but I will advice you don't investigate anything just as someone here said, cos I always say what we don't knw won't kill us, nd also so you won't aggravate urself cos its not good for ttc my dear.God will settle u dearie.

Nairaland sorry for the long post o! am only helping a sister,

every woman should trust their gut feeling and go to God in prayers if you suspect anything, the God who is everywhere will know how to clear the smoke before you say 'my mind been tell me o!...they said an angry woman does a better job than FBI

Dasha thank you for yo wisdom u have spoken to me as well

Zaramum do not fret,be still and go into fastn wit midnight prayers.Locate some dangerous psalms n target @ whosoever is tampering wit d joy of ur home.Tell God dat if he wants to kill,let him kil,if he wants to destroy ,let him destroy,if to scatter let him scatter but all u want is ur dh spirit,soul n body ALL his love n ALL his attention shld b for u n only u.
Then luk inwards n make some adjustments by being more loving,caring,humble serviceable both to him n his pple.Change ur outlook by being more dressy n fashionable.I pray everytin wks out in ur favour IJn

@Zaramum, all has been said by fruitful mums' and dads but this song

Hi every1 I'm new here and I'm really glad to come across a thread like this. May God make it easy 4 every1

I've been TTC 4 2yrs + and my major problem has bn irregular period every other thing is fine DH is very ok too I've gone throug a lot of tests and all came out fine. Its really heart breaking coping wt this ttc period. Any1 wt a similar problem?

zeemoh2012:
I've been TTC 4 2yrs + and my major problem has bn irregular period every other thing is fine DH is very ok too I've gone throug a lot of tests and all came out fine. Its really heart breaking coping wt this ttc period. Any1 wt a similar problem?

You are welcome,may your stay be short and fruitful

Vitex is said to work wonders for irregular period,but it takes like 2-3months before you notice any improvement and if you are on the big side try and shed some weight.

Other mamas will give more suggestions