STOP BEATING YOUR WIFE! Just imagine what this Man turned this pretty woman into?
please ladies, use your power of choice well.
Marry a good man.
The truth is that most of times, the signs are there for you, but you ignore them.
Make your own money and stop being moved by money and gifts.
These things are not proofs that a Man loves you.
Do you know that just one day beating can purge you of all the good things he got You.
Some of You have good men around you, who are willing to worship you. Instead of marrying such men, you allow greed and desperation to put you into the wrong hands.
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair.
Take your time and observe a Man.
Don't just look at his actions, pay attention to his mindset. As a man thinketh, so is he.
Watch his relationship with other females.
Get his angry intentionally and watch his reaction.
Sometimes push him to the wall.
This is very important.
This woman is lucky to even be alive.
Imagine a man beating up a woman during pregnancy.
Such a bastard.
If you die, the man will get another woman.
So you lose on both sides.
I didn't know that dinosaurs are still in existence
Marry a Man not a boy.
There are good men everywhere
Don't be deceived.
It's just that most of them come in seed form.
You have to discover them.
This journey of marriage is a loooooong one.
What is the benefit of rushing into marriage, only to rush out again.
When you find a good man, stick to him.
Abundance of wealth is good, but it won't guarantee you much happiness.
Avoid men that see women as slaves.
If possible build with your man.
Especially a good man.
ITS MY OPINION THO!
You reserve the exclusive right to make your choice, I hope you make the right choice.

but we have seen enough of this story naa!

Una wey dey rush enter people marriage matter anyhow because of blog, na the same mumu thing go make person come rent parking lot for your married life too o

He'z indeed a beast....

Onye ara

Two punches.
One to the eye.
The other to the lip.
The lip got cut and bled with the blood staining her dress.
?multiple bruises to the right arm.
Most injuries are unilateral to the right.
Means her husband is left handed.
And we all know how deadly left handed people are.
Ass: Assault/ Domestic violence.
Plan:
Ask woman if she'd like to press charges. If yes, take photograph. Get a complete history of what happened.

Get a police report.

Bring charges up against husband.

Court case.

Resolution and restitution. Not necessarily divorce in all cases.
However husband now has a criminal record which will hang over him for life.
Bitterness and anger ensues. Separation, divorce.


Nigerian way:
Refuse to press charges. It's a family affair.
Take pictures informally.
Show pictures to your parents.
Show pictures to his parents and siblings.
Show pictures to his pastor/priest/imam/mentor.

Husband is summoned, called to order and shamed by one or all of the above.

Warned not to repeat such or else there will be consequences (take back their wife, loss of respect and favour from mentor/pastor/Imam, punishment by superior office if in the police force etc)

Wife called aside privately and admonished not to push husband to the wall

Wife given speed dial number to mentor/pastor etc in case of any wahala.


C'est finis.

even a good man can become a beast if married to a disrespectful abusive unsubmissive woman. Even in the animal kingdom lioness and lions exist with each knowing it's place. The day a lioness tries to assume the role of a lion it'd probably be killed. The idea of always demonizing the man in a fight between a couple solves no issues. why would a woman go challenging someone that's bigger, stronger more deadly etc I think it's stupidity. now I'm not saying all spouse beaters r right but common sense should prevail.

You insult your husband, disrespect him, and always think his opinion must be countered and u expect a loving man. Im beginning to understand why some people's don't support women education, cos knowledge is power? and most women simply can't control that power. they lose the very reason men find them attractive and become pseudo men. Ironically these feminists at the sound of a gunshot jump behind the men for protection. You'd wonder in such situations like wars, and matters requiring physical agility they concede n willingly submit to their men............you're more likely to get hurt by a man when you battle his decisions and abuse him.

revolt:
even a good man can become a beast if married to a disrespectful abusive unsubmissive woman. Even in the animal kingdom lioness and lions exist with each knowing it's place. The day a lioness tries to assume the role of a lion it'd probably be killed. The idea of always demonizing the man in a fight between a couple solves no issues. why would a woman go challenging someone that's bigger, stronger more deadly etc I think it's stupidity. now I'm not saying all spouse beaters r right but common sense should prevail.

You insult your husband, disrespect him, and always think his opinion must be countered and u expect a loving man. Im beginning to understand why some people's don't support women education, cos knowledge is power? and most women simply can't control that power. they lose the very reason men find them attractive and become pseudo men. Ironically these feminists at the sound of a gunshot jump behind the men for protection. You'd wonder in such situations like wars, and matters requiring physical agility they concede n willingly submit to their men............you're more likely to get hurt by a man when you battle his decisions and abuse him.

well said! But do u know dat husband and wife are now one body? And d lady in question is Pregnant.

5minsmadness:
Two punches.
One to the eye.
The other to the lip.
The lip got cut and bled with the blood staining her dress.
?multiple bruises to the right arm.
Most injuries are unilateral to the right.
Means her husband is left handed.
And we all know how deadly left handed people are.
Ass: Assault/ Domestic violence.
Plan:
Ask woman if she'd like to press charges. If yes, take photograph. Get a complete history of what happened.

Get a police report.

Bring charges up against husband.

Court case.

Resolution and restitution. Not necessarily divorce in all cases.
However husband now has a criminal record which will hang over him for life.
Bitterness and anger ensues. Separation, divorce.


Nigerian way:
Refuse to press charges. It's a family affair.
Take pictures informally.
Show pictures to your parents.
Show pictures to his parents and siblings.
Show pictures to his pastor/priest/imam/mentor.

Husband is summoned, called to order and shamed by one or all of the above.

Warned not to repeat such or else there will be consequences (take back their wife, loss of respect and favour from mentor/pastor/Imam, punishment by superior office if in the police force etc)

Wife called aside privately and admonished not to push husband to the wall

Wife given speed dial number to mentor/pastor etc in case of any wahala.


C'est finis.

well said my brother! You are not far from the truth....its so painful

Hmm, I wonder what that woman must have done to elicit such passionate treatment from her husband. A man can't just start beating his wife after all, right? Right? That gentleman must have been pushed to the wall.

GalaxyBlends:
well said! But do u know dat husband and wife are now one body? And d lady in question is Pregnant.

I adressed a general societal phenomenon. you know pregnant wives seriously blackmail their husband's cos they know the stakes are high. All I'm saying Is whether they're one body, the husband remains the head of the home, and in unison the wife should be the prime minister of the home and not opposition member. Even the sweetest of men can become a beast when his ego is trampled. Every woman must understand this If she wants ti get married. same way eery man should understand a woman's jealousy can make her pluck out a kids eyes. If you understand.

Well Said! But.......It is well o

revolt:
I adressed a general societal phenomenon. you know pregnant wives seriously blackmail their husband's cos they know the stakes are high. All I'm saying Is whether they're one body, the husband remains the head of the home, and in unison the wife should be the prime minister of the home and not opposition member. Even the sweetest of men can become a beast when his ego is trampled. Every woman must understand this If she wants ti get married. same way eery man should understand a woman's jealousy can make her pluck out a kids eyes. If you understand.

When Premier League go start nah?