Hi Forum,

I've been having a very close and good relationship with a lady in Lagos with me for about 6months today.
About a month ago she lost her job and have had difficulties getting another, plus she's expecting admission in a few months now into some universities of her chosen.
My problem now is; at the moment she had been submitting her job CVS all across naija and travelling Here and there for interviews. With us here in Lagos happy, going out and have discussed marriege I have kicked against working outside lagos, I mean how can I be settled here and still maintain a strong relationship with a civil servant based in Jos?
She even wants us to get married and stay apart for the sake of job procurement.

I can't see the sense in all this as she does. Should I end the relationship and let her fly?