The guy dey blow lie pass the way NDA dey blow pipeline

johnson232:

lolzz... in pluto i guess...

Opistorincos:
Iffa don born pikin misbehave for ma pman side, i go chop beta double decker slap... i love my parents tho

lol at double decker slap

MrObontami:
The guy dey blow lie pass the way NDA dey blow pipeline

Honestly, i was suprised to see that shaa... cant accuse him of lieing though..

Meeeehn this thread makes me remember my child hood when i use to get beat left, right and center by my uncles( both from my mum and dad relatives), dad, mummy and even grand mother

i feeling lazy to type i woulda go into the details, but me sef stuborn Oooooöooooooo

MrObontami:
Meeeehn this thread makes me remember my child hood when i use to get beat left, right and center by my uncles( both from my mum and dad relatives), dad, mummy and even grand mother

i feeling lazy to type i woulda go into the details, but me sef stuborn Oooooöooooooo

Mehn, u chop beating wella oo... Chai sorry oo

MrObontami:
lol at double decker slap

Na so o

GloryIsaac:


Nigga doesn't want to let out the entire reason why he was made to beg his bro (personally, i think its money-related or he blamed him wrongly for something, there's no proof to that though) ... Recently got admitted after triad years of writing Jamb ...

Infact, i'm actually tired of his issue, its his life to live afterall... We've advised him to ManUp and stop being a chicken or risk getting slapped by his mum even on his wedding day ..

You've tried your best, its left to him to MAN up. However, I think his parents' aggression towards him could be tied to him not securing an admission ealier, as you mentioned that they are strict.

Trottle:


You've tried your best, its left to him to MAN up. However, I think his parents' aggression towards him could be tied to him not securing an admission ealier, as you mentioned that they are strict.

Yeah, the admission issue could be a strong factor amongst other factors that led to his current situation at 22 yrs ... Well, God help him....
Happy Sunday bro

22?It's ok ONLY if you want your child to suffer from low self esteem.There are ways to discipline an adult child,and beating shouldn't be one of them

Feanah:
22?It's ok ONLY if you want your child to suffer from low self esteem.There are ways to discipline an adult child,and beating shouldn't be one of them

You're so right, but the guys parents wont listen to that story ... I'm just fed up of his issue..

GloryIsaac:


You're so right, but the guys parents wont listen to that story ... I'm just fed up of his issue..

Eyya that's sad.Hopefully,things change for him asap,I wish him luck!

Feanah:

Eyya that's sad.Hopefully,things change for him asap,I wish him luck!

Me too...btw, will love you to vote for VIZKIZ in the upcoming Mr NL contest, looking forward to your reply

Is not a sin for parents to scold their children but doing it right is what matters, beating doesn't change a child but turns him/her into an animal

I cud still remember when I was 30 and had disagreement with my mum, only wot she cud do is tryin to slap me, and I used to block her hands not to laid her hands on me, no matter wot, he's still a child to his parent, but not datt kind of beating oooo, beating get levels. I can't remember when I was beating last if not d stubbornness dat made my mum to do dat back den #funnybackden

okro no dey tall pass the planter

Rukkydelta:
Chisos! I was last beaten at the age of 10

keep decieving yourself

so far you still dey under your parent roof at that age.. my guy u go still dey chop beating ooooo

Yes as long as your mother is alive you are a small child to her and she want the best for you thats why . if you dont want that to happen to keep doing good things .

I have never been beaten by my parent so i have no idea.

Agreed. Same applies to my mum. She's told us that as long as she's still our mother, and if we ever mess up,regardless of our age, she won't hesitate to use the whip on us

jmichlins:
My former landlady still beats her son even when the son has made millions and has his own family. Children upbringing is a lifetime stuff

GloryIsaac:
Where do i start this ??

Well, i and a group of friends headed to a friends house yesterday to talk about certain things ahead of the evening service which was scheduled to hold by 4 pm.... on getting there, we noticed he was always touching a particular part of his head, on enquiry we found out that he got a beating from his mum the previous night because he came back late around 7pm which led to a disagreement between them.... We couldn't hold back the laughter , though it didn't last long because it led to an arguement on whether his mum was right to still be beating a nigga who would be clocking 23 or 24 this year (not so sure about his age though, but i know he's past 21) .

