BrokenHeart2016, I just read your post. I feel sad for you but at the same time, happy for you because..Now you will learn the true nature of today's women. Today's women are not like our mothers...they are selfish, heartless, wicked, demonic, evil and irrational. There is a reason why most younger men today don't have girlfriends...it's because of stories like yours. Yes they have women they sleep with every now and then but no permamnent girlfriend. Most have refused to get married. You see men today in their 40s with no wife!

Now, I know you are a simp or blue-pilled man; if you don't understand this, go and google it online....I'll not explain it to you. The first thing you need to know is: any money or resource expended on a woman that is not your wife or doesn't have kids for you is WASTE. It's better you give that money to a prostitute and in return she will give you something that you will be satisfied with for the money paid. Let me tell you something...a woman's brain doesn't remember whatever you have done for her if she decides to leave....NEVER! Once she is done with you, even if you bought her a house, she will not remember. 90% of men what pains them when a woman dumps or leaves them is...AFTER ALL I HAVE DONE FOR HER....LOL. Understanding this now will strengthen you as you move forward to getting your life together.

As time goes on, hopefully from now henceforth you will gradually develop into a Red-Pilled man...again, I'll not explain this to you; google is your friend. Don't you under any circumstance go and beg her. If you dare beg her; you are falling back into the Blue-pilled/simpish mentality you had that allowed this woman to use you and dump you. Cut off permanently from her...delete her number, whatever memorabilia she has in your house, throw them in the dustbin, delete everything from her on your life permanently and move on like a man that you are. Any attempt to try to beg her, she will lose more respect for you and will make her see you like a weak, insecure man....you are begging her despite how she treated you like a piece of rag....hellooooo? She doesn't even have the courtesy to tell you to your face...means she has zero regard and respect for you as a man. Remember woman's brain and a man's brain are different. A man loves a woman unconditionally but a woman only love a man WHEN SHE RESPECTS AND FEELS SECURED WITH HIM...80% OF MEN DON'T KNOW THIS AND EVEN MOST WOMEN DON'T KNOW THIS AS IT'S A SUBCONSCIOUS REACTION EXPECTED FROM THEM AS WOMEN. So when she respects you, she feels secured by your presence and automatically she loves you. She will love and cherish you as long as that respect is still there. What does this mean? It means that if you meet another woman in the future, you must exert a your boundary and control as a man from day one...don't be a simp or a blue-pilled man who do and tolerate stupid things to impress or get a woman. Establish your boundary as a Red-pilled man from day one, once she observes you are a red-pilled man, she will either run away if she is a runs-girl or stay if she is a good woman. Runs-girl will run away because she has no use of you...SHE CANNOT USE YOU!

Finally, these videos by a man called Sandman on youtube will offer therapeutic help for you as you heal from this. The vidoes have saved and strengthen over 1 billion men around the world to understanding today's women and their true nature!
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I'm a relationship specialist, have worked with many men who were formerly blue-pilled men, all are today red-pilled men, happy with wives or women in their lives!

An Ibo tribalist "advising" a Yoruba man.

Green snake in green grass. My people, be kiafu.

Be careful out there, my people.

My advice to you; stop your tribalism.

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Yorubanews:
Be careful out there, my people.

You low-life that has no life. Yes I attack yoruba tribalists like you...I have attacked you on this nairaland for months and will continue to attack you until you change your ways. The good ones like Fayose , many others and hopefully BrokenHeart2016 , I'll offer my advice.

new2020:


You low-life that has no life. Yes I attack yoruba tribalists like you...I have attacked you on this nairaland for months and will continue to attack you until you change your ways. The good ones like Fayose , many others and hopefully BrokenHeart2016 , I'll offer my advice.

Lol you attack any Yoruba. Your greatest fear is the Yoruba man. See you forming Agony Uncle for the people you hate.

See how happy you sound when Hausas attacked Yorubaland

new2020:


You low-life that has no life. Yes I attack yoruba tribalists like you...I have attacked you on this nairaland for months and will continue to attack you until you change your ways. The good ones like Fayose , many others and hopefully BrokenHeart2016 , I'll offer my advice.

Iss Fayose good ?? Uncle abeg modify that shii asap!

Jay542:


Iss Fayose good ?? Uncle abeg modify that shii asap!

They love Fayose because he hates Buhari. They fear any other Yoruba man.

Yorubanews:


They love Fayose because he hates Buhari. They fear any other Yoruba man.

Then they are being very silly.. he should just modify it that's my own.

This is politics section

Thank you for this piece

nice one OP