You can never have happiness if you are not sure of yourself or feel good and confident about yourself.Some times your mind doubts and condemns you and you're not so sure of something you did,something you are doing or intend to do.Most of the things we do is to make us feel good inside .that's why we want to show off and impress others or imitate our favorite celebrities who by the way are also in this predicament of self condemnation.Mind you,rich people that are not sure of themselves are in misery(ask them).This lack of self assurance is what makes us seek advice from others who also are far from perfect
(Including family).we make the mistake of looking for validation in other people's approval.Our minds keep tormenting us with unwanted thoughts all day long and the sad thing is that people don't know there is a way out.this is how it works.THE ONLY WAY THE HUMAN MIND CAN BE TOTALLY SURE OF ITSELF ,HAVING NO FEAR OR DOUBT OR CONDEMNATION is if the person is sure that his creator is happy with him.period.THE REASON WHY YOU DONT FEEL COMPLETELY GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF IS BECAUSE YOUR CREATOR IS NOT REALLY HAPPY WITH YOU.Thats the problem.Of course the only way to correct that is by making sure you start following the teachings of Christ in the new testament.Apart from this, your mind will never be at rest and true happiness will always be far from you.. Try it and send me feedback.God bless you all..

Tony