I'm fully aware that this niggas parents are strict and are really good at dishing out serious beatings since the days of adam and eve, my dad quit beating me when i clocked 13 so i find it really amusing to see a guy in his early twenties still getting some touches from his mum....
Decided to bring it to NL in order to know you guys opinion on this.....

And at what age did you get your last beating ??

Cc RoyalRoy

Imagine a son you sent to school with a fees of 1.5million a year, comes back after his mates graduated and tell u he was told to leave because he didn't pass. This happened in year two n he continued collecting your money without saying.

This is someone whose accommodation is 400k yearly, feeding and all that over 300k yearly and he is studying Aeronautical Engineering.... This course is not in Nigeria so u had to source foreign currency to send him to school.

He finally comes back and at 22 bringing all sort of girls to your house when u go out claiming he is a pastor. Not knowing that without schooling he can't be a respected pastor.

When all he is interested in is carrying women n breaking up with them. The girls are even wiser n have all gone to date serious guys.

Someone who refused to follow you to your place of work where you make money to send him to school - Pure water factory - instead sleeps at home all day.

Someone who before you open mouth to talk to, he says it's his life.

Someone who has no respect for anyone.....

Please o, is it not to arrange better beating for him?
Or what else can u do?

Now he claims he has seen another school in UK.
Whereas he wasted your money schooling in Ghana (KNUST) with nothing to show for it.
Ghana that was easier to pop into.
Now it's UK that u may not see him for another 50years he is gunning for.

Well, I have told him, he can go n sell his kidney to go to UK
I am done assisting my parents to send him to school.
Smh.

jmichlins:
My former landlady still beats her son even when the son has made millions and has his own family. Children upbringing is a lifetime stuff

We understand that 'children upbringing' is a lifetime thing but there's a stage children get to when you don't need to use things on them before you correct them...when scolding or speaking to them will do it.

Tunechi1:
Not strange it happens and a child is not too big in the hands of his/her parent

Not with beating!

omofabulous:
Is not a sin for parents to scold their children but doing it right is what matters, beating doesn't change a child but turns him/her into an animal

The one u don't beat that's an animal nko

My SIL has been a medical doctor for over 10years n her mum still slaps her when she misbehaves or is about to.

My mum inclusive.
She still does what is needed.

U r never too grown for your parents.
Read my earlier post n see if u were d parent of the boy, what will u do?

Even if he still feed from their pockets, the most is beat him with words and not physical.

I don't have to read your story to answer your question, which is an emphatic YES.

If you are still been beaten by your mother at 22 years, it means you are still a child that needs to grow up (a lot to learn).

The beating stops when you start thinking, talking and doing like an adult.

BTW, you are never too old for mommy's flogging.

dollyjuke:
22 receive beating? Make he go wash wash his head 21 times

and also in 21 streams

People don't seem to get that this young man is being abused. Discipline doesn't mean beatings, there are more effective way s to discipline a child without beatings not to talk of a 21 year old young man

If the guy was assesed psychologically i would not be surprised to find psychological issues. He is an adult and he is at the stage of life where he should be learning how to stand up for himself and what he believes.

This beatings could lead him in long run to accept emotional abusive relationships with people because thats what he is used to and he doesn't know better. It would also wreck havoc on his self esteem.

GloryIsaac:


Its unfortunate though this is the first time i'm seeing someone that age get beaten, it just shows that anything goes here .... but what can one do someone even said his landlady still beats her son who is married with children and making millions!!! ( this one's extremely hard to believe though)

am telling u...na so pple go dey lie

jmichlins:
My former landlady still beats her son even when the son has made millions and has his own family. Children upbringing is a lifetime stuff

that your landlord deserve mental evaluation.

SANDOSKI:
[b] Pman no go hear dis one, age no matter

*OKORO TREE NO DEY PASS DEY OWN~ no matter dey age wey u dey, if u misbehave, Pman go hammer u beating *


Bt dis days things don dey change small small, even Pikin of 5yrs dem don stop to beat am ...

SANDOSKI hehehehehe

jmichlins:
My former landlady still beats her son even when the son has made millions and has his own family. Children upbringing is a lifetime stuff

What sort of comment is this?